Would you brahs date an 18 year old?

[BetaAsPhuck]

Not going to watch the full movie but from the trailer it seemed like an arrangement type thing where he was living off her money in exchange for companionship and sex? And no I would not pay for that.

Kind of, I would say in the movie that from her side she is looking for youth, fun, sex and live in partner and is choosing to ignore that he is only with her for a luxurious place to live.

(I don't think the characters are 2 dimensional.)

The money part wasn't what reminded me of Anne Heche's character, it was the youth and fun part that you seem to highly value in regards to a partner.

[Silencespeaks]

Kind of, I would say in the movie that from her side she is looking for youth, fun, sex and live in partner and is choosing to ignore that he is only with her for a luxurious place to live.

(I don't think the characters are 2 dimensional.)

The money part wasn't what reminded me of Anne Heche's character, it was the youth and fun part that you seem to highly value in regards to a partner.

Yeah but I would not be cool with exchanging that for money or a nice place to live or gifts or whatever. That’s how older guys get young girls but I’m not ok with that.

[MagicWater]

In my forties yeah. And yes well early twenties would be better but yes I would love to date much younger than my own age.

I’m aware that’s not realistic though and that it will be fwb or casual only. But if it were possible to have a relationship then yes I would love that.

you understand that long term, the odds of this working out is horrible? so why even try?

Most young guys will want kids at some point. Also women age hard and fast between 50 and 60. Even if you work hard to keep your looks, at 60, your BF would be 38. It would like a guy dating his grandma. No chance he would stick around

My best friend is 30 and married to a 41 year old. We all think he is insane. I think they'll get divorced in 10 to 15 years when she looks 20 years older than him

You seriously can't find a decent looking guy your age who lifts? tons of them at my gym

Open up tinder or match or whatever and you'll have a million messages from good looking men your age who will date you

[Silencespeaks]

you understand that long term, the odds of this working out is horrible? so why even try?

Most young guys will want kids at some point. Also women age hard and fast between 50 and 60. Even if you work hard to keep your looks, at 60, your BF would be 38. It would like a guy dating his grandma. No chance he would stick around

My best friend is 30 and married to a 41 year old. We all think he is insane. I think they'll get divorced in 10 to 15 years when she looks 20 years older than him

You seriously can't find a decent looking guy your age who lifts? tons of them at my gym

Open up tinder or match or whatever and you'll have a million messages from good looking men your age who will date you

Well like I said “I’m aware that’s not realistic though and that it will be fwb or casual only.”

And no I have not found any attractive guys my age to date. Not saying they don’t exist. But they’re pretty rare.

[MagicWater]

Well like I said “I’m aware that’s not realistic though and that it will be fwb or casual only.”

And no I have not found any attractive guys my age to date. Not saying they don’t exist. But they’re pretty rare.

tons of good looking older guys at any gym and on dating sites. What's wrong with those options?

[Silencespeaks]

tons of good looking older guys at any gym and on dating sites. What's wrong with those options?

Well we probably just have different tastes in men.

[MagicWater]

Well we probably just have different tastes in men.

good looking is good looking - nice healthy compexion, strong masculine features, expressive eyes, symmetrical features, etc...


or are you typical woman in 2019 who is a 6/10 but wants a 9/10 male? even worse cause you're in your 40s

[Fit1NYC]

Silencespeaks, I watched a movie last week.

Everything you wrote in this thread about what you are looking for in regards to dating, reminds me of Anne Heche's character in the movie Spread.

Have you seen it?



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bOxuMwZA_ww

It was pretty hot when she caught him smashing the other woman in her home and kicked her out then smashed him

[Silencespeaks]

good looking is good looking - nice healthy compexion, strong masculine features, expressive eyes, symmetrical features, etc...

or are you typical woman in 2019 who is a 6/10 but wants a 9/10 male? even worse cause you're in your 40s

Nope I like 7/10 guys. Cute and goodlooking but not model looks. Those are my favorite.

[MyBaddBrah]

[FruitOfEden]

[BetaAsPhuck]

Yeah most people say herp derp immature.

Breaking news, 30 year old women are clueless as well. Might as well get a tight young girl

There is a big difference between an 18 year old and 30 year old woman psychologically.

I don't think you have spoken to many teen girls and 30+ year old women if you think otherwise.

How old are you?

[BetaAsPhuck]

It was pretty hot when she caught him smashing the other woman in her home and kicked her out then smashed him

I was shocked at how good Anne's body looked at 40, in the movie.

It actually blew my mind, like Marissa Tomei in The Wrestler.

[peterplsss]

smash. no relationship.

This

[Jasonw1178]

I'm 40 and it would be a bit creepy to say the least especially if she was one of those babyface girls who look really young.

Half your age plus 7 is the minimum and over 18. So for me, that's 27 although a mature girl in her mid 20's maybe, but I honestly prefer girls in their 20's. I've given up on glow a while ago.

