Of course.
I talked to women today at my job just to be friendly and nice because it was my job.
I've lost count of how many women I've asked out honestly but I've been shot down alot too.
When I was indirect, I'll get rejected but alot of times they would play games and I would have my time wasted and I'll be pissed off (hell to this day, I'm still pissed off at certain women but it's really my own fault).
When I'm direct, the rejections are more abrupt and straightforward like "I'm not interested" or "I have a bf/fiance/husband" but at least I don't waste my time with women that are not interested in me and that are gonna play games and waste my time and I can focus my attention on women who are interested in me. That's why I'm direct because I got tired of women being manipulative towards me. Being direct (Mode One) helps you to weed out the manipulative women.
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Thread: Another year of FA in the books
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12-26-2018, 10:06 PM #61
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12-27-2018, 09:25 AM #62
I hate that chit when women like attention.
4 years ago, I worked for a beer distributer and I would constantly run into this girl that sold wine. This girl starred to the point where other people I worked around told me to go talk to her. She told me how she wore a fake wedding ring because she was tired of getting men talking to her.
I finally asked her to go eat somewhere and she tells me she has a boyfriend.
Fair enough?
I eventually meet another woman and this girl that worked for the wine company would actively stalk me online. She sees posts between this girl and I. The next day when I'm at a grocery store doing the beer, the wine girl is at the same store and I'm talking to a guy that worked at the store and was telling him how I'm suppose to go out with this other girl.
This wine girl is making a huge scene and acting angry, she's moving wine bottles around the shelf and purposely slamming them real hard. And then she starts crying and leaves the store.
It was so noticeable how she was acting that the guy I was talking to asked me if I ever phucked her.
The day after I go out with another woman and there's a picture online, this wine girl changes her social media to public and starts putting up pictures of her with her bf.
1) I never got this girl's number
2) we never went out once
Fast forward 4 years later, this girl actively leaves her social media public and it looks like she is on the verge of getting married to some guy. It doesn't bother me, but because of how manipulative this girl was kept me interested but for the wrong reasons.
This girl is the worst woman I have ever interacted with. Never met a woman that wants endless attention.
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It's good to be direct, I didn't learn that till mid 20's. I'm with you on women playing games, that is the worst thing ever.
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12-27-2018, 09:47 AM #63
Well, I certainly tried to believe that. But it hasn't exactly worked out that way in practice.
See, this is exactly what I'm talking about - you actually got some signals. I can't remember receiving any such indicators of interest, probably because they weren't there. It's almost like I'm a neutered animal - sometimes, the other animals don't even notice you're there.Ad astra per aspera
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12-27-2018, 09:53 AM #64
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12-27-2018, 10:38 AM #65
why do FA's always think getting their dink wet for 5 mins will somehow magically enhance their lives!? i totally understand the feel of not sharing ur **** with a female but BELIEVE ME if i say u dont have it as bad as u think. ultimately women are not worth the hassle ... ull eventually get tired of their chit anyway unless u meet that one ****ing unicorn thatll still give u mindblowing BJ's 5 years into relationship/marriage, cooks and leaves u be. good luck on that. for every bombshell out there theres at least one dude that is completely&utterly tired of her ****. think about it ...
if sex/pump&dump is ur only concern theres plenty of it for every man in 2018, but keep in mind u gotta play the numbers game. even the good looking dudes have to play it. personally my % at bars/clubs is terrible but phenomenal at concerts (music is one of my biggest hobbies). gotta find ur niche where ur comfy otherwise itll be tedious af. DONT ****ING HIT ON WOMEN @ WORK EVER!!!!Last edited by inthox; 12-27-2018 at 10:49 AM.
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12-27-2018, 11:16 AM #66
If it makes you feel any better the girl was NOT interested, she thought I was attractive but she was playing extreme games wanting my attention. This is worse than getting no women. What this girl was doing to me is the epitome of being "cucked".
The way I dress is extremely casual and it works.
White shirts -> https://www.abercrombie.com/shop/us/...4&faceout=prod
The watch is pretty clean -> https://vincerowatches.com/products/...ros-blue-brown
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12-27-2018, 02:24 PM #67
Why don't you go for hideous 3/10? You want him to start hating women?
When you hit on 3/10, if she rejects you, catastrophe, you are worthless. If she does not reject you, even bigger catastrophe, you have to look at her, talk to her, even maybe kiss her or god forbid fsck her...
So there is no upside of hiting on 3/10Как сладок свободы кнут
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12-27-2018, 03:07 PM #68
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12-27-2018, 03:19 PM #69
Yeah man, believe it or not alot of women don't want to reject you especially if you're indirect. They just wanna give the misleading impression they're interested but really they just wanna play games and use you for your attention and/or money. Being direct eliminates that and forces the ones that don't like you to reject you.
