Gf just found out I cheated on her. Never felt so terrible

[smashedurgfx10]

Cliffs:

-Met up with this girl I used to date years ago (never had sex and don't class her as a gf)
-we went to get food one evening and made out (girlfriend doesn't know we kissed but she wouldn't even listen to my story so may assume anything happened )

-could have gone further but I didn't want to. She messages me all the time asking to meet and flirting with me and I do my best to not do it back

-me and gf were going through a rough patch which is why I met up with her. I don't actually want to be with her and I love my girlfriend to pieces. She is my first and I feel terrible

-happened last night. She randomly asks when was the last time me and x spoke. I was like a month to ago (I guessed).

-she asks to see my phone. I was an idiot and knew there were texts on there to and from her. Including from the night we met up and me telling her x (girlfriend) can't find out. Really horrible stuff.

-she hates this girl and vice versa and has cried multiple times because the girl is mean to her. Ti be totally honest when I met up with her I forgot how she had been to gf. I have no idea why. If I had remembered I'd have never have gone

-gf broke up. With me (understandably) and cancelled our holiday to morroco in 2 weeks

-feel like absolute ****

[RRiddlemethis]

Cliffs:

-Met up with this girl I used to date years ago (never had sex and don't class her as a gf)
-we went to get food one evening and made out (girlfriend doesn't know we kissed but she wouldn't even listen to my story so may assume anything happened )

-could have gone further but I didn't want to. She messages me all the time asking to meet and flirting with me and I do my best to not do it back

-me and gf were going through a rough patch which is why I met up with her. I don't actually want to be with her and I love my girlfriend to pieces. She is my first and I feel terrible

-happened last night. She randomly asks when was the last time me and x spoke. I was like a month to ago (I guessed).

-she asks to see my phone. I was an idiot and knew there were texts on there to and from her. Including from the night we met up and me telling her x (girlfriend) can't find out. Really horrible stuff.

-she hates this girl and vice versa and has cried multiple times because the girl is mean to her. Ti be totally honest when I met up with her I forgot how she had been to gf. I have no idea why. If I had remembered I'd have never have gone

-gf broke up. With me (understandably) and cancelled our holiday to morroco in 2 weeks

-feel like absolute ****

This girl has bigger balls than most of misc. good for her.

[smashedurgfx10]

This girl has bigger balls than most of misc. good for her.

I am remorseful and accept it was my fault. More than most girls who cheat would do. They'd blame their boyfriend. Just can't believe 2 years have been thrown away like this. She have me so much love and attention. I was selfish. May never find a girl who understands me. Like that

[TheFuarkingBoss]

Your girlfriends alpha, your a little beta bitch, running around like a headless chicken for some sloots. Negged

[elterrible987]

Cliffs:

-Met up with this girl I used to date years ago (never had sex and don't class her as a gf)
-we went to get food one evening and made out (girlfriend doesn't know we kissed but she wouldn't even listen to my story so may assume anything happened )

-could have gone further but I didn't want to. She messages me all the time asking to meet and flirting with me and I do my best to not do it back

-me and gf were going through a rough patch which is why I met up with her. I don't actually want to be with her and I love my girlfriend to pieces. She is my first and I feel terrible

-happened last night. She randomly asks when was the last time me and x spoke. I was like a month to ago (I guessed).

-she asks to see my phone. I was an idiot and knew there were texts on there to and from her. Including from the night we met up and me telling her x (girlfriend) can't find out. Really horrible stuff.

-she hates this girl and vice versa and has cried multiple times because the girl is mean to her. Ti be totally honest when I met up with her I forgot how she had been to gf. I have no idea why. If I had remembered I'd have never have gone

-gf broke up. With me (understandably) and cancelled our holiday to morroco in 2 weeks

-feel like absolute ****

your tickets already paid for? can i come to morroco with you brah?

[smashedurgfx10]

Your girlfriends alpha, your a little beta bitch, running around like a headless chicken for some sloots. Negged

Oh. Wow some negs

[karatewoman]

You dun goofed.

