The worst decision I've ever made was making my OKC account name the same as my misc name.My ex now most likely being a lurker or full blown miscer for all I know. The relationship ended a few months ago, but I'm just now posting since she showed hard signs of a misc detective. This is my story:
I met a girl on OKC. I made an account on there after reading some success stories on here and thought I would check out it. I never thought it would lead to anything. I msged a few girls but didn't pull too much effort into it. Threw maybe one or two copy pastas around just cause I was curious what their reaction would be.
Not long after making the account I get a message from a grade A blonde. We chat and she seemed real interested and nice. I pull her number and we go on a date. I didn't think she was real interested in me on the first date, but she texted me a day later asking if I wanted to hang out again. The third date I kissed her.. Later that night I log onto misc to talk about her since it would feel too gay to talk feelings with my brahs. I thought she just was just amazing. She was everything I ever wanted in a GF. In my post I was very descriptive about her including her specs, boob size, blonde hair, age, how much money I thought she made, and I went into other things like how alpha I felt walking with her.
Fast forward 3 months into the relationship and I felt really lucky being with her. She learned of my obsession with Zyzz. This led to her checking out the misc in her free time.. texting me about how disgusted she was with all of you but thought some things were funny. I thought she had gotten over her curiosity with the misc, but boy was I wrong.
I drove over to her place and this was going to be the first night I was going to tell her I was falling in love with her. I'm a guy that hardly expresses how I feel so this was going to be a big night for me. We hang out for a few minutes, she pours me a glass of wine then proceeds to tell me she has something to show me that she was embarrassed about but that I would probably be more embarrassed. I laughed it off and she has me go sit on the couch. She picks up her laptop and just starts reading quotes of mine. She was pissed as phuck. I felt like I was having a session with Chris Hansen when he reads the chat logs to the ****s. It was the most ****ing embarrassing moment of my life.
I was just in shock and didn't know how to explain anything.. She started talking about her side of it how she detectived all my posts while she was at work.. she showed all her work friends my posts to see if this was normal for a guy to do...
I just tried apologizing the best I could since I really liked her and didn't want to her to just flat out dump me. I almost walked out of her place in sheer embarrassment.
She didn't dump me then but the relationship was downhill from there. Everywhere we went she would be like "how alpha do you feel right now?" and would just drop quotes from my posts. If I ever joked around about it like her though she would get mad and say I'm not actually sorry for the things I said.
Less than 2 weeks after that night I was single. I'm at my place and she came over. I made her some chicken and veggies. I felt like she was just looking for a reason to break up with me or something. She tells me how she's been scanning the misc waiting for me to post about that night. She brings **** up like 'why didn't I pay for our first date' etc... which we split because I didn't think there would be a second date. She starts saying how I don't pay for things enough. I said I don't think there's anything wrong with splitting a bill when we both make decent money and we go out a lot. She says she can't date someone like that and I'm not chivalrous and brings up the misc again. Walks out and haven't seen her since.
I know there are plenty of fish out there, but she had potential to be the best relationship I ever had.
stay safe
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Thread: My life is over
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10-31-2012, 08:00 PM #1Junior Mod
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My life is over
Last edited by RESILIENCY; 10-31-2012 at 08:10 PM.
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10-31-2012, 08:02 PM #2
hehe ty man.
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10-31-2012, 08:03 PM #3Registered User
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didn't read but will say this.
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10-31-2012, 08:03 PM #4One of Our Best Posters
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Goodbye future mod :/
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10-31-2012, 08:04 PM #5Dirty Bulk
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Keep tough UP just stay Resilient
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10-31-2012, 08:05 PM #6Texas Tech MISC.
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....im scared. Will you keep me safe?
When you see it, you'll sh** bricks.
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10-31-2012, 08:07 PM #7Registered User
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Pics?
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10-31-2012, 08:08 PM #8Registered User
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Expected babynames...I suppose everything went better than expected.
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10-31-2012, 08:08 PM #9Registered User
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10-31-2012, 08:08 PM #10Registered User
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Up until the end I was like you dun goofed but then when I read the part that she said she couldnt be with someone who didnt want to always foot the bill kinda pissed me off. Fuk her man she sounds like a spoiled b!tch.
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10-31-2012, 08:09 PM #11Lifts things&puts em down
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OP: The girl that has detectived you to that degree is not the girl of your dreams.
