Why am I scared on talking to guys irl? (srs) (female, no homo)

**Sixoutoften** · 09-13-2011, 07:44 PM

I honestly need people's honest opinions on why I'm so scared on talking to guys irl, or when I talk to guys, even if I do plan on getting to know them better, I act like a cheeky kuunt in my own defense to not seem too needy.

At the gym, guys will stare, smile, but they won't make the first move on talking to me. If they're expecting me to go talk to them, they're honestly mistaken.

How do I summon up the courage that guys aren't bad? I've never been in a long term relationship before, because I always expect to get hurt.

TL;DR: HAO DO I APPROACH MEN WITHOUT COMING OFF AS A SLUT TY TY IN ADVANCE K

**gswarrior510** · 09-13-2011, 07:47 PM

holy **** you are tiny, let's have sex

**try2333** · 09-13-2011, 07:57 PM

just smile back at them and look down kinda like ur being bashful then look back up and smile again thats when id go holler lol

**Sixoutoften** · 09-13-2011, 07:57 PM

Originally Posted by gswarrior510

holy **** you are tiny, let's have sex

oh kk

**sanblz33** · 09-13-2011, 08:00 PM

Must.................................Not.......... .....................Feed......................... Troll!

**TheBateman** · 09-13-2011, 08:00 PM

you're putting the pussy on the pedestal

**Sixoutoften** · 09-13-2011, 08:00 PM

Originally Posted by sanblz33

Must.................................Not.......... .....................Feed......................... Troll!

for once i'm actually not trolling. i'm being serious. ffs i actually posted 2 spoon pictures, yes, girls actually use this site.

**sanblz33** · 09-13-2011, 08:01 PM

Originally Posted by TheBateman

you're putting the pussy on the pedestal

Doesnt apply here brah! The troll is female

**Luke_Skyguy** · 09-13-2011, 08:09 PM

1. Lift up your top.
2. Smile like a cheeky kunt
3. ???
4. Profit

**Ecnewyx** · 09-13-2011, 08:59 PM

Originally Posted by gswarrior510

holy **** you are tiny, let's have sex

This.

But in respect of srs tag...

holy **** you are tiny, let's have sex srs.

Originally Posted by Sixoutoften

TL;DR: HAO DO I APPROACH MEN WITHOUT COMING OFF AS A SLUT TY TY IN ADVANCE K

You are now aware that approaching guys doesn't make guys think of you as a slut. Getting bukkake'd by a guy and three of his friends in the men's room of a bar makes them think of you as a slut.

**nvrstopworking** · 09-13-2011, 09:15 PM

I honestly don't know why you're afraid of talking to guys.... if you're even halfway attractive guys will almost ALWAYS take the time to talk to you.

Put your big girl panties on and just DO IT. They're not gonna bite..... unless you want them to. lulz.

**bbbee** · 09-13-2011, 09:21 PM

uhm...

what?

**Ecnewyx** · 09-13-2011, 09:28 PM

Originally Posted by bbbee

uhm...

what?

You should be an archaeologist.

**Sixoutoften** · 09-13-2011, 09:34 PM

Originally Posted by nvrstopworking

I honestly don't know why you're afraid of talking to guys.... if you're even halfway attractive guys will almost ALWAYS take the time to talk to you.

Put your big girl panties on and just DO IT. They're not gonna bite..... unless you want them to. lulz.

Most of them feel "intimidated" to talk to me, because I look "rude".
I'm not going to lie, I've had a lot of good relationship potential guys asking to hangout etc. but they're awkward as fawrk aka they say all the wrong things or have massive social anxiety issues.

it's either that or i go for the wrong guys and get played. i just found out i've been getting played for the last month or so, feelsbadman.jpg

**csreborn** · 09-13-2011, 09:39 PM

Honestly, honesty, honestly if you are scared to talk to guys its because you are insecure. The gym is a bad place to pick up on woman generally because most guys want to get their shiet done, and most girls don't want to be bothered. When I was looking at your pics I noticed you said you hate it when people talk to you on cardio, you pretty much just confirmed what I said.

Someone rep this chick to like 4k for no reason, so she fits in with bbbee.

**Sixoutoften** · 09-13-2011, 09:44 PM

Originally Posted by csreborn

Honestly, honesty, honestly if you are scared to talk to guys its because you are insecure. The gym is a bad place to pick up on woman generally because most guys want to get their shiet done, and most girls don't want to be bothered. When I was looking at your pics I noticed you said you hate it when people talk to you on cardio, you pretty much just confirmed what I said.

Someone rep this chick to like 4k for no reason, so she fits in with bbbee.

I'm a funny case. Sometimes I reek confidence, while other times I feel shut down. I'm looking for honest answers brah. I don't care if someone wants to talk to me while i'm lifting, hell i'd appreciate any pointers i can get if my form is wrong etc. I just feel like any guy i talk to is just looking for the sexytime, and doesn't necessarily want to get to know me as a person. it's either that or i hangout with alphas too much who make me think that all dudes are like that

i'm destined to be forever alone

**Contribution05** · 09-13-2011, 09:47 PM

Originally Posted by Sixoutoften

Most of them feel "intimidated" to talk to me, because I look "rude".
I'm not going to lie, I've had a lot of good relationship potential guys asking to hangout etc. but they're awkward as fawrk aka they say all the wrong things or have massive social anxiety issues.

it's either that or i go for the wrong guys and get played. i just found out i've been getting played for the last month or so, feelsbadman.jpg

Well there is always going to be that risk, no way to know if you have a good guy or a player until you date them for awhile. And even then people can hide sh*t pretty well sometimes.