[smashedurgfx10]

your tickets already paid for? can i come to morroco with you brah?

Nah mate won't be going soz

[bobbydigitaloa]

Good for your GF, she'll find someone that's not a fukin idiot.

[daboss1791]

Your GF did what most folks that come to the misc for advice never do. She obviously has bigger balls than you and I hope she finds someone decent. Live and learn and if you ever find someone that good again, try not to be a douchebag. Negged for being a lying, cheating *******.

[JyzzMagnet]

Well assuming the girl you met up with wasn't just trying to be a homewrecker you could hang with her. Personally I don't think it's that terrible the situation you're in. GF asking to see phone is pretty lame, considering if you asked to see hers you'd get chided by most of us here on the misc.

[smashedurgfx10]

You guys do realise your negs aren't actually helping? I'm already feeling bad enough

[smashedurgfx10]

Your GF did what most folks that come to the misc for advice never do. She obviously has bigger balls than you and I hope she finds someone decent. Live and learn and if you ever find someone that good again, try not to be a douchebag. Negged for being a lying, cheating *******.

I never want to see her again. She was in a relationship as well and they were having problems which was why she was monkey branching to me. I allowed myself to be tempted by her. I never wanted her

[Mr Beer]

Oh well.

Two lessons here, don't cheat but also don't leave evidence of your cheating just laying around like you're some kind of lazy ****monger.

[IBench5Pounds]

funny how you made this thread after you got caught rather than after you cheated... wonder what you really feel terrible about

[smashedurgfx10]

funny how you made this thread after you got caught rather than after you cheated... wonder what you really feel terrible about

The only reason I didn't come clean is because I love her and I knew it would kill her inside. I would rather take the risk of not telling her in the hope she doesn't find out (as long as I don't do it again, which I haven't). Why put someone through the pain she is feeling now

[RRiddlemethis]

The only reason I didn't come clean is because I love her and I knew it would kill her inside.

seems like she moved the f*ck on reeeeal quick there, OP.

[DolphinPilot]

The only reason I didn't come clean is because I love her and I knew it would kill her inside. I would rather take the risk of not telling her in the hope she doesn't find out (as long as I don't do it again, which I haven't). Why put someone through the pain she is feeling now

But if you did love and her and you did respect her, you would come to the realization that she needs to know what you did, regardless of the repercussions you will have to go through. Being selfish and wanting to con her into staying with you is not a sign that you love her. She doesn't deserve someone who cheats on her and tries to cover it up, and her breaking up with you is something you will have to deal with.

[smashedurgfx10]

seems like she moved the f*ck on reeeeal quick there, OP.

Don't blame her I'd do the same

[smashedurgfx10]

But if you did love and her and you did respect her, you would come to the realization that she needs to know what you did, regardless of the repercussions you will have to go through. Being selfish and wanting to con her into staying with you is not a sign that you love her. She doesn't deserve someone who cheats on her and tries to cover it up, and her breaking up with you is something you will have to deal with.

Don't agree with you. What I did was most definitely horrible and I don't deserve her. But I was not 'conning' her. I can't bear to see her upset which is why I couldn't tell her. The selfish aspect was there of course, but I was as loving toward her as I've always been. It was a mistake that shouldn't have happened. Do you really think everyone who cheats tell their so? No, 80% do exactly what I did for both moral and selfish reasons

[JGats]

seems like she moved the f*ck on reeeeal quick there, OP.

This lol. Plenty of guys here claim to cheat regularly and don't get the strong reaction seen here. Like women don't cheat or monkey branch whenever they hit a "rough patch." I'm sure she just made a new "friend" at work OP.

She's probably laughing right now thinking about how convenient this situation is. Make OP feel guilty while she does whatever she wants with whomever she wants.

It has to do with your rep power. Just get high reps and next time none of this Chris Brown kissy kissy stuff. All or nothing brah.

