what do you guys usually go with when you're trying to get a chick to hang out?
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Thread: Help with College Game Thread
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01-24-2012, 03:15 PM #541
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01-24-2012, 03:46 PM #542
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01-24-2012, 03:48 PM #543
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01-24-2012, 03:48 PM #544
can you answer my question. its on my thread here.
http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=141584431
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01-24-2012, 04:08 PM #545
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01-24-2012, 04:33 PM #546
need to get this in my head.
looking for some advice brahs. never really had a lot of experience talking/flirting with girls due to being in a relationship for wayy to long with first gf. i dont have any problem going up to a girl and start talking, but i can never keep the convo flowing. i run out of **** to say pretty quickly and it just dies out. any tips on how to improve on this? also just flirting advice in general would be awesome.
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01-24-2012, 06:13 PM #547
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Like ask her over to just chill? I always just ask girls to meet me at a party/bar. Then go from there. Do you have a specific scenario I could help out with?
Just because Pike sucks at your school doesn't mean it's like that at other schools. Pike at my school is a top house and would recommend it to many people, and I am not a Pike.
That's when you gotta find something fun to do, i.e. ask her to take shots, come meet some of your friends, etc. Remember when titan and I said you should talk for a bit, grab the number and then leave for awhile? Yeah that's so that doesn't happen. This way her last memory of you is having fun and hitting it off.
As far as flirting goes. The best way is practice, but I like to tease girls about sh!t. That way they are always trying to justify something to you and it is usually playful and they normally tease back.
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01-24-2012, 07:27 PM #548
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Ok i have a good question. Doesn't really relate to me now since i live at home and commute to college but... When I lived on campus and partied every week, I thought I did a fine job getting girls back to hook up with (not great but a decent amount for myself: avg like 1 girl back a weekend my first semester). I need advice for getting a girl to go down on me. Sadly I've never gotten a bj (only have had sex once) so how should i try to get one? Obv my gut is to eat the girl but idk how smart this is with one night stands. Also how do you transition from hooking up to sex. Last time I hooked up with a decent looking girl, i asked to have sex with her and brought the condom out of my back pocket and she lold and said she didn't know me well enough. Now I've talked to my friends, and they say just go for it and don't say anything about having sex? Thanks for any advice
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01-24-2012, 07:51 PM #549
I have a few friends who are pikes, don't rag on the entire fraternity because the chapter at your school sucks.
Oh and if anyone remembers the girl who I posted the ******** convo with a couple pages back who I told to text me (rather than asking for her number), just got back from boning her haha...went to go hang out and honestly didn't expect a bang just maybe her to touch mah dong, but things just kept progressing.
Completed one of my bucket list things while doing it...she had a mirror right next to the bed and flexed Patrick Bateman style while doing her doggy style.
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01-24-2012, 08:13 PM #550
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01-24-2012, 08:31 PM #551You don't pay for things with money, you pay with your time
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01-24-2012, 08:51 PM #552
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01-24-2012, 08:56 PM #553
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Yea one time i was with this pretty ugly girl i wouldn't hook up with sober (prolly like a 4-5/10 decent body but face was meh), she gives me a hickey and after making out in my bed, I try to push her head down to my d so she sucks it (playfully) and she doesn't. I don't think she was dtf tho and i met her through a mutual friend. Can't explain how much it sucks to have had sex but not received a bj
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01-24-2012, 09:30 PM #554
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I don't ever go to the bj, if the girl wants to suck your c0ck she's just going to do it there's not much you can say to sway her.
I always go:
1. Make out (get it going good)
2. Finger bangin
3. Sex
When I'm making out I usually get it going for a bit. Then go and feel her tits. If she doesn't let you do that then she's not gonna let you fuk her. So if you get by that then go down and run your fingers around the edge of her pants back and forth, DONT go in there yet. Now's were if she's REALLY not wanting to fuk she's gonna stop you. If she doesn't stop then run your hand down her pants and go for the finger bangin. Finger the sh!t outta her and she'll want to fuk.
It's WAY better to test the waters to she if going to go for it or not. Because, if you run your hand down her pants then you gotta worry about her screaming rape. Be gentle and go slow, she's probably already made up her mind whether or not she's going to fuk you before you even start making out anyway.
