Guys that care about how many dicks a girl has had before yours

[mydawgs]

I make no judgement but IMO women and men that have a significant number of casual sexual partners begin to align this kind of activity with a norm, nothing special. Now someone who is more discriminating with regards to who and how many will not as easily align to this mindset. When a woman or a man chooses a spouse then sex is a bonding agent and a foundational aspect of a solidified marriage or LTR. You have to see this act as unique in some way, and the person you are being intimate with as unique, special...not normal or easily replaced. This is how monogamy works....you have to feel like what you have you could never have with someone else. And this does not mean that your intimacy will not change and evolve with the relationship, it does.

I know many women and men that have put their careers first, doctors, lawyers, entrepreneurs. This life choice does not negate the desire to have sex, so they do. When they finally get to a place where they want that one special experience that will weather the endless days and nights of normality....they have a more difficult time holding onto that "special quality" of this selected partner because of the sheer volume of their previous acts with many different partners, where as in the opposite scenario, the "volume" of acts are between the two people that have selected each other.

I would suspect I would be more leery of folks that have not leveraged another life direction and still have collected a huge number of sexual partners...this to me would indicate a behavioral issue.

And I have seen just as many HS sweet hearts cheat on their spouses as those who are more promiscuous. The promiscuous folks just know how to go about it better.

[NihilistBrah]

OP,

because most guys, myself included, consider that if a girl had a lot of partners she is more likely to cheat when in a committed relationship.

[FitnessBlue]

true I can't believe I actually agree with you but a girl 20% or under at 135 imo is above average physically for females..I think 99% of the brahs on misc though have unreal standards

Julie Foucher
age - 23
height 5'4
weight - 130 pounds









/would wife

At work and the only embedded pic I can see is that chick with the grey t-shirt and white sneakers. GROCE! If you think that's attractive, you have NO standards

[DarkOmen]

I do care about how many guys she's slept before and I always ask the question before getting involved?

Why? Well first of all I think that sex is something special and not sleeping around is a sign of self respect. Also the fact that I always declined girls, ONS, random hook ups and only had sex with 2 partners including my gf actual gf, is important.

On the other hand, if I had sex with random girls and had a number like 20, I wouldn't have the right to ask the same thing of a girl.

If you're a quality guy, then you deserve a quality girl

[Shoot4hoops]

true I can't believe I actually agree with you but a girl 20% or under at 135 imo is above average physically for females..I think 99% of the brahs on misc though have unreal standards

Julie Foucher
age - 23
height 5'4
weight - 130 pounds









/would wife

Misc standards just look at weight, not body fat on a female. Misc standards are 5'3, 115, with fake boobs and fake tan, and then wonder why she cheats.

[FitnessBlue]

Misc standards just look at weight, not body fat on a female. Misc standards are 5'3, 115, with fake boobs and fake tan, and then wonder why she cheats.

115lbs at 5'3"...whale

[Shoot4hoops]

115lbs at 5'3"...whale

I'm 21% body fat and proud of it. 5'7 and 135. So you weigh more when you have more muscle. Although getting this low has been tough on me mentally.

[FitnessBlue]

I'm 21% body fat and proud of it. 5'7 and 135. Although getting this low has been tough on me mentally.

Don't care about your stats. No avi=not human as far as I am concerned

[obe1cannoli]

1 million dicks is too many.

[w0rkinprogress]

I do care about how many guys she's slept before and I always ask the question before getting involved?

Why? Well first of all I think that sex is something special and not sleeping around is a sign of self respect. Also the fact that I always declined girls, ONS, random hook ups and only had sex with 2 partners including my gf actual gf, is important.

On the other hand, if I had sex with random girls and had a number like 20, I wouldn't have the right to ask the same thing of a girl.

If you're a quality guy, then you deserve a quality girl

This is very true. As a female I wouldn't go for a guy who had some huge number of ONS with anything that had a heartbeat. I think he is more likely to cheat (just as men think women with high numbers are more likely to cheat) and also I find it unattractive and kind of desperate to be so indiscriminate with who you sleep with. I think casual sex is fine if both parties are doing it for enjoyment (not selfesteem boost or ego) but I don't do it myself. If a guy has a few casual encounters that's fine, if he has a lot then I would be put off, most of them were probably gross and picked up at clubs every weekend and that to me indicates an attitude that doesn't work in a relationship. Just like guys don't want to date that girl at the club they take home, more discriminate girls don't want to date sloot guys who will take anything home just to get their number up. Same chit for both genders tbh, nobody wants to date the sloots.

[samsumon]

Point simple.. I care.. My ex had 7 before me.. Why did I care, none of those were boyfriends. 2 or 3 were one night stands and then some were kids she knew that just lead into sex (not one night stand per say, but one hook up and thats it)... I hated it because I felt she was used because she didnt care for her body. She went on a cruise to have fun and slept with a kid which she then regretted. Sorry, as a guy, I **** girls and dont think necessarily about their "respect" as Im doing them, knowing maybe 1 or 2 guys did that, is fine by me.. Let a girl have fun, but when its more than that, its more like, why should I care then. Why do I need to work so hard. then again Ive been with 30+ girls, so Its hard for me to say much.

[Legend1617]

At work and the only embedded pic I can see is that chick with the grey t-shirt and white sneakers. GROCE! If you think that's attractive, you have NO standards

will admit that I barely have any standards but I am not sure if your being srs?she looks good to me above average imo because she is in great shape not bodybuilder status though just athletic.I have tried with 200+ chicks just to see if I can pull them & I can't..I am at 0 due to my lack of aesthetics have a big forehead which bothers me,mental issues would partially say it's my own fault because Idk if I want to sleep with a random girl that I am into or not into.

[Legend1617]

Point simple.. I care.. My ex had 7 before me.. Why did I care, none of those were boyfriends. 2 or 3 were one night stands and then some were kids she knew that just lead into sex (not one night stand per say, but one hook up and thats it)... I hated it because I felt she was used because she didnt care for her body. She went on a cruise to have fun and slept with a kid which she then regretted. Sorry, as a guy, I **** girls and dont think necessarily about their "respect" as Im doing them, knowing maybe 1 or 2 guys did that, is fine by me.. Let a girl have fun, but when its more than that, its more like, why should I care then. Why do I need to work so hard. then again Ive been with 30+ girls, so Its hard for me to say much.

lulz 30+?you don't give a phuck

[FitnessBlue]

will admit that I barely have any standards but I am not sure if your being srs?she looks good to me above average imo because she is in great shape not bodybuilder status though just athletic.I have tried with 200+ chicks just to see if I can pull them & I can't..I am at 0 due to my lack of aesthetics have a big forehead which bothers me,mental issues would partially say it's my own fault because Idk if I want to sleep with a random girl that I am into or not into.

No hate brah, was purely talking about the pics. Everyone has standards. I guess the biggest part of why I said "GROCE!" regarding that chick is that she looks like a bulldyke. I am into BB'ing and fitness, but when girls are lifting serious like that, it's groce to me, not feminine at all. She's deff "husky" too. I guess for me, being "attracted" to a girl means more than just her looks. It could be a barbie doll look a like in that rack and I would still be put off. Sorry for the slight de-rail. But yeah, IMO that chick = would not look twice