Well that's that, breaking up with gf today (SRS)

[MikeATL]

Moved in with this chick 4 months ago after dating 2 years and she has two kids, 5 & 7 (I'm an older brah). Moved in cuz I was looking for a house and we were thinking about getting more serious and figured it was stupid to be paying rent. What a mistake that turned out to be. She had spoiled her boys to sleep with her in bed.

Since day one this has been a nightmare, there hasn't been a single night that they haven't come into the room waking me up. At first I tried to deal with it but when you have 3 other people in the bed that flop around like damn fish it's hard to sleep. So the first couple of months I was nice about it and would ask her to take them back to THEIR bedrooms or would myself. Then I asked her to fix it or I would move out, as I was consistently sleep deprived. They continuously come back into the room after taking them back. Her 7 y/o is notorious for screaming ass down the hall and then gets 5-6 inches from your face, which never fails to scare dafuq out of me and I've srs about punched him a few times after jumping up from a deep sleep not realizing what's going on. She's like a light bulb and goes right back to sleep but takes me FOREVER to fall back asleep esp after getting the chit scared out of me, and I've averaged 2-3 hours of sleep a night since moving in. I've slept in my car in her driveway, on the floor, often take naps in car at lunch, and often just rent a hotel room after 5-6 nights of little to no sleep.

Monday I literally got 0 minutes of sleep after them coming in 7-8 times during the night. Couldn't even function at work yesterday and got called out on it by my client as my eyes were bloodshot as hell and couldn't even form coherent sentences while they're paying $285/hr for me to be there. Come home and she asked me why I was being an ahole because "you only lost one night's sleep, what's the big deal?". Absolutely lost my chit and told her we were done.

Girl is cool AF other than this issue and we have NEVER fought but this is beyond ridiculous. Gave her 4 months to fix it, and I wasn't beta about it at all. Fuk it I'm out going NC too as soon as I move, hopefully in the next week.

/Dear diary
/No pics
Srs

Cliffs - don't date chicks with kids, or just make sure and go home after you clean up with a towel

[MajesticBeat]

Raising someone else's kids is like playing someone else's saved game.

You just don't do it.

[moonfarious]

whats your job?

[Productivity]

fukin LOL'd at the part where you said you cant fall asleep after having the chit scared out of you.

[newleaseonlife]

Edit. 2 years of dating...

The whole thing was a fuking mistake.

[dustiestuniform]

I stopped reading at moved in with girl who has 2 kids.

[k1ckstand]

a 7 year old kid can't sleep in his own bed?

good luck bruh

[Maj01]

258/hr? Wtf do you do brah. I need that kind of money.

[ryanscut]

MOVED IN with this chick 4 months ago after DATING 2 years and she has TWO KIDS, 5 & 7.

Found the problem.

[Lambo2579]

1st mistake...

Dating a chick with kids

2nd mistake.

Moving in with any woman regardless of children after 4 months

3rd mistake

dating a woman regardless of children without a place of her own.

4th mistake

if dating women with children wait until super serious before meeting them.


Now you're not just booting her out, you're booting an entire family out. You will not win in this situation, should have played it different form the jump.

strong comprehension skills, broseph. He moved in with her. The rest I would agree with, though...

[BrocepCurls]

lol just lol at dating someone with kids from another guy

how do people like you exist

[Benny_Lava]

those kids are gonna have some issues.

[thsker]

But who was locking the bedroom door?

[dustiestuniform]

258/hr? Wtf do you do brah. I need that kind of money.

That's most likely what his company is billing his client not what he personally is making.

[dustwyrm]

How does 5'9" make $285/hr.

Merlin






































You're an older brah and you weren't able to evaluate this situation better before you got yourself into living arrangements with a 4mo gf and 2 kids? What did you expect to happen. Kids cry, fuk chit up, scream, act like chitheads... theyre 5 yrs old brah. If you really care about the girl, which is sounds like you do, don't break up with her, just work harder to fix your sleeping problems. I mean, I have no kids around me and I only sleep 4 hrs a night. So you're almost there brah.

