How were girls around you once you lost weight?

**selfmade** · 01-05-2009, 01:07 AM

My goal is to just lose my virginity before i turn 18, which is near the end of April lol!!!

**lateralus87** · 01-05-2009, 01:13 AM

Originally Posted by selfmade

My goal is to just lose my virginity before i turn 18, which is near the end of April lol!!!

Hahaha, good luck man. Don't worry about it too much, it'll happen.

**selfmade** · 01-05-2009, 02:43 AM

Originally Posted by lateralus87

Hahaha, good luck man. Don't worry about it too much, it'll happen.

Haha, yah man, hopefully soon!!!

**MAK060** · 01-05-2009, 04:22 AM

it`s a shallow world we live in. but face it guys, the public just like good looking ppl. of course if u r lean and nice dude u`ll have more opportunities with women instead if u were some fatty blob. but remember this - EVERYONE can lose the ugly fat and achieve a nice and pretty looks for several months or a year (depending on how much fat we are dealing with) but ur character and how u treat ppl can not be easily changed within a year or two. It will take years and years to acquire virtues like respect towards the others etc etc. so lets try to be nice

**selfmade** · 01-05-2009, 06:22 PM

Originally Posted by MAK060

it`s a shallow world we live in. but face it guys, the public just like good looking ppl. of course if u r lean and nice dude u`ll have more opportunities with women instead if u were some fatty blob. but remember this - EVERYONE can lose the ugly fat and achieve a nice and pretty looks for several months or a year (depending on how much fat we are dealing with) but ur character and how u treat ppl can not be easily changed within a year or two. It will take years and years to acquire virtues like respect towards the others etc etc. so lets try to be nice

Very true!!!

**artsar** · 01-05-2009, 09:18 PM

I always try to be nice, but I deffinetly get more attention from the girls. I've lost 100lbs since last Jan and instead of wearing 2XL shirts and 48pants and hiding my size i show it off a bit (now wearing L-XL and 36-38pants). I still don't see myself as I should so my confidence is fairly low. Once I have more self confidence in my image I'm sure it will get better.

I love knowing what my problem is, but not being able/willing to fix it because I'm an idiot.

**Godfrd824** · 01-05-2009, 09:40 PM

Originally Posted by selfmade

My goal is to just lose my virginity before i turn 18, which is near the end of April lol!!!

Forget about It, It will come.

**selfmade** · 01-05-2009, 09:42 PM

Originally Posted by artsar

I always try to be nice, but I deffinetly get more attention from the girls. I've lost 100lbs since last Jan and instead of wearing 2XL shirts and 48pants and hiding my size i show it off a bit (now wearing L-XL and 36-38pants). I still don't see myself as I should so my confidence is fairly low. Once I have more self confidence in my image I'm sure it will get better.

I love knowing what my problem is, but not being able/willing to fix it because I'm an idiot.

Congrats man, keep it up bro. Dont stop now, your on a motha****in roll!!!

Originally Posted by Godfrd824

Forget about It, It will come.

Thanks man!!!

**d2j** · 01-05-2009, 10:07 PM

Used to be great, until i got my 4 inch out

**trance__dreamer** · 01-06-2009, 06:35 PM

Originally Posted by MAK060

it`s a shallow world we live in. but face it guys, the public just like good looking ppl. of course if u r lean and nice dude u`ll have more opportunities with women instead if u were some fatty blob. but remember this - EVERYONE can lose the ugly fat and achieve a nice and pretty looks for several months or a year (depending on how much fat we are dealing with) but ur character and how u treat ppl can not be easily changed within a year or two. It will take years and years to acquire virtues like respect towards the others etc etc. so lets try to be nice

^^ this.

**apdunshiz** · 01-06-2009, 06:55 PM

Originally Posted by selfmade

My goal is to just lose my virginity before i turn 18, which is near the end of April lol!!!

haha...when girls see the new you, it is like "pussy time baby"

**selfmade** · 01-06-2009, 08:44 PM

Originally Posted by alexplevell

haha...when girls see the new you, it is like "pussy time baby"

**** yah, cant wait haha!!!

**rat_boy** · 01-07-2009, 03:32 AM

One thing I have learn't after I lost my weight is people are shallow most wouldn't be interested in me when i was a large guy but now Im quite fit wow how the tables change......

**opbyg** · 01-07-2009, 05:17 AM

sure after i lost some wheight i get laid all the time... at least ones a weeks...

**KawRider** · 01-07-2009, 05:46 AM

I can't wait for them to treat me different after I reach my goals so the second they try to get with me because I'm "hot" I can throw it in their face about how shallow they are.

This only applies to girls I currently know, not ones I will meet after.

**Lemonshoes** · 01-07-2009, 05:49 AM

Originally Posted by KawRider

I can't wait for them to treat me different after I reach my goals so the second they try to get with me because I'm "hot" I can throw it in their face about how shallow they are.

This only applies to girls I currently know, not ones I will meet after.

Hey! Those shallow girls need sex too... don't be selfish!

**KawRider** · 01-07-2009, 05:57 AM

Originally Posted by Lemonshoes

Hey! Those shallow girls need sex too... don't be selfish!

Oh don't worry, the sex is first.