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01-24-2012, 09:53 PM #555
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^^^^FOLLOW UP STORY
Night Number 2 (Monday)
Second party night of the week, so we are prepping to rage. Naturally I text all the previous hoe's from the night before to come over. The girl from the other story can't come over because she had class early the next day and didn't want to get drunk (syllabus week wtf?). So anyway we start pre gaming at like 5 (fukin early) and me and like five other dudes decide to start walking around campus at like 9 just for the hell of it. So we are walking around and there's this group of the 4 girls walking the same direction behind us. Me being drunk, and a freshman in college start talking to them. One of the them is like a 8.5/10 blonde, so I immediately invite them over. Other girls were cute but nothing ground breaking. At first they were like "No, we are going to KA" but I eventually convinced them to come to our house.
We get back at about 10:30 and the place is popping already so I chill with the 8.5/10 for a bit and go drink with my bros. She comes up to me later and is like "Hey me and xxxx are leaving but I definitely will be seeing you around" grabs my face and makes out with me for like 15 sec (in front of everyone, lol) and then she leaves. This girl will be in a later story (No I did not get her number)
After she left I sh!t you not about 5 min later I get a text from the girl I banged the night before "Hey" Lol I was like it's on now. After some bullish!t texting I end up going over there to smash. I get over there and her roommate and her are just chill in, its like 1:45am at this point and I'm nice and drunk. This girls roommate is like a legit 9.2/10 also. (Lol had conversation about this exact story with her at formal last semester she went with one of my buddies*). Anyway she tells her to leave her room so we I can lay pipe in there. Pull out her futon and just go straight stallion on her. Nights at college: 5 Number of times laid: 3 Yes sir.
That was it for that night. Night Number 3 (Wednesday) coming tomorrow and the story starts getting WAY better. Like I said it was (and still is) the best week of my life.
*When I was talking to her roommate on formal she brought up that night and she was telling me how I was the first page in her shot book. Apparently for her 21 shots every few pages was pictures of dudes she had banged. I was on page number 1. feelsgoodman.jpg Then she told me the list got pretty long after me....Last edited by RobDiezel; 01-24-2012 at 09:58 PM.
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01-25-2012, 12:22 AM #556
Brahs, last night there was this party on my campus and again I wasn't feeling like going.. but finally said to myself: new semester, new people, it's now or never to become the cool guy and acquire loads of friends and chicks. So I man'ed up and had a great night! Basically just did what I read here.. throw myself into people, groups etc. and just start talking. Ask ask ask and talk about anything that comes to mind.
Talked to 1 girl I saw on a party earlier on, she was definitely mirrin'. So were two other girls.
Anyway, there was another girl and here's a question:
I have met this girl before, talked to her at a party and the uni library etc. Just casual, but she definitely seems attracted/interested. She's constantly playing with her hair, moving her body from one foot to the other (you know what I mean?) etc. BUT here's the thing, she's giving mixed signals like crazy. She is constantly looking around as if she's looking for someone in particular. First i thought she was, but now I realize she does this all the time. It's really disrespectful actually since I'm thinking "yo wtf, are we talking or what?". But like I said, in all other body/oral communication she is interested and it's always her that initiates the conversation.
So what's up with that. Is she just nervous or something? it's fuarking annoying.
Anyway, met this other girl and I really like her. She seemed interested last night, so I think I'll focus more on her.
Quality thread fella's.
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01-25-2012, 07:21 AM #557
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01-25-2012, 11:39 PM #561
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Possibly, sometimes girls are just like that ya know. She may be interested or she may just be like "Get me the fun outta here." Do you have this girls number? You should hit her up for the next party you go to this weekend.
Love it. Do this, either she's gonna eat it up... or completely regret it. Might as well get the BS outta the way.
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01-26-2012, 02:08 AM #562
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01-26-2012, 01:08 PM #563
Achievement Unlocked: The Double Slam
Bone two girls in 24 hours
Epic win...first it was ******** girl and then last night this sorority girl who I used to flirt with then disregarded when she started to play games invited me over for drinks at her place. Went over and ended up smashing. Got in just before the 24 hour mark
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01-26-2012, 02:12 PM #564
any chance you could help me with some high school game?
