Well that's that, breaking up with gf today (SRS)

[Nate_d14]

Lold at op feeling the need to throw in $285/hr job

Lold at jealousy

If I made that much, I'd subtle brag about it too

[MikeATL]

That sucks man. But at least you know now before you bought a place together.

Question: Didn't you sleep at her place in the two years? If so, why didn't you know about this?

Nah, she almost always came over to my place or the kids weren't around. Times I did guess she put the fear of death in them

[newleaseonlife]

Lol, she mentioned this no thanks Jeff, too many women in ATL if she can't fix this we have bigger problems w/her seeing how much chit I've been through. Told her a couple months ago if I move out we're done.

I've heard that the ratio in some cases were around 15:1 female to male. Any truth to this?

[MikeATL]

Lold at jealousy

If I made that much, I'd subtle brag about it too

I don't make that I wish, do well but not that well. Wasn't meant to brag at all, just to point out I'm not trailer trash and should have known/planned better. Self-deprecating if anything

[Lambo2579]

If you see above I edited my post.

yeah, I saw your ninja edit sall good, mango

[BrownRice123]

if you want to be with someone who has kids

then send em to boarding school so you dont have to deal with em

or just dont be with women who have kids

[Lambo2579]

I've heard that the ratio in some cases were around 15:1 female to male. Any truth to this?

I'd be willing to bet it was purty close

[20Mavs11]

Like you said op, too many women to settle for that. A kid needs his biological father. If not, he'll do some sissy shiet like that. Heaven forbid you say sometjing.

[GreenWave1]

Nah, she almost always came over to my place or the kids weren't around. Times I did guess she put the fear of death in them

Gotcha. So, in the end, you did good by moving in with her. Now you know and can end it before you bought a place together and are in a really bad place.

[MikeATL]

I've heard that the ratio in some cases were around 15:1 female to male. Any truth to this?

That's about right if you have a decent job and are 1/2 way decent looking. It's fairly ridiculous.

[PickItUp]

If everything else is cool besides this, move into your own place. This one issue shouldn't break you up. That's what I would do.

I agree with this up to a point. If the OP wants to share rent with a GF, then he'll eventually need to start looking elsewhere. Also, if his GF isn't capable of understanding the issue, she's probably not right for him.

[iWantToGrow]

I can confirm, I am 7 yo kid. Bro my mother is too good for you and I never liked you. It was hella easy getting rid of you.

[Frank Drebin]

Kids will grow out of this before the mother does.

[Hessypie]

damn adulthood you scary

[Bluestar92]

pics?

[arn710]

If everything else is cool besides this, move into your own place. This one issue shouldn't break you up. That's what I would do.

This or maybe find an alternate solution like a separate bedroom or something

But it doesn't sound like she meant that much to you, so on to the next one OP

[MajesticLion]

The phrase "you made your bed, now sleep in it" has rarely been more appropriate than it is now.


Also, the ratio is 20:1.

[YIAMSOMEBODY]

kid is 7 and still sleeping in the bed with mom? would take forever (or a REAL fkn patient man) for the kid to mature at this rate. The mother would have to seriously rethink her parenting methods and start from scratch imho...

Oh, I'm definitely not disagreeing with you on that part, but OP said this is their only issue. So, to solve that, just move out. You do you, she does that and when that's together to the point he can tolerate it, then rethink them moving back in together.

[tetraktys13]

GJ OP repped

[JDizleSwoleizle]

That's about right if you have a decent job and are 1/2 way decent looking. It's fairly ridiculous.

Yes if older brah and still in good shape, decent looking with a decent job you should be swimming in pusay down here. Almost wish I didn't get hitched so young because of all the fkin potential out there now.

[MikeATL]

I agree with this up to a point. If the OP wants to share rent with a GF, then he'll eventually need to start looking elsewhere. Also, if his GF isn't capable of understanding the issue, she's probably not right for him.

That last part is my problem, has been a huge issue for me and she knows it. Have suggested many things but she won't even fathom being assertive with them, and degrades me instead. Not meant to be

[getbustered]

That last part is my problem, has been a huge issue for me and she knows it. Have suggested many things but she won't even fathom being assertive with them, and degrades me instead. Not meant to be

Sounds like a good mom to me. Whether people agree with letting kids sleep in bed or not, obviously she feels it is best and is putting the needs of her kids over the needs of her boyfriend.

I bet you would feel differently if they were your kids, OP.

[squatz4ndOatz]

Sounds like a good mom to me. Whether people agree with letting kids sleep in bed or not, obviously she feels it is best and is putting the needs of her kids over the needs of her boyfriend.

I bet you would feel differently if they were your kids, OP.

This has nothing to do with putting the kids above her boyfriend. She's raising them like a fuking retard and needs to teach them to quit being so codependent.

OP, good move on bailing.

[wasp9166]

time to give her a swift kick in the kid maker , or it will ruin another guy , do it, for the rest of us

[GiveMeTheD]

What is your job? And if the money is so good, why the fck are you talking about moving in with kids to save on rent, why don't you have your own house?

[SirBetalot]

My ex gf's daughter used to get out of bed everynight lil fukkin cockblocker. One night i finally realized i would never let another man's creampie cost me aggravation again and i walked out never to return.

[AlecGaspari]

$285/hr and you want to save money on rent?? lol

[HomerJThompson]

Op how old are you and how old is this chick?

[JMAG90]

Sounds like a good mom to me. Whether people agree with letting kids sleep in bed or not, obviously she feels it is best and is putting the needs of her kids over the needs of her boyfriend.

I bet you would feel differently if they were your kids, OP.

Please don't have kids

[JMAG90]

What is your job? And if the money is so good, why the fck are you talking about moving in with kids to save on rent, why don't you have your own house?

$285/hr and you want to save money on rent?? lol

ITT: People who have no idea how consulting works.