Like full on lay into her with steel cap boots held her down and burned her with hot water held knives to her throat threatened he would kill her family if she told anyone or left him.. So this **** went on for a year I think maybe longer and now he is coming back to my area soon and she still has some of his stuff that he is coming to get.. I can't believe anyone would do this **** to a girl I care so much about that it makes me sick to my stomach and my blood boil I'm going to be there for when he gets his **** she has begged me not to do anything but I want to **** him up so bad.. What would you's do ?
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08-05-2014, 07:13 PM #1
Girlfriends ex used to beat the **** out of her
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08-05-2014, 07:17 PM #3
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Leave him alone unless you want felony charges, it's not up to you to sort out her past.
If he did in fact beat her as seriously as she says he did, why is she allowing him to come over? She should be mailing him his stuff or dropping it at his place when he's not home or leaving with one of his friends. Sounds like she still has feels/misses being abused/other crazy girl symptoms etc.The trouble with being punctual is that nobody's there to appreciate it.
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08-05-2014, 07:22 PM #8
Captain save a hoe syndrome...
She is inflating the story, sure he maybe "beat her" but I wouldn't doubt she is blowing the story up a bit. Either way the dude was wrong, but she dated the dude for a year...and still has his stuff??? If she was over him, in a haste she would have thrown it all out. Now she has this guy coming over to get his stuff? Dude...
I have been with women claiming to be "abused" by their ex's. The girls were crazy (to the point I could see how a lessor man would have beat them) and I had the captain save a hoe syndrome just like you. The only women that date douchebags like that are crazy bishes...
You have been warned.
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08-05-2014, 07:25 PM #9
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08-05-2014, 07:36 PM #11
Not denying the abuse from happening. An ex gf of mine had pics as well.
Just know that my experience has led me to believe that it's best to put yourself in a drama free situation as selfish as it sounds. Good for any woman that gets out of a legit situation like that. But you are best to leave now, especially with this guy still "in the picture".
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08-05-2014, 07:37 PM #12
I can relate to what you are feeling, you seem like a brah with an old soul and protective personality, admirable, but don't forget about your needs. YOu prob want a girl that is nurturing, feminine, and affectionate. Those important qualities aren't too common in these types of women from my experience. Yes they are sexual, crazy sexual! But the whole "strong independant woman finding herself again" is conflicting with the captain save a hoe brah.
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08-05-2014, 08:36 PM #24
I'm so against going to the police it's untrue, it's against my whole culture, but in this case it is justified
Regardless, she should just mail it. Your blood is boiling and if he so much as looks at her wrong you'll likely get charged with GBH for what happens next
I do not understand why she still has it. Not do I completely understand women who allow themselves to be beat to be 100% honestM.M.T.
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08-05-2014, 11:52 PM #30
I'm not asking if she made it up or not I know she didn't I know she hates drama she doesn't want to see him ever again but is still kinda scared of him I think she has nightmares and still can't have a hot shower because she's scared of hot water I also know he won't go to the police so I could **** him up but she hates violence and doesn't want me to waste the energy
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