[Afka]

Moved in with this chick 4 months ago after dating 2 years and she has two kids, 5 & 7 (I'm an older brah). Moved in cuz I was looking for a house and we were thinking about getting more serious and figured it was stupid to be paying rent. What a mistake that turned out to be. She had spoiled her boys to sleep with her in bed.

Since day one this has been a nightmare, there hasn't been a single night that they haven't come into the room waking me up. At first I tried to deal with it but when you have 3 other people in the bed that flop around like damn fish it's hard to sleep. So the first couple of months I was nice about it and would ask her to take them back to THEIR bedrooms or would myself. Then I asked her to fix it or I would move out, as I was consistently sleep deprived. They continuously come back into the room after taking them back. Her 7 y/o is notorious for screaming ass down the hall and then gets 5-6 inches from your face, which never fails to scare dafuq out of me and I've srs about punched him a few times after jumping up from a deep sleep not realizing what's going on. She's like a light bulb and goes right back to sleep but takes me FOREVER to fall back asleep esp after getting the chit scared out of me, and I've averaged 2-3 hours of sleep a night since moving in. I've slept in my car in her driveway, on the floor, often take naps in car at lunch, and often just rent a hotel room after 5-6 nights of little to no sleep.

Monday I literally got 0 minutes of sleep after them coming in 7-8 times during the night. Couldn't even function at work yesterday and got called out on it by my client as my eyes were bloodshot as hell and couldn't even form coherent sentences while they're paying $285/hr for me to be there. Come home and she asked me why I was being an ahole because "you only lost one night's sleep, what's the big deal?". Absolutely lost my chit and told her we were done.

Girl is cool AF other than this issue and we have NEVER fought but this is beyond ridiculous. Gave her 4 months to fix it, and I wasn't beta about it at all. Fuk it I'm out going NC too as soon as I move, hopefully in the next week.

/Dear diary
/No pics
Srs

Cliffs - don't date chicks with kids, or just make sure and go home after you clean up with a towel

[Marronis]

I wouldn't move into a girls place

[YIAMSOMEBODY]

If everything else is cool besides this, move into your own place. This one issue shouldn't break you up. That's what I would do.

[OfficerJimLahey]

those kids are gonna have some issues.

This. Best for you to follow through on this. Good luck with your quality sleep goals of early October 2014

[ConnorMaynard]

whats your job?

this man

give me some money op pls, just a lil sum'n sum'n

[BrandG]

What if you just move back out and keep your relationship until she can force her kids to mature?

[Lambo2579]

That's most likely what his company is billing his client not what he personally is making.

Regardless, the clients are paying OPs company 285/hr (not 258, btw) but it's OP that's doing the work. would still be interested in knowing what that is, myself. I'm near the ATL, so maybe you should hire me as an assistant? I could even screen your bishes, OP lol

[NoFeels]

The issue here isn't dating someone with kids or living with someone with kids.

The issue is this girl raising her kids like a fukin retard.

[MikeATL]

I'm an older brah, finding women without baggage or kids (or both) is tough but sure gonna try harder now and not get into this situation again.

Work in IT for a large software company

[Deezenutz]

Lold at op feeling the need to throw in $285/hr job

[Lambo2579]

If everything else is cool besides this, move into your own place. This one issue shouldn't break you up. That's what I would do.

What if you just move back out and keep your relationship until she can force her kids to mature?

kid is 7 and still sleeping in the bed with mom? would take forever (or a REAL fkn patient man) for the kid to mature at this rate. The mother would have to seriously rethink her parenting methods and start from scratch imho...

[GreenWave1]

That sucks man. But at least you know now before you bought a place together.

Question: Didn't you sleep at her place in the two years? If so, why didn't you know about this?

[newleaseonlife]

strong comprehension skills, broseph. He moved in with her. The rest I would agree with, though...

If you see above I edited my post.

[MikeATL]

What if you just move back out and keep your relationship until she can force her kids to mature?

Lol, she mentioned this no thanks Jeff, too many women in ATL if she can't fix this we have bigger problems w/her seeing how much chit I've been through. Told her a couple months ago if I move out we're done.

[drvillain]

damn, when your clients call you out, you know something needs to change. Sorry it didn't work out OP, but I'm glad you realized ****s gotta change