[DolphinPilot]

Don't agree with you. What I did was most definitely horrible and I don't deserve her. But I was not 'conning' her. I can't bear to see her upset which is why I couldn't tell her. The selfish aspect was there of course, but I was as loving toward her as I've always been. It was a mistake that shouldn't have happened. Do you really think everyone who cheats tell their so? No, 80% do exactly what I did for both moral and selfish reasons

And that somehow makes it okay? And no, those 80% of people are scumfuks who try to keep their SOs around so they can keep dating and ****ing like nothing happened. You can tell yourself you did it because you didn't want to see her upset, but you obviously just didn't want to have to deal with the consequences.

[alltrapbrah]

The only reason I didn't come clean is because I love her and I knew it would kill her inside. I would rather take the risk of not telling her in the hope she doesn't find out.

You have an immature perception of love...

But then again you're young, so I shouldn't expect you to be mature. Hopefully time and experience will sort your chit out.

[alltrapbrah]

Good for your GF, she'll find someone that's not a fukin idiot.

I don't think it'll be quite that simple if her track record is anything to go by...

[smashedurgfx10]

, those 80% of people are scumfuks who try to keep their SOs around so they can keep dating and ****ing like nothing happened.

Except that's not what I wanted to do. It was a one off

[Tresiel]

your tickets already paid for? can I come to morroco with you brah?

In for Morroco lottery (srsly was thinking about taking my gf there for her Bday)

The only reason I didn't come clean is because I love her and I knew it would kill her inside. I would rather take the risk of not telling her in the hope she doesn't find out (as long as I don't do it again, which I haven't). Why put someone through the pain she is feeling now

You mean because she would dump you and you would feel chit... like you do now.

On a srs note you are 22 man the fk up. You think this has never happened to anyone else before? end of the day she isn't the girl for you or you wouldn't have been entertaining it?

PS. Did you fk the other bish?

[Motiviert]

seems like she moved the f*ck on reeeeal quick there, OP.

This. Glad she did op. I don't give a **** what any limp dick tranny loving miscer says, cheating is wrong as fuk

[smashedurgfx10]

In for Morroco lottery (srsly was thinking about taking my gf there for her Bday)



You mean because she would dump you and you would feel chit... like you do now.

On a srs note you are 22 man the fk up. You think this has never happened to anyone else before? end of the day she isn't the girl for you or you wouldn't have been entertaining it?

PS. Did you fk the other bish?

I'm not giving away the tickets and no I didn't fuk her. I made out with her in my car.

[Tresiel]

I'm not giving away the tickets and no I didn't fuk her. I made out with her in my car.

Well hopefully that make out session was worth 2 years of a relationship. You are young. I wouldn't even call this a mistake, just a learning experience. Perhaps you will find out you would prefer an alternative type of relationship or perhaps it will help you to keep your lips to 1 girl only when you are in a relationship.

Seems like deep down you wanted to confess anyway since you gave her the phone knowing the evidence on it.

Dust yourself off and move on. Your whole life is waiting for you.


EDIT: Just clocked your name "I Smashed your GF ten times" lul

[smashedurgfx10]

Well hopefully that make out session was worth 2 years of a relationship. You are young. I wouldn't even call this a mistake, just a learning experience. Perhaps you will find out you would prefer an alternative type of relationship or perhaps it will help you to keep your lips to 1 girl only when you are in a relationship.

Seems like deep down you wanted to confess anyway since you gave her the phone knowing the evidence on it.

Dust yourself off and move on. Your whole life is waiting for you.


EDIT: Just clocked your name "I Smashed your GF ten times" lul

Wasn't worth it at all. My girlfriend knows me so well. I slept over at her house like 5x a week normally. Basically living with her without officially living with her. Every little detail about me she knows and vice versa. It feels so good being that close to someone.

And I screwed it up for a kiss with some ****in home wrecking whore.

And no I didn't want to confess. She said to me either show me your phone or leave now and I'm cancelling the holiday (so essentially it was a lose lose, but at least if I showed her the phone it could be seen as I was trying to be open). Backfired I guess