Herpes can be transmitted without sores. It can transmitted if there are just bumps and there is a period where there are no symptoms during which herpes can be transmitted. What about crabs and warts? You get checked every 3 months but isn't that not often enough? It only takes days to get infected with most stds.
Do you know the status of the persons you swing with or do you rely on their word that they are std free? What protective measures do you have in place for stds that condoms alone do not prevent? What about other diseases that can be transmitted through sex e.g. ebola (extreme example), do swingers prepare for those things as well?
Do you know whether others you swing with get tested every 3 months or at least every 6 months?
If you got a lifelong std, it would not affect you career? Even for hiv, herpes and hpv? I wasn't aware of that but it seems strange. Aren't there any separate things nurses with lifelong stds have to do examples paperwork or procedures or strict medical stuff they have to adhere to?
In terms of cumshots is the eye avoided? I ask this because some stds can affect the eye, if infected fluid makes contact.
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Thread: My wife and I are swingers. AMA
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10-15-2019, 03:14 PM #391“With realization of one's own potential and self-confidence in one's ability, one can build a better world."
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10-15-2019, 04:35 PM #394
does your wife decide who to hook up with, when and where or do you have the final answer? do you get to decide which couples you guys hook up with because you like the chick or is it more or less what she wants? has she ever took one for the team?
does she have any fetishes?
has she been with black, latino, asian, etc?US Navy Veteran
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10-15-2019, 05:12 PM #395
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The long term diseases are irrelevant. I have never bled on anyone. we also wear protection. If they are couples we try to get a gauge on how they are. You don't sleep with some crack head whore you met at a bar. Nor do you ask for their last STD check. You size them up. Obviously there are risks
Hpv and HIV are the last of the diseases I worry about at work...
Oral transmission is still difficult. I am gonna make this response short
It's a risk that we take. We size them up and can get an idea about what kind of person they are. We get checked every 3 months which I believe standard may be 6 but we alternate. Every 3 months one of us gets checkedFrom Houston, now I am in San Diego
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Depends on the guy tbh
We decide as a team for couples. There is a couple where the girl is cute but my wife hates his teeth. I don't think he is horrible looking.
Now there is a couple where the wife is 5/10 and the guy is 2/10 but she doesn't mind hooking up with him because they are nice people. Which kind of horrifies me
She likes being pinned down. Choked, deep throated. Treated like a slut. Spanked. We also do electrical play
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10-15-2019, 05:20 PM #398
Sizing them up is no way of telling for sure if they're clean. If you did get a lifelong std would you continue swinging?
Also are you comfortable sleeping with someone with a lifelong std who is taking their meds regularly?
And is swinging in your opinion worth the risk of contracting an incurable std?“With realization of one's own potential and self-confidence in one's ability, one can build a better world."
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10-15-2019, 06:12 PM #399
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If we do stuff with people that get tested regularly we aren't too concerned. Sizing then up can help you get an idea of what kind of person they are and if they tell the truth about getting tested regularly.
I wouldn't do anything with anyone with a positive HIV test or confirmed hsv.
We do things to minimize risks.
Even with my job I take risks of obtaining leukemia due to chemical exposure.From Houston, now I am in San Diego
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10-15-2019, 06:46 PM #401
how many dudes ran a train on the wife? did the other chicks get a train ran on them to?
your wife get everyhole plugged at once?
is she into getting double vag? double angus?
does she swallow in the GBs or does she only do that to her favorites?US Navy Veteran
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10-15-2019, 07:07 PM #403
how awkward is it after the gang bang? i mean..... everybody nuts, wife's face is creamed and glazed like a krispy kreme donut, do you tell everyone to gtfo? or do they bust and then they get their senses back and go home? do you all spoon each other? everyone taking pics and selfies of the mess they made? all the dudes smoking and drinking onthe patio, getting recharged for round 2 while the wives rest/get rehydrated?
what kind of drama happened during/afterwards? any meltdowns?
i was stationed with a dude who was the token bull at some of the san diego swinger clubs years and gang bang parties. he used to tell us some of the stories..... wonder if it was commonUS Navy Veteran
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I have never had an accidental needle stick. and even if I did stick myself. I wouldnt stick the patient with it.
You clearly odnt understand the difference between aids and HIV.
you make it sound like I will get HIV, then happen to stick the patient inbetween then and me getting tested. stop trying to justify your dumb comment.Last edited by DatMurse; 10-15-2019 at 11:11 PM.
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10-16-2019, 06:05 AM #413
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10-16-2019, 06:12 AM #415
Well I think on some level it did. I suspect he has subconscious doubts and shame and regret but he is still unable and unwilling to admit that to himself.
This thread is the first step out because it externalizes those repressed negative emotions by the comments and criticism from other people. It’s a small opening for him to come out of denial.
Op not sure if you’re ready yet but I think eventually you will come out of denial. When that happens a flood of negative emotions will overwhelm you.
But if you get through that you’ll get the reward of truth and clarity and honesty with yourself. And then you can end this sham marriage and make amends with yourself emotionally and after healing eventually with time you can move on to a healthy new relationship.
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10-16-2019, 06:32 AM #416
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10-16-2019, 06:47 AM #417
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10-16-2019, 07:01 AM #419
OP compares playing a recreational sport/hobby to your soulmate/life partner taking cum shots on the face and swallowing random guys loads.
OP also says his wife taking multiple dinks is good because it makes her better at her job!
Cope levels are off the chart. If you dont understand how cuck/pathetic/delusional this comes off as idk what to say. You're going to have a mental breakdown when she catches feels and leaves you and you realize it was all your doing.
You're a cuck deep down though. You know it, your wife knows it, and now a message board full of strangers know it. To each their own.
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10-16-2019, 07:04 AM #420
People like OP usually have a Masochistic personality which stems from childhood abuse. Basically take pleasure in their own pain to a big degree.
If his wife fukked someone behind his back, he'd be pissed for like half a second then kiss her slut mouth and makeup. Because deep down it hurts him but it makes him feel good at the same timeI just came here on the internet to lie
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