**tjsix** · 01-07-2009, 07:16 AM

In between my junior and senior year in high school I went from 218 to 156.. Alot of people didn't even recognize me when I went back to school. There was an immediate change in how 95 percent of the girls treated me. I all of a sudden had pretty much anyone I wanted and my confidence obviously went through the roof and helped even more. It was also nice to get back at all the bitchy stuck up girls that didn't want anything to do with me before by banging them And their best friends.. ha

**razuel** · 01-07-2009, 08:06 AM

a WORLD of difference. girls that would barely talk to me, only out of politeness, the same exact girls, ended up dating me.

It was definitely more about the confidence than the actual weight though-- but without the weight loss I'd never have gotten the confidence.

**AlastairMilton** · 01-07-2009, 08:14 AM

When I was 250+ I didn't get looked at by a girl for 8 years and nobody wanted to talk to me. I lost 77 pounds and now I get chicks looking & smiling every day and its friggen awesome. Also people like family friends are suddenly interested in hearing about what I am up to etc, it really pisses me off because they didn't care when I was fat so F&*K them. I look heaps better than any of them and its funny to watch them all get fat.

**conwaylucas** · 01-07-2009, 08:52 AM

I've noticed the same things you all have said. Back when i was heavy If I had attention, I would jump on it. Now I get so much attention that I had to learn to turn it down.

Just this last weekend at the local hotspot (RiverMarket), I had so many looks and gestures that I felt overloaded.

I have lost ~115 lbs and I know thank my parents for the genes cause once I thinned up, I finally was able to notice just how good I got it.

My only problem now is that I cannot find a fit woman lol. The singles scene in Arkansas at least is horrible... I would move if my job wasn't so damn good. lol

Also on a side note, I am getting a lot more free stuff now.

**Il_Dago** · 01-07-2009, 09:01 AM

I started at 335 in September 07. For averages' sake, let's say I stayed around 260 all through last year. I got less action in 08 than I ever have before (not counting the 19 years I was a virgin and my women all had names that ended in .AVI). How the hell does that even happen? I attributed it to the fact that my confidence is still low because I'm not "there" yet, but I dunno. How'd I pull in more women when I was REALLY fat than I do when I'm only regular fat?

Anyone else start out seriously obese experience this phenomenon? I want to know if I'm the only one and what the deal is.

**xvicknumber7x** · 01-07-2009, 09:02 AM

I lost about 70 pounds from Sept of Junior year [2007] to May of Junior year [2008]. It hasn't really helped me with girls at all because I've never really had a girlfriend or even done anything with a girl, but they do start to pay attention to me more. Someone said it earlier...instead of just talking to me out of politeness, they actually want to hang out with me. That's been pretty cool but I still kind of get real nervous due to lack of experience.

**BlackBarbieDoll** · 01-07-2009, 11:05 PM

I think more than anything people use how your body looks as a signal about other traits you may have..shallow or not, you can blame atleast part of it on evolution and/or biology. Physical fitness CAN be a sign of mental fitness, dedication, respect for one's self, and obviously overall healthiness.

Signals...like any other advertisement, can also be misleading...i.e. the guy with the really hot body who gets wasted every weekend and has no respect for himself ..let alone women. Or the chubby guy...who is hard working and has a great personality...but just can't get his diet on track.

At the end of the day though, your body is your home, and just like you would check out the condition of a potential significant other's apartment to look for signs of lifestyle, people can and DO check out each other's bodies for the same reasons.
-My $ .02

**injured44** · 01-07-2009, 11:23 PM

having been all types of weights between 155 up to 235 weight definetely effects how people view you.

there is definetely a correlation between lower the weight and opposite sex as well.

**aspenwhite** · 01-07-2009, 11:55 PM

a lot more approachable

**Crackfest** · 01-08-2009, 12:42 AM

Become a bouncer at a nightclub, girls will love you no matter your weight. Been a bouncer for 2 years, good times, especially when you are head of security.

**CommoSoldier** · 01-08-2009, 01:27 AM

hopefully when i get done with this deployment I will have girls hanging all over me....my goal is to go from 310 to 220....im halfway right now....and halfway done with the deployment, so im on pace...

**Bar182** · 01-08-2009, 02:17 AM

LOL at all the guys saying girls are shallow.

I guess when you lose all your weight your going to **** the fatties because your such a nice guy?

Get real, your just as shallow as everyone else. Fat is not attractive.

**likeke34** · 01-08-2009, 08:26 AM

Originally Posted by Bar182

LOL at all the guys saying girls are shallow.

I guess when you lose all your weight your going to **** the fatties because your such a nice guy?

Get real, your just as shallow as everyone else. Fat is not attractive.

no offense, but you're being so quick to judge people you've never met... i can't speak for everyone else but i've talked to people who run down other people because they were fat and i have guy friends who only would date girls who they think are 10's, but i for one am not like that... before i got chubby (was lean most my life) i've dated a chubby girl because she was extremely nice and had better values then most (not all) of the hotter girls i knew...

just because you may be shallow (not saying you are but the fact you think everyone is shallow makes you seem like it), there's no need in assuming everyone else is... a lot of people who were once overweight know what it's like and may not be as shallow because they know exactly how it feels... maybe not everyone, but most people i met who were once over weight or just late bloomers tend to date girls/guys not for looks but more-so what they are like because they were judged like that themselves

not everyone is shallow, and what does going around f**king fatties have to do with anything? that just shows the type of person you are... again, no offense

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