Took all the standard misc advice for meeting women. All of it failed (srs)

[FAPhaggot]

-Online dating (spent $100 on Bumble this month for unlimited likes, profile boosts, got 3 likes and 3 unmatches)

-Hitting bars (women NEVER show up to bars single, and I can't get the time of day in those)

-Hobbies (golfmaxxing for me, I've probably played 30 rounds this year and have never been paired with a woman of any age)

-Volunteered (got assigned with two 50+ old women to clean up a bicycle trail)

-Went to art museums (no single women there... they all come with guys)

-Joined two rec sports leagues (literally everyone else there... guys and girls... was in a couple, and the rec leagues kinda dissolved once season was done so no long term friends).

-Social circle / friends (every guy I talk to is a pussy-starved Indian engineer).

26 and never held hands with a woman, brahs. I'm running out of hopium.

[umop3pisdn]

The only other obvious one that you haven't done is going to church.

[eod8989]

It's just normal for dudes in their 20's these days

[sabusake]

The only other obvious one that you haven't done is going to church.

this

[e1739]

Complain a lot at work. You'll have a TON of women trying to be your friend.

[MotorCityCobra]

strong username to reality ratio

[Voidgaze]

Lifting will boost your J.B.W factor by a lot, srs.

[propreffered7]

grow some huge fuken testicles and make chit happen. are there women in the world? then you're wrong *******.

btw, this is what women find attractive. dead srs

a guy who has his chit together like this. and has huge fuken balls and isn't afraid to get what he wants. das it

this doesn't mean every woman will sleep with you btw.

start going to festivals. what about the beach? pick places where you'll never see a girl again if you're rejected. and go ham approaching them

there is a huge fuken difference being the guy i described and being a cuck "waiting back" - to see signs, as though you are unsure of yourself looking for their validation. actually, opposites tbh

one guy is waiting back looking for the action; he's not creating it, others are creating it for him. and the other guy is creating the action

i know you're not there as a FA brah. but you know what your goal is (to get women) so actually fuken try

[homersexual]

- volunteer work at animal shelter, habitat for humanity, zoo. Maybe even join support teams that help setup and takedown barriers at funruns, 10ks, Spartans...pass out water, etc..

- rec leagues: it's the long game, can't leave after a season. Ask teammates which sport or rec league they're transitioning to next and join them.

And yeah church is a good option. Just don't get smited by God while sitting down on a pew.

Golf is fun but you'll only meet old women which isn't a bad thing if you're into the sport and want tips but otherwise look elsewhere.

[SmashinYoungVag]

Have you tried not being ugly

[OT2000]

Try the grocery store and make sure you use a basket, not a cart.

[Voidgaze]

There's also relocating, because I feel like CA is could possibly be chit tier in terms of dating for any average dude.

My life is a write-off

Your life is a write-off? Last I checked you're settled into your career making 6 figures.

You're an engineer which means you're contributing something to society.

Trust me, I 350% get how difficult the game is, and even while trying to stay positive it can still get you down after putting in so much effort.

[friesbruh]

looked at your post, saw what you tried, can confirm why all that "didnt work" is because you give waaaaaay too many fuks about it and from the sounds of it, no offense OP, but you probably came off as the kind of guy who only did all that to try and get laid. i mean you go thru it on here like its some checklist. not trying to be a d*ck but thats what it sounds like to me. then again maybe it really is that bad for 20-somethings but in general, the less fuks you give about a particular thing, oddly, the more success comes your way.

[SoutheastBeast1]

What about walking up and saying hi?

[propreffered7]

Imagine someone is a convicted felon with a GED. They apply for 1000 white collar jobs and get rejected for all of them.

Are you really going to advise them that their problem is that they're not confident enough and that they didn't apply enough and that the solution is to apply more?

yea, because i can tell by op's descriptions he hasn't done chit

his perspective is still of someone waiting back looking for action as opposed to making the action

there's no shortage of women out there

i bet my left nut op hasn't approached random women trying to make chit happen cause it's hard. i bet he bought too hard into misc "chad" meme's where guys ego aggrandize

so when he goes to the bar he just sits there like a woman expecting the woman to do the work

[Voidgaze]

Imagine someone is a convicted felon with a GED. They apply for 1000 white collar jobs and get rejected for all of them.

Are you really going to advise them that their problem is that they're not confident enough and that they didn't apply enough and that the solution is to apply more?

The truth is a lot of guys around here have gotten by with 90% looks and 10% mediocre game.

Do you really expect them to know anything?


Of course when you come up short, they don't know what to say or do so they'll default to "You aren't trying hard enough".

yea, because i can tell by op's descriptions he hasn't done chit

his perspective is still of someone waiting back looking for action as opposed to making the action

there's no shortage of women out there

i bet my left nut op hasn't approached random women trying to make chit happen cause it's hard. i bet he bought too hard into misc "chad" meme's where guys ego aggrandize

so when he goes to the bar he just sits there like a woman expecting the woman to do the work

Case in point in reference to my last statement.

