should you pay?

[BigDickCharles]

on the first date what is the best advice for how to handle paying/ect??

[Operaman]

Don't do something expensive and it becomes a non-issue. If you go get coffee, even if you pay for everything, you're out what, 5 bucks? Go to a park, throw a football/frisbee/whatever...that's free.

[baldrick5]

pay for your stuff only(food,tickets etc.) and make her pay for her stuff.

[Brandi]

I think a true gentleman offers to pay for a girl~
but should also be careful enough to not be taken advantage of, you can normally tell if a girl is a sponge. A nice girl would offer to pay @ times too, I don't think the guy should always have to pay...it should kidna equal out.

[dillon1111]

Originally posted by Operaman
Don't do something expensive and it becomes a non-issue. If you go get coffee, even if you pay for everything, you're out what, 5 bucks? Go to a park, throw a football/frisbee/whatever...that's free.

true advice from a guy with game.

[BigDickCharles]

Im just gonna make a **** load of money so I can date the really expensive hot slutty actress types.

[madscotsman]

Before I go out with a girl, I make it clear that I only pay on dates. So at the end of the meal/drink watever, I casually ask "will I be paying" and if she likes me, I pay.

[Doctor Evil]

No. Don't ever pay. You are not a personal wallet.

[fatfuk]

get her to pay for her stuff, make it equal out. THat's the best thing to do, otherwise you're seen as a bitch, one that will supplicate, and that's not manly...

[Johnny34]

Usually the girl and I will negotiate before the date ( $50 for Oral , $100 for intercourse, etc...)

Hope this helps

[A|X]

Originally posted by Johnny34
Usually the girl and I will negotiate before the date ( $50 for Oral , $100 for intercourse, etc...)

Hope this helps

hah!

[AnabolicBMX]

the only thing a dude should pay for is the after-morning pill

[Doctor Evil]

Originally posted by AnabolicBMX
the only thing a dude should pay for is the after-morning pill

What? Why?!

[Brandi]

Originally posted by AnabolicBMX
the only thing a dude should pay for is the after-morning pill

You mean to tell me you get laid?

[The_Champ01]

Bitches want equal rights then they can share the bill simple as that, they can thank the feminists... :P

[L3P2]

If woman want equality they can open their own ****ing doors, go first or second (whatever order you happen to be going in a door in!), pull out their own damn chair, and they can pay their own damn bill. dumb bitches.

[Esmir03]

Originally posted by Johnny34
Usually the girl and I will negotiate before the date ( $50 for Oral , $100 for intercourse, etc...)

Hope this helps

lol ^^^^^^^ he pays for sex


if she asked you out then she pays, if you asked her out then you pay half she pays half. Thats how I do, mmmmm that must be the reason why girls stoped asking me out


money dont grow on trees

[Brandi]

Truly, common you guys Ya'll can't be serious. I feel sorry for whatevery girl.... ends up with you. I don't even see how a decent girl would be interested in you guys with the attitude. I think ya'll are just trying to be all hard.......

[mASF]

Originally posted by Brandi
Truly, common you guys Ya'll can't be serious. I feel sorry for whatevery girl.... ends up with you. I don't even see how a decent girl would be interested in you guys with the attitude. I think ya'll are just trying to be all hard.......

Aww poor widdle girls... they are getting used by meany guys and these guys want these poor widdle girls to pay for their own ****... oh the humanity!

While on the other hand Brandi and her female "sweethearts" are getting freebies from guys who dont know any better than to value their hard earned money... the irony.

[braindmg]

Originally posted by Brandi
I think a true gentleman offers to pay for a girl~
but should also be careful enough to not be taken advantage of, you can normally tell if a girl is a sponge. A nice girl would offer to pay @ times too, I don't think the guy should always have to pay...it should kidna equal out.

if i pay for her on the first date, wouldnt she expect to me to pay on all other dates to come? if she does expect that, how do i tell her otherwise?

[Operaman]

Geez, when did we guys become such cheap asses??? So you go out and you pay for her and it doesn't work out....you had an evening with what was hopefully an attractive and interesting woman, you got to practice your "game" one on one for an extended period, and if you're smart you're out what, 20-30 bucks(cost of her dinner at a mid-level corporate restaurant and her move ticket)? If that's too much, shoot, just go get coffee or ice cream or something and go to the park, and then you're out only 5-10 bucks. Hell, we spend a lot more than that on stupid ass supplements that don't do squat!