Guys should actually respect the women that legit reject them because that means that's an non manipulative woman.
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12-27-2018, 11:27 PM #70
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12-28-2018, 01:35 PM #71
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12-28-2018, 03:01 PM #72
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12-28-2018, 03:48 PM #73
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12-29-2018, 09:30 AM #74
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12-29-2018, 09:34 AM #75
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12-29-2018, 10:29 AM #76
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12-29-2018, 10:49 AM #77
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12-29-2018, 10:51 AM #78
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12-29-2018, 01:21 PM #79
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12-29-2018, 05:21 PM #80
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12-29-2018, 06:01 PM #81
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12-29-2018, 06:28 PM #82
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12-30-2018, 05:54 PM #83
This, first 6 months of being single and having no girls around was okay but after going a whole year without having a girl to hang out with is just weird. To be honest I've already forgotten what it feels like to have a gf/Feb. Flirting with girls at work or at the club is fun and all but that can only do so much.
Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; and if it is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.
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12-30-2018, 08:00 PM #84
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12-30-2018, 08:16 PM #85
You are right.
Women are not a video game where you "level up" to better women, a woman that is "ugly" will not automatically go out with a guy.
A lot of "ugly" women overvalue themselves.
From my experience, women that are very average looking are the best ones to try to talk to...
"Ugly women" tend to be a hit or miss, they either overvalue themselves and think they deserve a male model OR they go for men who are on their level of attractiveness
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12-31-2018, 05:09 AM #86
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12-31-2018, 05:15 AM #87
I have most talk with superhot women, but in the end they avoid me. Ugly and average are overvaluing themselves, wont even talk with average guys. They play hot and cold and then say "oh dear, you missunderstood everything, you are such a sexist"
Also total whales sometimes look available but I am not interested.
But generally, none of them want guy like me. They want playboy or something like that.
And if you accept whale, you will have whales to the rest of your life.Как сладок свободы кнут
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12-31-2018, 08:27 AM #88
Yup, I just turned 33 recently and feel the same way. at this point I've honestly completely given up. A lot of us just want something so damn simple, yet its seems like its impossible.
Never in my life would I thought it would be this hard, not even CLOSE. I thought getting a good job would be difficult (but I'd get there). I thought getting in great shape would be difficult (but I got there). I thought phukking going outside of my comfort zone and hiking by myself and visiting southeast asia would be difficult (it was scary but phukking fun).
Its funny how life works. I've been going at this for around 10 years. this is way past most people who struggle on here. if you talk about struggling inc college - you have a lot of time head of you. people talking about struggling after college - its difficult but you still have a lot of time ahead of you. the point im trying to make is that, amidst all the frustration, there is at least some hope. in my case, I feel like its just evaporating with every year. how long I've been struggling, versus my age. its real now. its not "its been a sucky two years, but im only 25". its "its been over 10 years and I'm almost in my mid thirties". thats when it TRULY sets in that you are phukked - at least when it comes to finding a girl who is attractive and wants to start a family.
I have to remind myslef though, that we all have our different struggles in life. or the most part, things are very well. Its rare to find someone who literally has every facet of their life together. I need to be thankful for what I do have, and for the time I have on this earth.
Im making bank, have freedom to do what I want and go on adventures and travel, keep my fitness/health a priority, and a good network of friends/family, and am waiting for something supplement my life with and share what I have to offer/what I like to do.
The fact that women dont see value that, just because I can't grow a beard/look young and don't have awesome "game", its quite frankly, downright misguided and pathetic.
I'm not saying I'm "entitled" to anything (because I know people will say that based on my last sentence), I just think, I have objectively, a lot of offer and people are missing out based on reasons that have nothing to do with forming a long lasting partnership with someone.Last edited by psychosylocibin; 12-31-2018 at 08:34 AM.
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12-31-2018, 09:18 AM #89
That's the thing - none of this is supposed to be "artificial" in any way. Attraction, relationships, sex, it's all supposed to be natural. Why's it so hard for many of us? And no, it's not because of "female empowerment" - women have controlled the market for some time now. If anything, it's because there's too many of us guys out there and plenty of mediocrity. Except no matter what we do, some of us seem to always be mediocre.
I'm completely lost as to what's going to get me out of my funk. All I know is there's never been a girl who looks at me as someone worth the trouble getting to know better.Ad astra per aspera
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12-31-2018, 02:41 PM #90
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And how are you not getting any women OP? You have a decent body (unless face is absolute wreck). I'm married and not anything in the looks department, and I can legit pick 2-4 women today to go out with if I wanted to. 2 are at least about 10 yrs younger working in retail. It must be mental. In my head, I feel like I could find love easily, and I've always felt that way even as a teenager.
Did you have any girlfriends as a kid in elementary or middle school?
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