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08-09-2010, 10:57 AM #121
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08-09-2010, 03:25 PM #122
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08-09-2010, 04:33 PM #123
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08-10-2010, 01:20 AM #124
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08-12-2010, 09:24 AM #125
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08-13-2010, 12:30 AM #126
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08-13-2010, 01:37 AM #127
Holy ****. Best advice i've ever heard. Subbed.
So with the teasing and physical contact thing, is tickling a good method? I would tickle this one girl I was trying to get with, (like on the hips/stomach) and she seemed to be ok with it, and I really made her laugh. I hooked up with her later that night, did I just get lucky or can tickling help tease her and such?
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08-13-2010, 05:25 AM #128
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08-13-2010, 10:43 AM #129
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08-29-2010, 01:31 AM #130
SH + coal, I have a question that I'm sure others do as well. What if there's a girl that you became friends with and got a gf still being friends, but never thinking of her like that, and only building comfort for nearly a year but then decide that you want her. But at this point she "doesn't think of you that way" at this point is it too late to get her, or is there a possibility to shatter this?
Also tips on more school help haha.
Thanks a lot, great posts from you both and reps=).
Edit: also when girls excuse the idea of getting with you because of you being with her friend, is that all it is? An excuse? Or is there a way around it? Or is it just the way it is, no ifs ands or buts? Thanks again =D
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08-29-2010, 07:17 PM #131
I have a question:
When talking to girls, I usually can make lot of small talking. I can be cocky and funny and talk freely. My biggest problem is to make the conversation get into seduction, if someone know what I mean.
It always seems like I'm the party host or some kind of clown that interact and can entertain people, but can't get the girls.
How can I shift the gears of the conversation?
ThanksMy whey or the highway!
October 08th 2017
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09-01-2010, 06:58 AM #132
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09-01-2010, 01:19 PM #133
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09-02-2010, 08:08 AM #134
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09-02-2010, 01:53 PM #135
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09-02-2010, 07:27 PM #136
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09-02-2010, 09:58 PM #137Approach 5 random girls everyday for a week that are between 1-5 on looks. Start a conversation with
them about ANYTHING!! Notice how your not intimadated by them AT ALL?? Talking to these girls and being
confident is easy. Why? Because you know your better than them. That should be the mentality you have
with EVERY GIRL!! Anyway, your focus isn't even to get their numbers or fuk them,
its to become comfortable in front of girls in general.
good read OP, still have a lot to read though haha. Long as fuk but it should help me"This is my body. And I can do whatever I want to it. I can push it, study it, tweak it, listen to it. Everybody wants to know what I'm on. What am I on? I'm on my bike busting my ass six hours a day. What are you on?"
- Lance Armstrong
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09-04-2010, 03:20 AM #138
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09-06-2010, 10:30 AM #139
read this 4 years ago on the other bb board; this stuff is golden.
I was in a 2 years relationship that ended about a year ago; been struggling to get back in the game. Long term relationships absolutely destroy your PUA skills; I'd forgotten most of these tactics- they are easy to forget when you don't put them into practice.
Dude, thank you for resurrecting this thread!!
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09-07-2010, 06:24 PM #140
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09-14-2010, 01:11 AM #141
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09-14-2010, 07:26 AM #142
hey guys,
just came across this thread today. gotta say, good advice op. i got alittle story of my own which im still workin on atm, here goes.
2 Weeks ago, i booked the wed/thursday/friday off work to give me 5 days off. On the wed i went into the local supermarket with my mom, stopped at the food court and walked over to a stall. The chick serving was from the uk, as am i and we started talkin askin where each other was from nd how were both goin on in new country, i closed with 'once i've finished my meal i'll come over n get your number". anyway got her number (she wrote it down on pad while all he workmates had a suprised chuckle that she was giving it out). i took this as a good sign that she doesn't usually do this. clean girl HIGH FIIIVE!.
I wait till the evening before i text, letting her know i've been out n busy all day. she replies within the hour saying the usual "hi, how r ya?". we exchange texts a few times with couple of hour gaps sometimes between each on the thursday and friday. i tell her on one of the friday texts im meeting with a friend and she shud come out, she said yer ok ill bring a friend too. (major props deserved here i reckon for whats about to come) about 2hours before i ring her and say my mate had cancelled due to him being called into work and is she still up for it. she says yer deffo ill call my friend and tell her not to bother with tonight and then she proceeds to say "we can catch a movie if i want?". to which i stop her dead in tracks and say "nah, we'll go for drinks i dont enjoy sitting there not talking on a first date...".
I pick her up and everything goes well, she was straight onto the pay seperate thing for the drinks. to which i said ill get first ones she can buy the 2nd round.convo goes well we stayed forthe 2 drinks bout an hour and half losiong track of time talkin bout the move over to australia etc...
