- sometimes ill be talking to a girl, having a normal convo , and then all of a sudden I will be unmatched for no reason
- lol its online dating and not that I give a chit because its only a select few who do that but im wondering ....if im not saying anything weird or offensive whats the point of unmatching?
If they are aren't interested to talk anymore why don't they just casually stop responding
? Not like I'm going to kick up a fuss and double text
Seems a tad aggressive behavior when they could just be more passive about it . Not like I'm gonna cry * oh no some random 6/10 unmatched me after exchanging 3 messages * lol
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10-11-2021, 07:34 AM #1
why do some girls on online dating just randomly unmatch for no reason lol
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10-11-2021, 07:56 AM #3
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10-11-2021, 08:20 AM #4
To me it almost seems like insecurity sometimes because I know last time it happened..its THEM to send the last message
So I think they get feeling a bit insecure after you don't reply back for a few hours like * omg this guy probably won't ever reply and I dont want a knock of my ego so therefore ill just unmatch him *
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10-11-2021, 09:42 AM #5
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It may be that you make an entirely different impression than you mean to. You use a lot of lingo that some might see as inappropriate for your age. If your on-line persona on dating site matches your persona here, I would suggest that chicks probably think you are massively insecure and probably a bit of a douche.
I am not an expert, though.Last edited by eomrat; 10-11-2021 at 09:53 AM.
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- COL Charles Beckwith
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10-11-2021, 02:12 PM #6
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10-11-2021, 04:13 PM #7
You seem to have a lot of problems with women....and, the kind of problems you have are those that one would expect from a 17 or 18 year old kid. That should tell you something.
^^This. I'm guessing you are in your 30's, and when somebody that age adopts the communication style of a 17-year old misc kid, it gives the impression that you:
A) are extremely immature/insecure
B) affecting a fake persona
C) have the IQ of a carrot
D) all of the above
None of those are particularly attractive qualities, and may go a long way toward explaining your endless difficulties
with women.Last edited by Karl_Hungus; 10-11-2021 at 04:18 PM.
It takes a big man to cry, but it takes a bigger man to laugh at that man.
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10-11-2021, 05:05 PM #8
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10-11-2021, 05:44 PM #9
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10-11-2021, 05:50 PM #10
No punctuation, lazy text speak, etc. Maybe try something like this:
I am not sure what you are talking about. Can you explain how my communication skills seem like those of a 17-year old?
Also, it isn't just the writing style -- It is the type of problems that you seem to have. Can't figure out how condoms work, obsess over the motivations of women who unmatched you etc. It all seems like the musings of an angst-ridden teen...and I can't imagine too many grown women who find that sort of thing attractive.It takes a big man to cry, but it takes a bigger man to laugh at that man.
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10-11-2021, 06:27 PM #11
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10-11-2021, 07:16 PM #12
Ok , i got you . One thing about me is im not offended by constructive criticism. And I guess i didn't realize that people actually remeber a lot of my posts haha.
I'm not actually 30 yet btw . I'll aim to shape up, and not let petty things bother me. also have been posting on here without a filter basicallyLast edited by blueberryboy; 10-11-2021 at 07:25 PM.
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