[propreffered7]

Case in point in reference to my last statement.

but how is it not apt?

how many women are out there in the world?

do you really think they're all 7's and above?

[Voidgaze]

but how is it not apt?

how many women are out there in the world?

do you really think they're all 7's and above?

There are lots. Plenty.

The world? So now traveling internationally is a requirement for the average male to find a woman? We're in the US so lets limit the scope to that.

I'm not sure what your last question has to do with what I said.

[trufflepigg]

just be yourself bro

[Muzzlrpress]

Can you detail the interactions you had with women?

Have you been getting rejected, or have you not gotten to that part?

Do you flirt? Are you playful? Do you smile?

Have you asked for the number or insta or whatever the kids use these days?

pls respond srs

[SeymourGains]

Post jaw

[eod8989]

OP i might make a video on this later but when i go places i only see gen x and boomers talking but it's never really anything interesting they just know how to small talk

When you go places everyone is either on their phone or it's a group of zoomers with broccoli hair or just couples (literally everyone is just in their established small groups or on their phones)

I can't meet anyone either the only people that talk to me are Gen Xers or gay dudes tbh

I'm not much older than you and started noticing all this chit when i was your age (26)

[propreffered7]

There are lots. Plenty.

The world? So now traveling internationally is a requirement for the average male to find a woman? We're in the US so lets limit the scope to that.

I'm not sure what your last question has to do with what I said.

no, not travelling but just that there are tons of girls out there. soo... seems likely it's what i said. some guy complains about eating when 7 burgers are in front of him it's a little tough to bear right?

i think the 7's comment is giving credit to what you guys say about women's "too high standards" but again im just referencing that there are LOTS of women out there with which to make chit happen

[Omnivium]

Are you actually attractive though? Because going to events and approaching are pointless if you're unattractive

[propreffered7]

I don't know what your college experience was like but when I was in college, everybody started with high hopes. Everybody thought they were going to be a doctor or engineer. Then reality slapped them in the face. After the first semester, 95% of them got weeded out by intro classes. They were just too stupid and too lazy. OP on the other hand has a masters in electrical engineering. That's all I need to know about him to know that he diligently works hard at everything and makes good decisions.

Yet because he's not doing well with women, miscers are calling him stupid and lazy. Those same miscers would've been the dummies that got weeded out that I talked about earlier. OP is a superior human being to y'all yet y'all talk down to him. Really grinds my gears.

that has nothing to do with anything tbh. some guy successful at anything doesn't mean he's successful with women

there are totally guys out there that are successful in other avenues and not with women

even suggesting that is the wrong mentality imo

"hey im good at math" does not mean "hey im good with women"

nor does it entitle you to it

[Voidgaze]

but again im just referencing that there are LOTS of women out there with which to make chit happen

This is really just regurgitating what everyone else says because they don't know what else to say.

We all know that already.



However I will say that there are probably things OP hasn't tried, but I don't think it's intentional or out of laziness on his part. Relocation is an option, but there's no guarantee of success. Lifting is the better option because while it may not immediately pay off it will help OP's confidence a bit which can help in social settings.

[Jestbrah]

try picking a not all male middle to old aged hobby next time


report back


even better pick one that females love but isnt seen as gay

[BillTheBro]

If you are 26 and never been laid, it's time to slay the dragon bro.


You gotta lower the standards all the way and just come on strong, eventually a chick will be so desperate that she'll be like fuk it. Gets way easier after the first one down.

[propreffered7]

This is really just regurgitating what everyone else says because they don't know what else to say.

We all know that already.



However I will say that there are probably things OP hasn't tried, but I don't think it's intentional or out of laziness on his part. Relocation is an option, but there's no guarantee of success. Lifting is the better option because while it may not immediately pay off it will help OP's confidence a bit which can help in social settings.

it is bro. as i said, i can tell by your demeanor and the way you write and same with FA*******. for instance, he made a thread a long time ago where some goth chick approached him at a goth event. and he didn't know what to say or do and then all the ****s in the thread convinced him he was only used for free drinks. whereas the guy im talking about wouldn't have been guessing or anything for that matter, even if he was wrong, he prob would have assumed she was there for him. or at least could have made it so

i remember posts not too long ago where you were like in a thread saying you didn't know what to say and i came up with like 4 or 5 ways to continue the conversation. i'm not saying they're all great, but really... step back and analyze if your personality is really holding you back. it is a part of the equation

and some of you are stubborn as fuk. i absolutely believe you could read the chit here and not try to change... and you're changing because you're unsuccessful and want to be successful. im not even touting "work" as some be all end all either.. but that's what you're gonna have to do if you're continuously failing

and btw, unfortunately, having your spirit quashed to the point that you're unwilling to try is prob the antithesis to poosy wetting. so that in and of itself could ix-nay you right there..it's tough but true

[alltrapbrah]

No offence OP but this is the price you pay spending the entirety of your youth Engineer maxing. You got a 6 figure salary out of it tho so it’s far from a waste, but what you sacrificed to get that is no joke.

I’m not saying you can’t correct your women woes, but tackling it this late in the game is akin to selecting extreme difficulty mode.