I say we better go or you'll be stuck with me all night cos i wont be able to drive if i have anymore.
On the way home bout 0.5km from her house i go over a nail, and lost the lock nut for my wheels. >.< doh!. I walk her home, give the good night hug n **** n i get a lift home. Both havin abit of a chuckle, i'd like to think i played it off well HAHA. all was good.
On way home i get the txt "thanks for a lovely night, give us a txt when ur home x".
At this point im thinking, everythings cool.
Couple days later i phoned her, gave her the low down on what was deffo up with my car about the nail, we chuckle some more. But as i try to cut it short and ask her out she sorta just talks over me. I say bye and **** and about 20mins after call im led in bed and i get a txt. "hey, just a quick txt. Im not really after getting into a relationship just yet with everything that's going on. I'd prefer if we kept it as mates for now. im just really busy at the min doing what i wanna do. dont wanna lead you on".
So cos im like half asleep i just say "yer, no worries. speak to ya tomorrow x"
Played it semi cool, didnt text all day and i got a phone call after work from her. while i was driving home, she says "she was calling to apologise because she was being selfish" to which i reply with "were both adults, rather your upfront with me". sora end convo there and didnt hear from her ill friday.
We txt on friday and her folks were out, she invites me round we play pool im still joking around with her she wanted to show me her room so i was like "taking me to the bedroom already!?". stuff like that. her folks come home, we talk for bout n hour with those. She then turned round to her folks and said "you gunna go to bed then now r wot?" they did...
We lay on floor and put the hangover on, she basically didnt even bother watching the film and sorta starting talkin to me laying on stomach staring at me with sum major fk me eyes. I got up an said right its time to go... hug and home. in car i get a text, "had another lovely night, txt me when ur home x"
MIXED SIGNALS much!?
i think i did the right thing.
Then the sunday, i was nursing a hangover and offered her to the movies... she declined at first and said she was tired n that i need the rest cos of hangover. I joked that off n said i was going regardless cos i wanna see this particular film. bout 45mins later i get a txt saying "ive just been for a run, im wide awake now ill come down" gave her time pf film she said she'd meet there. i offered to collect her she declined that. watched movie, the got same as before "loverly night glad i came out enjoyed the movie, txt me when ur home x".
i left it that night and txt'd her monday saying "yer i enjoyed it too, good luk training for the comp this weekend x".
Now i reckon im in a prime position to possibly progress further, sorry for the novel. but what do u guys reckon?Remember, Amateurs built the ark and Professionals built the Titanic.
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09-14-2010, 08:44 AM #143
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09-14-2010, 10:13 AM #144
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09-15-2010, 06:54 PM #145
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09-15-2010, 09:02 PM #146
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09-15-2010, 09:06 PM #147
Having a serious gf doesn't mean you can't talk to other girls and flirt a bit. Its always good to keep the knife sharp so to speak. The key to this is to do it in a not so "I'm trying to make you jealous" sort of way.
Could be something as simple as talking to a hot chick at the mall in a store, a waitress, a girl you haven't seen in a while. Again you don't OVERTLY do this, but you do it and your gf will obviously notice and ask you about the girl.
Its a good thing to do from time to time..... keeps interest high.
SH
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09-15-2010, 09:09 PM #148
Yeah those shows aren't on TV anymore. But a good one to watch is "Keys to the VIP." I think its a Canadian show, but it is REALLY good to teach you how to approach, close, and be confident in a bar/club setting.
Just Google it. Also any reality show is good to watch (I personally can't stand most of them) to see the dynamic between different girls and guys. You can always tell within 2 minutes who's the strong confident guy and who's the chump.
SH
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09-15-2010, 09:14 PM #149
I was actually in that EXACT situation a few years back, except the girl always wanted me even though she would say were just friends now. It really depends on the situation because if you two become too "friendly" there could be a loss of attraction on her part. In my situation the girl never lost attraction for me and after I broke up my gf, I had a little fling with her... (ahh the memories! haha)
If your attracted to her, treat her like a girl you just met, tease her, flirt with her, seduce her.
Not sure I get your last question: Are you asking what happens when a girl denys you because you've already hooked up with her friend? If so, in some circles, girls are tight with each other and have pacts not to get "sloppy seconds" or go where their friend has been, especially if you dated the girl seriously.
Sometimes its a smoke screen, sometimes its not.... depends on the history of the situation.
SH
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09-15-2010, 09:19 PM #150
Good post and I agree with 90% of it.
The part about sorting out the base, good looks etc is VERY TRUE, BUT to get good with women involves SO MUCH MORE than looking good. The better looking you are the easier it is to get the INITIAL ATTENTION. However if you don't have a solid personality, good social skills know how to lead a conversation,think quick on your feet and make her laugh you'll get no where.
SH
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