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01-26-2012, 02:26 PM #565
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01-26-2012, 02:53 PM #566
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01-26-2012, 03:16 PM #567
ok guys i got a situation. for the record i am 20 and go to university in toronto, canada...im in a small spanish class (there is 11 of us) and theres this one girl who is just beautiful...
basically we have all sat in the same seats so far and it looks like this:
(the stick figure in the front is the teacher and the pink circle should be more in the middle of that table not so much on the left there sorry lol... im the blue circle)
ANYWAYS the red circle is a girl who sits next to me at my table and im 100% percent sure she is crushing on me... she asked me to play lazer tag with her last class on the weekend (strong wtf) and i said no... the more i try to ignore her and decline her invitations the more she tries to get my attention and what not... its awful
on my left, the pink circle, is the heavenly blessed beauty. as you can see from the picture she is technically "next to me" but shes at a different table and often sits on her own at that table.
you probably wondering, "geez thats easy then why not just sit next to her if shes alone" WELL the reason i cant and havnt is because for some reason i feel bad "ditching" the annoying girl and not sitting with her (ive known her for 2 years now sigh..) to go sit with the hot one... even though she is annoying i still talk with her during class because im a social guy and she helps me a bit with the lessons (shes a lot better than me)
im not sure what the best way is here to start chatting up the hot girl... im not a wierdo here or some nervous kid i know what im doing when chatting up girls im just not sure if i should man up and just sit with her while ditching the other girl....
BTW the hot one usually shows up just as class starts (class starts at 1:00pm and she will walk in the door exactly at 1pm) so maybe when i get to class i should just sit at her table and put my cool face on? problem is as soon as i sit down the annoying girl is gonna be like "hey why arnt you sitting next to me?" and its going to make things awkward as fuuu
ideas?my town is under siege
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01-26-2012, 03:31 PM #568
alright, so looks-wise, i'm slightly above average except for pretty prominent dark circles (i'm sure they're genetic) and bad teeth (stained pretty badly due to decalcification, although i'm try to get it whitened soon). i'm also indian, if that matters. i'm pretty well-known around the school for my academic performance and intelligence, and many people consider me a genius, but not a nerd. so the new semester just started, and there's this strong 8.5/10 girl in my class. she sits a few rows behind me. she's widely known as one of the hottest girls in the school, but she seems pretty down to earth and not stuck-up, so she's definitely GF material. i don't know her personally yet, but i know a few people in her social circle. i was a beta ******* for most of high school, so i'm not really too good at picking up chicks. i can engage in small talk with them, etc. but i usually have a hard time opening and also number closing. anyway, i want to approach this chick, and eventually start fuking her and take her to prom. she might have quite a few guys asking her to prom though. in your opinion, what's the best way to go about doing this? also, what do you think my chances are in this situation. will confidence/game make up for my looks?
will rep for good answer"Psai is the love child of Rick Ross, Ghandi and Oz" - Phoenix9369
"you are going to be an excellent father, loving husband, and an unselfish lover one day" - TellitAgain
"You'll always be my favorite CEO. Always." - Tweedurr
"I have big respect for any young man as hard working as Psai" - Motiviert
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01-26-2012, 04:09 PM #569
Last edited by ajn; 01-26-2012 at 05:10 PM.
Meditation is the sh*t (srs) (no hippy) (strong informative thread):
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01-26-2012, 05:06 PM #570
Hey guys, so I know this is a college game thread, but Diezel, and anyone else who offering help, how can I apply this game to high school?
I'm 6'3 195 junior. I'm average looking face wise, people think i'm like 18-19, some think 21 or so. There aren't too many parties in my town, more get togethers with people's social circles for drinking and what not. I hang out with the same group every weekend and we get yucky and have fun. There's a few girls but getting some with one doesnt happen too much since we all hangout all the time. IF that makes sense. I was mainly wondering how to game in school, classes and what not. Because there's quite a few cute girls that sit near me and chit, but i dont talk to them all that much.
Also, the gym I go to has bball court, pool, all that stuff, so there's plenty of chicks my age there. Curious of how to approach in that environment?
I'm just improving confidence wise, solid eye contact, smile, all that good stuff.
Thanks in advance, will rep good answers!I rep back.
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