This OP. you gotta get it in your thick head that your value in the dating marked is drasticly sunked. You miiiight be lucky one time, but Ill probaably try to date other guys who have children themselves perhaps.
YOU choose to have children at such age, you stupid kent. You know knothing about life as a 20-21 year old, nothing! Now years later, where your children are truly in the victim zone for your selfish actions in creating them, you have made your life X times harder. Statisticly speaking, kids from broken homes often tends to do bad in shchool and life general. they will also likely to get depression and other mental illnessess.
I hate ppl who dont reflect enough. Ppl who thinks about only NOW, not what's up later years. Children are a huge deal in so many ways.
You are doing one thing right tho, and that is to shield your children from your prizes of cawks. dont let them know how much slut u are.
and hope u get negged to hell
good luck
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11-06-2014, 06:08 AM #211Actual viking crew
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I wouldn't be too harsh on him, I'd be happy he told you straight out he can;t raise your kids.
I've dated a single mum and honestly to begin with I was right up for what it entailed, it was fun and different. But over time the responsibility dawned on me and I didn't want to be there any more, even though I never had any bad intentions.
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11-06-2014, 06:13 AM #213
Married and with kids?
No thanks MelindaThe moments of my life in which I've grown had to do with failures; the moments of my life when I've gotten worse, had to do with success. Success is deforming, relax, deceives, makes us worse, we fall in love too much of ourselves; failure is the opposite, it's formative, makes us strong, brings us closer to our convictions, make us consistent.
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11-06-2014, 06:28 AM #216
God bless you Mami.
I think if you change your perspective of what you're looking for you will come across as more genuine and have better luck.
I understand that your kid comes first but what will benefit that child the most is if you find a healthy relationship with someone who connects well with YOU enough to look past the fact that you have a child.
I don't know anything about you but I have a friend who just had his first kid with a woman who already had a kid so don't lose hope.
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11-06-2014, 06:48 AM #223
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um got a question, hitting kids out of abuse. or doing his job as a father?
think carefully before you answer. when i was a kid i got my legs broke thru a spanking for taking the blame to cover my brother.
the spanking (5th grade) was for lieing and covering for him.
dont be one of them women who think everything is abuse. eventually have their own thoughts about you and your credibility will go out the window.
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11-06-2014, 06:57 AM #228"Psai is the love child of Rick Ross, Ghandi and Oz" - Phoenix9369
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11-06-2014, 06:58 AM #229
I'm against spanking full stop (IMO it's just assaulting children). But for people like you who appear to think it's cool, she stated that the kid got eye surgery as a result of the beating the dad give the kid.
Also, if you got your legs broken you were abused brah.
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11-06-2014, 07:01 AM #230
This poster raises a valid point. Not reading through the whole thread but has OP provided any proof/documentation that there was child abuse in the household or could this be a case of he said/she said to get sole custody of the children? Wouldn't be the first time a woman has done this. Typically, a spanking, is considered child abuse anymore when back in my day it was called good discipline. The father dealt it out more often because the mothers wouldn/couldn't and the phrase 'wait till your father gets home' was born. Heard too many women cry foul when the cards weren't in their favor.
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11-06-2014, 07:03 AM #231
Having been on the dating world for over 6 months now I can say that when I filter through women I always remove those with kids... not that I don't like kids, I actually want a family but I want my OWN family not someone elses... so I can see why it would be hard for a single mom (or dad) to meet someone who's willing to raise kids that aren't his own.
Plus, the fact that you have two kids most likely puts you inthe camp of "Have kids, don't want more" and if I was to date a single mother, one day, I'd want one who's ready to have at least one more kid.
In any case, I agree with anyone who said that you should look at single father as dating prospect, they know what's up.
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