As for approaching guys, you're a heavenly blessed beauty, if you go up to a guy they won't think your a slut or anything, just probably think you're forward and social, nothing wrong with that.

**JasonSoon** · 09-13-2011, 09:51 PM

Man I feel so much more secure knowing girls have these insecurities/ noballstotalktohotpeople syndrome too

**Contribution05** · 09-13-2011, 09:55 PM

Originally Posted by Sixoutoften

I'm a funny case. Sometimes I reek confidence, while other times I feel shut down. I'm looking for honest answers brah. I don't care if someone wants to talk to me while i'm lifting, hell i'd appreciate any pointers i can get if my form is wrong etc. I just feel like any guy i talk to is just looking for the sexytime, and doesn't necessarily want to get to know me as a person. it's either that or i hangout with alphas too much who make me think that all dudes are like that

i'm destined to be forever alone

Any girl i talk to will always be because i want sexytime. Why? Well i haven't yet talked to her, i just know shes hot and i want sex from her. Though if she seems cool in the process of trying to get sex i would want sex and to get to know her.

**Sixoutoften** · 09-13-2011, 10:00 PM

Valid point sir. BUT here's the thing.

i met this guy not too long ago on pof (inb4 y u use, remember i don't like talking to guys in person, i get nervous), anyways, he's into bodybuilding, i met his fam, didn't put out and made him work for it. he stuck around after it happened, i met his parents before it happened, and he'll bring me home, cook proper meals for the gym and pre workout etc. We'll workout together, we text each other cute stuff all the time, but his ego is huge. Honestly, he's talks about himself far too much, how often people look at him etc.

he denies bishes texting his phone when he stupidly left his phone in his room while taking a shower. within those 10 minutes, 6 girls texted him.
oh, he also hates the fact i go on this site. he's probably going to see this anyways. don't know, don't care.

he hasn't been texting as much or replying to texts aka i got played

aka i think all guys are like this now because i thought he was different. longest relationship of mine was 2 months and now it's starting to pain me

**Regret** · 09-13-2011, 10:11 PM

I live in MI. Ive had a crush on you for years.

**beaucephus** · 09-13-2011, 10:33 PM

ive jumped out of an airplane 19 times in my life.

the first free jump was the best.

now its still fun but not nearly as exciting.

everything gets less nerve racking with experience. just attempt your first time somewhere where it wont matter who sees you. you will suck at it but it will become fun.

why is op red? i saw spoon pic. is it fake?

if not... hhhhnnnnnggggggg.

**Contribution05** · 09-13-2011, 10:33 PM

Originally Posted by Sixoutoften

Valid point sir. BUT here's the thing.

i met this guy not too long ago on pof (inb4 y u use, remember i don't like talking to guys in person, i get nervous), anyways, he's into bodybuilding, i met his fam, didn't put out and made him work for it. he stuck around after it happened, i met his parents before it happened, and he'll bring me home, cook proper meals for the gym and pre workout etc. We'll workout together, we text each other cute stuff all the time, but his ego is huge. Honestly, he's talks about himself far too much, how often people look at him etc.

he denies bishes texting his phone when he stupidly left his phone in his room while taking a shower. within those 10 minutes, 6 girls texted him.
oh, he also hates the fact i go on this site. he's probably going to see this anyways. don't know, don't care.

he hasn't been texting as much or replying to texts aka i got played

aka i think all guys are like this now because i thought he was different. longest relationship of mine was 2 months and now it's starting to pain me

Like i said, there is always that risk, girls and guys both can be sneaky, lead you to believe you're the only one and be talking to other people at same time.

But definitely not everyone is like this, so next that dude and find a new guy. You might have to go through 20 guys till you find a good one but good people are out there.

**Sixoutoften** · 09-13-2011, 10:39 PM

Originally Posted by Contribution05

Like i said, there is always that risk, girls and guys both can be sneaky, lead you to believe you're the only one and be talking to other people at same time.

But definitely not everyone is like this, so next that dude and find a new guy. You might have to go through 20 guys till you find a good one but good people are out there.

20 guys later, and I'd be a cum dumpster. I thought he'd change, but his image tells me otherwise. I've always been honest and faithful and I don't see the point of cheating. Either you like it or leave it etc.

And yes I'm real. I got negged before I posted spoon pics. Don't care

**Tefzilla** · 09-13-2011, 10:39 PM

spoon pic plz

**onelochevy** · 09-13-2011, 10:42 PM

Originally Posted by JasonSoon

Man I feel so much more secure knowing girls have these insecurities/ noballstotalktohotpeople syndrome too

This. Honestly had no clue

**beaucephus** · 09-13-2011, 10:46 PM

Originally Posted by Tefzilla

spoon pic plz

look through her picz first you lazy *******

**mike.hunt** · 09-13-2011, 10:51 PM

**MEDITATE** · 09-13-2011, 10:51 PM

jesus , 30% of OP overall weight falls into her boobsies . LOV IT!!!!

**urcool** · 09-13-2011, 10:54 PM

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