Why do people assume that staying single= miserable life. And marrying=happy life?

[andrew28]

Married and bored or single and lonely.



Pick your poison.

this

at the end of the day, both scenarios are a gamble

[harris505]

Once a man reaches a certain age he needs a family to come home to

[Bulldognation99]

Arent you a success story. The more you reveal of your past, the more I understand why are you are a bitter 38 year old who never had chance to live his life. You didn't even enjoy your teens, Let alone twenties.

In your case, you are absolutely right. You fall into that 70% category and that is ok. You made a huge mistake with your decision in life. Your maturity age is barely 18. It is your right to live those feelings again.

Lol you have nothing about my relationship to conclude its status. It is not a relationship, it is marriage. Sorry to break this into you. You don't know how long I lived with this person, you don't know how long I know her.

I am sorry. I represent success and I am not afraid to tell these people, even though its a 1/5 chance, if you wait until you actually mature, you will make the right decision and not have one ****ed up marriage.

gl brah
hope it works out(i mean it)

[SirBetalot]

you will understand when you end up nevery marrying and are in your late 50's and realize you will die alone. That has to be the worst feeling in the world, my uncle is in that situation and is depressed a lot of the time if it wasn't for my family he probably would have killed himself by now

Never rely on others to find happiness.

[Dysfunqtional]

Never rely on others to find happiness.

lol ok dude you are what in your 20's? how would you understand what it feels like to be in a position like that?

you have friends who probably have nothing better to do than hang out with you. Would you be happy if you were alone pretty much all day every day? you don't know because you have never been through that.

[WaZIRA]

lol ok dude you are what in your 20's? how would you understand what it feels like to be in a position like that?

you have friends who probably have nothing better to do than hang out with you. Would you be happy if you were alone pretty much all day every day? you don't know because you have never been through that.

I'm alone all the time and he is right

people who seek happiness in others are weak minded pissants

I genuinely enjoy my own company and have expanded myself more as a person in the last 12 months. My only regrets I would have with not meeting more people is meeting people who will give me increased access to pussy and power. However considering the vast majority of people fit neither category I am happy enough being alone on my own rather than alone in a group.

[DonVonDuck]

lol ok dude you are what in your 20's? how would you understand what it feels like to be in a position like that?

you have friends who probably have nothing better to do than hang out with you. Would you be happy if you were alone pretty much all day every day? you don't know because you have never been through that.

Plenty of men enjoy solitude. Just because you require constant external validation doesn't mean others do as well.

[Dysfunqtional]

Plenty of men enjoy solitude. Just because you require constant external validation doesn't mean others do as well.

its not external validation, stop trying to sound intelligent. Humans are naturally social creatures so unless you have a loner personality you usually will want some sort of interaction on a regular basis with people you can call friends

[fishnbrah]

Why does every married guy tell me not to get married?Why do they look upon me with jealousy when I'm banging a new sloot every month?Why do I look upon them with pity?

theyre arent serious bro. thats the joke.

[fishnbrah]

Brah, we are in the 21 century and people are still getting married? Fuk that.
Marriage is like a contract. Is not gauranteed that everything will work out till the end. Plus divorce rate is going up and people still wanna get married? Wtf?
I would rather be single and slay than to be tied down to obey.

age: 18

[InfinityThor]

its not external validation, stop trying to sound intelligent. Humans are naturally social creatures so unless you have a loner personality you usually will want some sort of interaction on a regular basis with people you can call friends

You don't need friends to have interaction, I'm fine without friends.

I enjoy interacting with people throughout the day, without any type of formal relationship or commitment.

[heyheyheyi]

Once a man reaches a certain age he needs a family to come home to

Any scientific evidence ?

[DonVonDuck]

its not external validation, stop trying to sound intelligent. Humans are naturally social creatures so unless you have a loner personality you usually will want some sort of interaction on a regular basis with people you can call friends

You seem to believe that anyone who isn't constantly engaging in social behavior is miserable in life. Is that correct? If so, then I feel very bad for you. Work on your internal validation, partner. It'll be more rewarding in the long run. Men have always been artists, philosophers, explorers, writers, inventors...