[Pown]

Read the 2 first pages and no one negged or asked for pics??? What the fuk is wrong with u *******s? Negged

[HairyWBush]

Agree with this. I don’t date for intellectual conversations. Actually don’t even use friendships for that. Intellectualism is just for work. Dating is for enjoying someone’s company and sex.

u wnt 2 cum over n hav sex?

[elterrible987]

I don't even use instagram got like 8 post on there but this girl added me and liked every one of my post so I messaged asking if I knew her. Apparently she found my instagram through the college I'm attending's instagram page, at first she said I just looked familiar and thought she knew me but later admitted she just thought I looked cute and like a nice person.

We've been talking alot and she wants to meet this week. When I first saw her I almost aborted because she looks super young but she confirmed she's 18. Which I believe because she's out of HS and attending the same college I'm starting back at. She was like giggling and asked "so how do you feel about flirting with an 18 year old". Made me feel like a paedo.

Would you brahs feel like you're on that **** time in this situation and abort? My ex-fiance was 3 years older than me so this is abit weird for me. I know my family would probably judge me.

Cliffs:
- Relationship/smash girl who just turned 18 or nah?

Age: 26

You go to the same college as her. Stop being such a ******* and do it if you want to. Do you really think it would be that much different from dating some 20 year old sloot at the same college? You would break up with them either way.

[Polaris]

Bang? Absolutely?

Date? No.

[BetaAsPhuck]

31.

There is a difference but I'm not having any deep convos with older women anyways. Most women 25+ are jaded, cynical and on anti depressants.

Give me specific examples of how 'maturity' plays any part in your interactions with women.

Short term thinking and idealism...

Young girls tend to think idealistically and short term, IME older women (and men) tend to see things from a different perspective simply because they've been around longer.

Also, there's an arrogance I've found that only people below 25 tend to have. I can't describe it well, but it's a general cockiness and narcissism... Life normally beats that out of people by their 30s.

Life experience...

18 year olds simply can't relate to what it's like to go through some of the experiences that practically everyone I know has by time they are in their mid 30s.

They haven't had a long term relationship, don't know what it's like to hold down a job for years, don't know what it's like to experience massive social change, etc.

Empathy...

Also, IME life experience can breed empathy. Something which IME younger people tend to lack, they tend to think about their own scenario and not at how their behaviour potentially impacts others.

Impulsivity...

Also, IME people by time they are in their 30s tend to have their impulsivity in check (I've known very impulsve people who have settled down by time they are 30). By time people are in their 30s IME, they tend to have more self awareness and are more responsible, or simply honest about their limitations. Also I've found that younger people are far quicker to leave jobs if they are 'bored' or don't like them, because they live with their parents, don't have a family or mortgage that they need to pay, or are young enough they will generally get rehired. They haven't faced any long term negative consequence for bad decisions... Yet.

I definitely could not date someone who is; unempathetic, idealistic, short term thinking, impulsive, and lacks life experience. I can have enjoyable conversations with them, but definitely not for any attempt at serious dating.

[EternaLovE]

date? no.

justm ake sure u see her ID proving she is actuallly 18 not 17.

just pretend u are dating her if she is that hot.

but never commit. not worth it cuz 98% 18 yr old chicks do not know what the fuk they want. so their mind often wanders and wanders.

[Bar182]

If I wanted to have an indepth conversation about quantum physics I would speak to my male friends.

lol at using that as the reason to go with a 30+ yr old over a younger girl.

[helmet12]

yeah obviously, who wants some old ****ing 25+ hag lol?

[HomerJThompson]

I'm 40 and it would be a bit creepy to say the least especially if she was one of those babyface girls who look really young.

Half your age plus 7 is the minimum and over 18. So for me, that's 27 although a mature girl in her mid 20's maybe, but I honestly prefer girls in their 20's. I've given up on glow a while ago.

Girls in their 20s have glow, you should date woman in their 40s if you have given up on glow

[csbrah]

[KingSWRV]

Also, there's an arrogance I've found that only people below 25 tend to have. I can't describe it well, but it's a general cockiness and narcissism... Life normally beats that out of people by their 30s.

That’s literally the best part is their enthusiasm and confident energy. Why would you prefer to be with someone who had “the life beat out of them?”

That’s actually the worst part about older women. That’s what the word “jaded” literally means!

[Emirrrr]

I'm 16. Date her just to smash.

[BetaAsPhuck]

That’s literally the best part is their enthusiasm and confident energy. Why would you prefer to be with someone who had “the life beat out of them?”!

That wasn't what I wrote..

I wrote that the narcissism and cockiness gets beaten out of them. Not being narcissistic =/= being jaded.

[Silencespeaks]

u wnt 2 cum over n hav sex?

My fwb texts like this:

hey bb

sup bb

wyd

wanna see d

[extendlol]

Would never date an 18 year old again.

They dont know what the fk they want in life. They say one thing and do another couple months later. Scared of commitment because of the FOMO on partying single and their sloot phase.

Would only FWB now and would never let my wall down.


Source: Ex gf was 18 and starting going downhill when she went to school