Older misc: Does life go downhill after college? (partying, dating, sex, social life)

[Bonetana]

Too much real life.. this is what is slowly happening to me now.. and im depressed as phuk

location: Norway

Reaction: AAAWWWW SHHHIIII, it happens WORLDWIDE NOW =(

[benchtochest]

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[MabjitGupta]

OP stop being nooblet & thinking college-centric, your other thread linking to this one contains enough testimony proving otherwise

[SimonThePieman]

depends how you live your life. I partied a lot when i was in university. But my wildest years were 25-28.

I lived in a warehouse conversion in central london, my housemate was a DJ my other housemate was also working music. We used to have massive parties with DJs who are no onto big things.

I worked in sales for a successful company, earnt good money and blew it all on living like patrick bateman during the day and keith richards at night. Went to Ibiza and Berlin parting 2-4 times a year. Seen decadence like a student has never seen before. been on some epic holidays. Got bored of london, relocated to Sydney. Live in a community of people aged 25-35 who still like partying, but have much more variety and enjoy things i never got to in UK, like beaches and lot more outdoor stuff.

I'm just 31 and only starting to feel its time to calm down.

You leave with world with the same you came in. I'd rather like in a nice house with a great wife and tell great stories to my kids and grandkids, rather than live in a massive house with a boring career orientated wife with our boring, but well educated kids.

[Dan916]

so, so, so much better

If anything, senior year of high school was my fave year.

[Bonetana]

I still haven't found the answer about how the parties are after college

[schnit]

I still haven't found the answer about how the parties are after college

Hardly anyone throws "parties" because after college you should have your own place where you actually care if your house gets messed up because people get stupid. When you live in a house with 8 other guys and you could give a **** about your $500 damage deposit, who cares what happens to it? But when you are in the real world you have to clean up the mess yourself and pay for all of your broken/stolen stuff yourself too.

[Bonetana]

Hardly anyone throws "parties" because after college you should have your own place where you actually care if your house gets messed up because people get stupid. When you live in a house with 8 other guys and you could give a **** about your $500 damage deposit, who cares what happens to it? But when you are in the real world you have to clean up the mess yourself and pay for all of your broken/stolen stuff yourself too.

well what about clubs and bars after college? I mean there have to be alternatives to house parties

[wolfsburg2]

I think as you get older the idea of parties and getting balls deep in randoms goes away. At least it does if you want a family. I wouldn't trade my kids or wife for a rockstar lifestyle. My life is 1000000000 times better than some college kids life. That's understating it too.

[Bonetana]

I think as you get older the idea of parties and getting balls deep in randoms goes away. At least it does if you want a family. I wouldn't trade my kids or wife for a rockstar lifestyle. My life is 1000000000 times better than some college kids life. That's understating it too.

I on the other hand would trade that type of a life for a rockstar lifestyle.

[mti87]

depending on where you live.. ima go with yes.. I live just about 20 mins outside of DC and theres a ton of bars clubs n such but all stuck up bishes that i do not like soo i stick around my area that blows..


all in all yes depending on where you live.

[iadamson]

If you still go to college pub nights and work out at the college gym, its like you never left.

[Bonetana]

depending on where you live.. ima go with yes.. I live just about 20 mins outside of DC and theres a ton of bars clubs n such but all stuck up bishes that i do not like soo i stick around my area that blows..


all in all yes depending on where you live.

what places in the US can offer me that experience of living the college lifestyle in terms of wild parties?

[elperfecto]

Once you start getting a decent income it's better. If you're stuck with no money it sucks.

[Bonetana]

Once you start getting a decent income it's better. If you're stuck with no money it sucks.

what about the party quality though? Is it true that all the parties start to suck and the women are hardly if ever down for a one night stand after college? Is it true that all parties are lame and everyone just stands around and talks all day?

[vtecaddict]

Pros:
-more money to have fun with
-independence

Cons:
-98% of the girls are either fat/married/single moms
-the other 1% with banging bodies are tied down
-the last 1% are either batshiat insane/have insane issues that make them ineligible for relationships

[vtecaddict]

depending on where you live.. ima go with yes.. I live just about 20 mins outside of DC and theres a ton of bars clubs n such but all stuck up bishes that i do not like soo i stick around my area that blows..


all in all yes depending on where you live.

rofl. I visit my family in arlington 2x a year.