The female brain depends on social interaction; the male brain depends on personal accomplishment.

[miscinbeast]

Once a man reaches a certain age he needs a family to come home to

not if you never leave the house *******

[SELCOUTH]

If you want to raise a family you are a LEGIT SMALL TESTICLED BETA PROVIDER

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/science/1...rch-finds.html



If you were a straight up low inhibition DOM slayer, FWHR above 1.8 you'd run Ghengins kahn game and travel the world slaying women and impregnating them and moving onto the next srs. Dont worry about the kids beta providers will look after them, that is their role.

[iamtough]

Hypergamy theory still confirmed. For once a non-fluke. Thank god. I was getting a little bit worried there.

My sanity was legit disappearing. Feels good knowing male model theory is BACK IN FORCE.

To think some people here are naive enough to think they EVER have a shot at a cute GF. LOL. Get real.

You need to be a top runway model with 3 inches in chin, brow and maxilla projection with a 1.0MF/R and a 2.0FWH/R.

Brian Peppers and the entire LMS crew were right. Being social and non-aspie means nothing. It's about FACE.

[NVious]

Every man knows that his highest purpose in life cannot be reduced to
any particular relationship. If a man prioritizes his relationship over his
highest purpose, he weakens himself disserves the universe, and cheats his
woman of an authentic man who can offer her full, undivided presence.

Admit to yourself that if you had to choose one or the other, the
perfect intimate relationship or achieving your highest purpose
in life, you would choose to succeed at your purpose. Just this
self-knowledge often relieves much pressure a man feels to prioritize
his relationship when, in fact, it is not his highest priority.


"If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul destroying
job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility. The other type of man,
living only for himself, working only for himself, doing first one thing and then another simply
because he enjoys it and because he has to keep only himself, sleeping where and when he
wants, and facing woman when he meets her, on equal terms and not as one of a million slaves,
is rejected by society. The free, unshackled man has no place in its midst."

[DonVonDuck]

"If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul destroying job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility. The other type of man, living only for himself, working only for himself, doing first one thing and then another simply because he enjoys it and because he has to keep only himself, sleeping where and when he wants, and facing woman when he meets her, on equal terms and not as one of a million slaves, is rejected by society. The free, unshackled man has no place in its midst."

NVious always delivers.

[SELCOUTH]

Hypergamy theory still confirmed. For once a non-fluke. Thank god. I was getting a little bit worried there.

My sanity was legit disappearing. Feels good knowing male model theory is BACK IN FORCE.

To think some people here are naive enough to think they EVER have a shot at a cute GF. LOL. Get real.

You need to be a top runway model with 3 inches in chin, brow and maxilla projection with a 1.0MF/R and a 2.0FWH/R.

Brian Peppers and the entire LMS crew were right. Being social and non-aspie means nothing. It's about FACE.

Legit


If they dont tick any of these boxes their only option is to move to China and run great Laowai emperor game.

[Bynr]

Every man knows that his highest purpose in life cannot be reduced to
any particular relationship. If a man prioritizes his relationship over his
highest purpose, he weakens himself disserves the universe, and cheats his
woman of an authentic man who can offer her full, undivided presence.

Admit to yourself that if you had to choose one or the other, the
perfect intimate relationship or achieving your highest purpose
in life, you would choose to succeed at your purpose. Just this
self-knowledge often relieves much pressure a man feels to prioritize
his relationship when, in fact, it is not his highest priority.


"If a young man gets married, starts a family, and spends the rest of his life working at a soul destroying
job, he is held up as an example of virtue and responsibility. The other type of man,
living only for himself, working only for himself, doing first one thing and then another simply
because he enjoys it and because he has to keep only himself, sleeping where and when he
wants, and facing woman when he meets her, on equal terms and not as one of a million slaves,
is rejected by society. The free, unshackled man has no place in its midst."

how old are you brah? it changes the value of your post in this here thread

[NVious]

how old are you brah? it changes the value of your post in this here thread

I WISH I came up with these quotes, first 2 are from the book called Way of The Superior Man and the second is from The Book of Pook and The Mill.