[Operaman]

Originally posted by braindmg
if i pay for her on the first date, wouldnt she expect to me to pay on all other dates to come? if she does expect that, how do i tell her otherwise?

Didn't you post about having a maid earlier? Personally I've never had a problem with women using me for money...mostly because I don't have much...but I only take out what I think are good quality women and thus I don't mind showing them a good time, and they usually offer to pay and I let them sometimes.

[braindmg]

Originally posted by Operaman
Didn't you post about having a maid earlier? Personally I've never had a problem with women using me for money...mostly because I don't have much...but I only take out what I think are good quality women and thus I don't mind showing them a good time, and they usually offer to pay and I let them sometimes.

yeah, i have a maid. but having money is not an excuse to be a chump, right?

i mean, i would still wanna know if the chick is just after my money.

[Esmir03]

i got game, so girls offer to pay.

[braindmg]

Originally posted by Esmir03
i got game, so girls offer to pay.

every time a girl asks me out, she pays for the date...
(it happens alot, mind you)

but whenever I ask a girl out, i feel obligated to pay.

how do i tell her we should pay 50/50? wouldnt i sound like a cheap guy?

[mASF]

Originally posted by braindmg
every time a girl asks me out, she pays for the date...
(it happens alot, mind you)

but whenever I ask a girl out, i feel obligated to pay.

how do i tell her we should pay 50/50? wouldnt i sound like a cheap guy?

Common sense thing, pay for your own stuff. Your not her wallet so dont try and act like one. Dont do dinners and expensive things with newly met girls anyway until they proove you by sleeping with you that they are worth your time and some money.

[Brandi]

Originally posted by Operaman
Geez, when did we guys become such cheap asses??? So you go out and you pay for her and it doesn't work out....you had an evening with what was hopefully an attractive and interesting woman, you got to practice your "game" one on one for an extended period, and if you're smart you're out what, 20-30 bucks(cost of her dinner at a mid-level corporate restaurant and her move ticket)? If that's too much, shoot, just go get coffee or ice cream or something and go to the park, and then you're out only 5-10 bucks. Hell, we spend a lot more than that on stupid ass supplements that don't do squat!

now thats what i'm talking about

[Operaman]

Originally posted by braindmg
every time a girl asks me out, she pays for the date...
(it happens alot, mind you)

but whenever I ask a girl out, i feel obligated to pay.

how do i tell her we should pay 50/50? wouldnt i sound like a cheap guy?

Okay, if you're laying on the c/f and you've got some game, it shouldn't be too hard really. You just need to say it in a humorous way and word it so she feels like you're qualifying her. Tell her something to the effect that you're not gonna drop 20 bucks only to find out she's a psycho stalker, so she better wear something sexy and bring her visa card!

Since you apparently do have means, do be considerate of her and suggest you two hang out somewhere that won't be too expensive for her. I don't know your area, but if you were in manhattan it wouldn't be really cool to invite a girl to Jean Georges and then expect her to pay her half!

[Esmir03]

Originally posted by braindmg
every time a girl asks me out, she pays for the date...
(it happens alot, mind you)

but whenever I ask a girl out, i feel obligated to pay.

how do i tell her we should pay 50/50? wouldnt i sound like a cheap guy?

here i should write a guide for dummies lol {I'm in HS its easier lol)

1. make sure that girl likes you
2. you got to be popular
3. dont show her any intrest in her
4. woke up to her and say "damn i need a gf"
5. she asks you out
6. you say yes
7. you and her goo somewhere
8. when its time to pay give her the bill to look at
9. while shes looking at it just look at your cell phone or something
10. she pays

if she dont pay, then tell her you need to use the bathroom leave her there with the bill and dont come back.

[braindmg]

Originally posted by Esmir03
here i should write a guide for dummies lol {I'm in HS its easier lol)

1. make sure that girl likes you
2. you got to be popular
3. dont show her any intrest in her
4. woke up to her and say "damn i need a gf"
5. she asks you out
6. you say yes
7. you and her goo somewhere
8. when its time to pay give her the bill to look at
9. while shes looking at it just look at your cell phone or something
10. she pays

if she dont pay, then tell her you need to use the bathroom leave her there with the bill and dont come back.

lol funny you probably did this.