THe sloots in DC are all uptight/ivy league ****s. If you're not a lawyer, they don't even give you the time of the day.

[elperfecto]

what about the party quality though? Is it true that all the parties start to suck and the women are hardly if ever down for a one night stand after college? Is it true that all parties are lame and everyone just stands around and talks all day?

Unless there's a theme like a Superbowl party or a Holiday party, house parties are viewed as childish. You'll find yourself going out with a group to bars and clubs, and possibly bringing a few women back to continue the party. Yes things change. For the better IMO.

[Nocturnal310]

Too much real life.. this is what is slowly happening to me now.. and im depressed as phuk

u r just living in norway where its winter and no one comes out these days.

i made some friends and i ve just moved to norway.


let me know if u wanna come for drinking with us

[Bonetana]

Pros:
-more money to have fun with
-independence

Cons:
-98% of the girls are either fat/married/single moms
-the other 1% with banging bodies are tied down
-the last 1% are either batshiat insane/have insane issues that make them ineligible for relationships

OMG, wtf bro. Anyone wanna oppose what this guy is saying? It can't be this bad can it?

[jwlee7ucla]

OMG, wtf bro. Anyone wanna oppose what this guy is saying? It can't be this bad can it?

You are completely ignoring everyones comments, and keep asking about party this party that ever single post. I had something to say too, but you energy vampire sucked it all out of me, and now I got no energy left to make a real post. thanks op.

[Nocturnal310]

one solution i ve found is to socialise with senior college students...

[wolfsburg2]

I on the other hand would trade that type of a life for a rockstar lifestyle.

Of course you would, you are 19 and have no clue how awesome it is to have an amazing wife and kids. Not hating, just saying. I've been 19, it sucks. Your idea of awesome at 19 will change by the time you are 30, or you'll be that guy who still lives with his parents.

[Bonetana]

Of course you would, you are 19 and have no clue how awesome it is to have an amazing wife and kids. Not hating, just saying. I've been 19, it sucks. Your idea of awesome at 19 will change by the time you are 30, or you'll be that guy who still lives with his parents.

Oh BRO. I see myself settling down at 30 but in my 20s I wanna live the wild life, but according to the misc, after 22 when you graduate college or w/e, that seems impossible.

Thanks to all who helped.

[wolfsburg2]

What does that even mean, a wild life. You can't legally drink until 21. You make it sound like life is over at 22. You can have TONS of fun after college. You don't have to be married with kids and Clubs and bars don't turn you away if you are over 22.

[JaBrah]

Life is always changing. Life will only get boring if u let it. Think back when u were 10 and doing what u thought was fun which is probally playing video games or something. Now u hit college and find partying fun. Who knows what might be fun or interesting for u when u hit 25 or 30. There are all type of people out there who like to party, going back to school, doing their hobbies, doing nothing, working a job, etc. I remember when I was 17 and stayed at my friends cousin house to visit a college. He was like 27 and threw a big party. A lot of different ppl there and enjoying themselves. In life u will meet a lot of different people at different ages. Not everyone is the same. People do different things after college. Rep me lol

[akbar]

Life gets better once in the mid twenties.

It is stable...meaning steady income, steady social life and steady friends.

It is pretty easy to make friends. Sure my choice of clubs/bar scene has changed but thats because going out on double dates and stuff like that.

Interests change too. I use to love being in the bar at 2am then going to the strip club til 6am on a weekend. Now I prefer to be out on the beach fishing and enjoying the peace of nature.

[Razor Beast]

Sounds like a bunch of miserable younger married guys in this thread. Solution? Get a job in a college town, stay single and bang college girls into your early 30's and keep yourself looking young and in good shape. Look to settle down with a girl as she's graduating school in your mid to late 30's.

[akbar]

Sounds like a bunch of miserable younger married guys in this thread. Solution? Get a job in a college town, stay single and bang college girls into your early 30's and keep yourself looking young and in good shape. Look to settle down with a girl as she's graduating school in your mid to late 30's.

Austin,TX nuff said

[Fliperaci]

There s a lot more to life than partying and random sloots man... wow

Go ahead neg, i aint even mad