Also age means NOTHING, either what I say is true or it is not, i.e if a 12 year old said something, it wouldn't make it any more or less true than if a 65 year old said it, truth is based in itself not on anything apart from it. In the same way just because some old phuck says something does NOT make it true because all being old means that you've managed to live a long life which CAN offer wisdom, but if you're a poor leaner, it won't mean much.

In the same way that somebody could spend hours studying for a test, meticulously going over material and still do poorly and there are people that just "get it" without much studying effort. It comes down to efficiency of learning.

Here is another quote from the Pook and Mill book

"There are two great teachers in life: experience and foresight. Experience teaches harshly,
brutally, while foresight teaches gently, patiently, pleasingly. As for my master, I choose
foresight. On sosuave, you would often hear that "experience is everything," but must you
experience many marriages in order to have a 'good one?' Of course not! Men who do not see the
potential legal noose that marriage and divorce can bring will be taught by experience if they do
not learn their lessons from foresight. In the same way, young men, even nice guys, will learn
their lessons from experience about women if they do not first learn them from foresight. The
problem is that divorce, child custody, and all is too shattering to learn from experience. Let us
embrace foresight on the matter."

[Opulent92]

[dryst]

lol wtf, i always thought people assumed the opposite...

[Bynr]

I WISH I came up with these quotes, first 2 are from the book called Way of The Superior Man and the second is from The Book of Pook and The Mill.

Also age means NOTHING, either what I say is true or it is not, i.e if a 12 year old said something, it wouldn't make it any more or less true than if a 65 year old said it, truth is based in itself not on anything apart from it. In the same way just because some old phuck says something does NOT make it true because all being old means that you've managed to live a long life which CAN offer wisdom, but if you're a poor leaner, it won't mean much.

In the same way that somebody could spend hours studying for a test, meticulously going over material and still do poorly and there are people that just "get it" without much studying effort. It comes down to efficiency of learning.

Here is another quote from the Pook and Mill book

"There are two great teachers in life: experience and foresight. Experience teaches harshly,
brutally, while foresight teaches gently, patiently, pleasingly. As for my master, I choose
foresight. On sosuave, you would often hear that "experience is everything," but must you
experience many marriages in order to have a 'good one?' Of course not! Men who do not see the
potential legal noose that marriage and divorce can bring will be taught by experience if they do
not learn their lessons from foresight. In the same way, young men, even nice guys, will learn
their lessons from experience about women if they do not first learn them from foresight. The
problem is that divorce, child custody, and all is too shattering to learn from experience. Let us
embrace foresight on the matter."

Rep. you just made me think about where my life is going... wasn't ready for these feels.

[NVious]

Rep. you just made me think about where my life is going... wasn't ready for these feels.

*Bang Bang*

[alial30]

Good watch for those interested.

[KRANE]

Because they don't know the stats: 92% of Americans get married. However, 50% are divorced within the first 5 years.

[ReluctantRunner]

The Bible says it is not good for man to be alone, so God created a helpmeet for us.

However, the problem is...if you are not finding the one you are meant to be with...then you are SOL

you have a 1/4,000,000,000 chance of meeting that right person. So if there is any fraction of a doubt about the person, you would probably do well to stay single. And they angus must be peppered

[jumpman18]

The Bible says it is not good for man to be alone, so God created a helpmeet for us.

However, the problem is...if you are not finding the one you are meant to be with...then you are SOL

you have a 1/4,000,000,000 chance of meeting that right person. So if there is any fraction of a doubt about the person, you would probably do well to stay single. And they angus must be peppered

There's only one right person out there?? Lol strong stats bro.

[stevesteve12]

to give and to experience unconditional love

not even once