Feels. Currently seeing a girl I like and want to be exclusive with but I feel like if I play my hand and let her know it's all over. So I'm just gonna see this new girl on the side so I'm not the only one not seeing another. I fukkin HATE dating in this generation I fukkin swear. You try and see just the one girl you're intereseted in and you get cucked.
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05-17-2016, 05:14 AM #151
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05-17-2016, 05:16 AM #152
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05-17-2016, 05:46 AM #153
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The problem with this is that she never will be your gf once you find out she is busy getting slain by god knows how many other brahs. If you really see yourself with a girl long term are you gonna be happy to know she was getting her insides toasted and painted by other dudes while you were dating but it's ok because you weren't exclusive? Or are you gonna have an exclusive talk on your first fukkin date? yeah she won't go running the second you bring that up smelling like a desperate *******.
It's a catch 22
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05-17-2016, 05:55 AM #154
What girl nowadays hasn't had at least a few cocks in them? They're not exclusive, not even dating, just fwb. She has no loyalty to him. He could've been doing the same thing but he chose to catch feelings super early and got mind****ed by them. Don't shift blame from his emotions to the chick just because his feels got hurt. This isn't a sloots gonna sloot thread. This is a my feels got hurt and I don't know how to feel thread.
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05-17-2016, 05:57 AM #155
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QFT
Anyways, who even gives a fuk what sloots do. If youre not exclusive with each other then who cares? Srsly. I wouldnt even give it the time of day..
Miscer/FAs need to understand that if they have just started nobbing some new girl and she is a really cool girl and above an 8/10 - SHE WILL BE GETTING TONS OF INTEREST FROM OTHER GUYS 24/7!
If I was single again like tomorrow, I'd either go 100% hibernating mode and smash work/personal gains and just buy £500 an hour 'girlfriend experiences' or 9/10+ escorts, or would just juggle 2-3 FWBs.
Dont be mad.
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05-17-2016, 06:53 AM #156
texted her trying to find out where we see ourselves. told her i'm cool with it being casual, but that i could also see it getting serious if we kept hanging out.
she said she's interested in a relationship and that she likes me.
gonna keep seeing her and see where it goes brahs.
inb4cuck
edit: not going to post pics bc i posted a pic of her earlier and a miscer said he knew who she was. not gonna risk being detectived. will take negs instead. srs.Last edited by MantissToboggan; 05-17-2016 at 06:59 AM.
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05-17-2016, 07:01 AM #157
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05-17-2016, 07:06 AM #158
Serious question - if she was willing to see you as just a name on her list of people to fuk, how is a relationship ever going to work? If she sees you as just a walking, fleshy dildo designed to sexually please her, why wouldn't she just ditch you whenever she feels like seeing chad, jamal and tyrone?
This is a genuine question, not an attempt at being cynical.
I would've thought that sex would be something that signifies seriousness, and exclusivity would be implied after the first time you have sex.*Wish I was dead crew*
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05-17-2016, 07:12 AM #159
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05-17-2016, 07:13 AM #160
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05-17-2016, 07:15 AM #161
She was literally sending doggy style pics of herself to another dude while at his house... I think the point is there will never be loyalty with that chick.
I always hate this train of thought because some dudes can get sex easily from pretty much any chick. Just because the girl you're dating didn't give it up for 5 dates, doesn't mean she smashed some dude from the bar the first time they met bet before meeting you.
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05-17-2016, 07:31 AM #162
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05-17-2016, 08:02 AM #163This is the verdict: light has come into the world, but men loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil. Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his evil deeds will be exposed." - John 3:19-20
Then Jesus again spoke to them, saying, “I am the Light of the world; he who follows Me will not walk in the darkness, but will have the Light of life.” - John 8:12
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05-17-2016, 08:19 AM #164
You probably shouldn't bring up being exclusive on the first date, but if you're bringing her over and cooking her meals, it's time you re-evaluate what you want. Yes, a home-cooked meal will always work in your favor so it's an easy in, but think about what the entire situation looks like...
A dude and a girl in an intimate setting, having a home-cooked meal together at one of their homes..just the two of them together, probably watching Netflix and laughing and then having sex later on. That's relationship stuff, regardless how you want to use it to get your dink wet. If you're doing that kind of stuff, it's time to bring up what comes next. I understand it's not ideal to have to bring up at some point.... but on the other hand you end up with threads like this where one of the parties is upset and just continues the exact same scenario of banging randoms while still wanting to be exclusive. Makes no sense.
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05-17-2016, 08:42 AM #165
When i saw a good looking guy who looked like he had it together but he was with a chubby bitch, moderately attractive by no means hot, i used to say to myself.."Damn what the fuk was he thinking...he could do so much better..etc"
But now i get it. The chubby girls not hot but pretty girls are loyal. They want to please you. To keep you. These hot girls have options every day online and in the real world. They are the catch. But if your a 7 or 8 date a 6. You become the catch and appreciated. This is just my opinion but i really believe this,Se Vi Pacem Para Bellum
What you know bout pain? Blood sweat and tears man im sittin in the rain.
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05-17-2016, 09:57 AM #166
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05-17-2016, 10:51 AM #169
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Using your scenario you made her dinner and you have a great night and have had great times with her for a couple weeks or w/e. So you bring up what comes next and she agrees that's awesome right? But then she says "Oh I'm so excited, I just gotta drop Bobby, Chad, Ricky, and Steve now" and you bertstare at her. Yeah she wants a relationship but she doesn't want it enough that she can even be loyal to just you for the couple weeks leading up to it. inb4 miscers say you weren't exclusive she didn't do anything wrong. yeah she didn't do anything wrong but she certainly didn't win any points from me in the loyalty department. She doesn't like you enough to not get plowed by 4 other dudes leading up to being exclusive that should say a lot about the current state of sloots.
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05-17-2016, 10:54 AM #170
It is cringe worthy to read all the guys in here trying so hard to be new and edgy with their lax approach to women and dating. Yes she is a huge skank for fuking other dudes. Ya'll are a bunch of cucks trying to say this bitch wasn't in the wrong. Any good person who is seemingly dating another person should keep it to one person regardless of having the exclusive talk. I can go on for days as to why the moral fiber of the country blows but all you new age diva 'men' are part of the problem. Fuking losers with no backbone or moral compass.
I post from my phone often, so please disregard all spelling errors, and ninja edits my phone does to what I'm typing...
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05-17-2016, 10:57 AM #171
Wouldn't be surprised if she cheats on you whether purposefully or just drunkenly opportunistically.
I can't trust a hoe that says she's interested in a relationship with you yet when she was just hanging with you she was slooting around hard. If she felt something different with you then wouldn't she not wanna be with other dudes? To me that's a simple question
Also, the fact that some brah already fukked her just goes to show how she's been around. No hymen no diamond crew
Best of luck u cuckMake Misc Great Again
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05-17-2016, 11:01 AM #172
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05-17-2016, 11:19 AM #176
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05-17-2016, 11:43 AM #178This is the verdict: light has come into the world, but men loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil. Everyone who does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his evil deeds will be exposed." - John 3:19-20
Then Jesus again spoke to them, saying, “I am the Light of the world; he who follows Me will not walk in the darkness, but will have the Light of life.” - John 8:12
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05-17-2016, 11:59 AM #179
Phuk misc is so jaded. Would rep OP IRL for clearly stating his intentions. Just because a girl sloots when not exclusive doesn't mean she will when she is. It can be a telltale sign of slooting but it can also be the exact opposite to where if she wants to be exclusive with OP she likes him enough and has had enough dink throughout her life to have no desire to.
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05-17-2016, 03:44 PM #180
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