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10-31-2012, 08:09 PM #12good guy
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didn't read much because wall of text but
age:19, status: broken up, life = over
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10-31-2012, 08:09 PM #13Reposting from your old thread, assuming this isn't a troll or w.eOriginally Posted by RESILIENCY
Absolutely no loss PERIOD. I mean I don't know how you actually treat her IRL and whether you pay enough or w.e the other crap is but as far as misc'ing, she's a strong crazy, look at the bolded:
She's the one that has issues not you... Look at what she's doing? She's looking up all your posts just to show it to her work friends to ask for advice/just to show them. That's basically EXACTLY the same sh|t ppl do here at the misc... Met a girl on OKC? OK CLIFFS: MET GIRL ON OKC... exact ****ing thing... You posted some **** about how it feels to be with her, or stuff about her looks?
No one gives a fcuk, you can bet your ass she talked about your sh|t to her co-workers/or her girl-friends or what have you... Strong double standards + lack of reasoning skills/10 on her, not a loss on your part at all if she gets off trying to embarrass you with that ****, she's just a terrible a person no one cares.
On a different topic though... you either gotta be accountable to some extent for everything you say online, or use unconnected aliases when RL may be involved, or you just gotta not give a sh|t if people find out/call you out on it.
Long story short, cheer up you better off without her and rep me from your main account or something.
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10-31-2012, 08:10 PM #15Banned
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Saw this live and laughed hard. He is nuts.Originally Posted by Sebenza
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10-31-2012, 08:11 PM #16Please Stay Supple
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lol same reason i deactivated bodyspace
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10-31-2012, 08:11 PM #17Banned
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Cliffs:
OP finds a girls online he really likes, 10/10 blonde
Introduces her to the misc
She lurks, finds his account, reads his posts
Gets mad, decides what he posts is not normal
OP not paying for her crap, she don't like that
She mocks him with the misc quotes
Relationship goes down the hill because of the misc
they break up shortly after, OP sad.
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Moral of the story, watch what you post on the misc, may bite you in the аss one dayLast edited by Yanis; 10-31-2012 at 08:20 PM.
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10-31-2012, 08:12 PM #18Registered User
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anyone wanna be the good guy and do cliffs?
edit: wizard^
how the fck do you find a 10/10 online???:O aware me please!
and also why would you introduce her to misc?
and what a detective going thru your posts huh
edit 2: read the whole thing.
wow harsh man. fcking snoopy though. wow. im curious as to what are some of the things you posted now lol. but bringing up the fact that you dont pay for everything enough? is she serious? find someone else bro. :\ not even worth it. sucks that you were falling in love with her thoughLast edited by Lb54TG; 10-31-2012 at 08:19 PM.
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10-31-2012, 08:13 PM #19
at least she's gone now op u can focus on lifting and getting a better women who splits the bill
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10-31-2012, 08:14 PM #20Banned
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Originally Posted by Sebenza
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10-31-2012, 08:14 PM #21Registered User
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Wow brah i can feel the emoton, my condolenses.
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10-31-2012, 08:16 PM #22
hey OP's exgf if ur lurking pm me i have some archaeological questions for ya
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10-31-2012, 08:17 PM #23Registered Sex Offender
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Lmao there can be no better time to use the mjlaughing.gif, on phone so can't post it.
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10-31-2012, 08:17 PM #24Banned
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females know how to detective?
wow she was a keeper
maybe you should beta up to her?
remember, do exact opposite of misc.
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10-31-2012, 08:18 PM #25infidel
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A girl dumped me "my life is over". Stop being a bitch.
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10-31-2012, 08:19 PM #26
OP just copied what I posted 10 minutes ago is that even legal?
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10-31-2012, 08:20 PM #27Registered User
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that's where you gone wrong son.obsession with zyzz
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10-31-2012, 08:21 PM #28Junior Mod
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What? you ****ing copied me take that thread down right now! Don't **** with my emotions.Originally Posted by pspice
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10-31-2012, 08:23 PM #29Registered User
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There was a story not long ago about someone's ex wife printing old misc threads and using them in court to try for full custody.
Anything you post here is out there forever.
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10-31-2012, 08:23 PM #30Registered User
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I feel like I've read this story before on the misc
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