Making 6 figures and lifting weights didn't help with women at all

[TomPaine]

logged in recently after years being away from this place and the bolded assertions always make me laugh.

brb $100,000 USD is the STANDARD salary for one person. lmfao

OP is in California where $100,000 is within the range of an average salary. Plenty of people that make that amount, live paycheck to paycheck.

[skinnyfat88]

Why do you bother matching if you find them unattractive?

If you can get 1st dates it's a good sign.

Post your profile if you want to up your game.

[6gorillion]

Bro you make 102K (as you have said before)

That's nothing in a HCOL area. the real "six figures" adjusted for inflation, starts at 170K these days.

[SirFapsAIot]

Still get ghosted after the first date (the 2 first dates I get per year). 99% of hinge matches are still landpigs. lol

at the end of the day, you're still you, so, that's why

[Cleveland33]

at the end of the day, you're still you, so, that's why

does he suck?

[imbored21]

Why do you bother matching if you find them unattractive?

If you can get 1st dates it's a good sign.

Post your profile if you want to up your game.

Validation, sex, or blind swiping

[FelixTheCat1919]

Hinge is great if you like fat women with absurdly high standards

[imbored21]

Hinge is great if you like fat women with absurdly high standards

I got 2 first dates with 8s. That took me 4 years of swiping. Hinge is trash.

[SirFapsAIot]

does he suck?

100%

[miscinbro]

Still get ghosted after the first date (the 2 first dates I get per year). 99% of hinge matches are still landpigs. lol

If you’re anything like the miserable c unt IRL that you are here nobody wants to be around that.

[MajorTendonitis]

OP if your a manlet it’s over , as it’s all about height and the face . Back in the early 90’s I lost the love of my life because my girl had a chance encounter with a Chad.
I was dating this sloot that had that perfect girl next door look , and only had a body count of one. Very sweet and innocent thing going .
Things were going great I thought , right up until I was invited to come and watch her compete in a company curling tournament.
Her butter face coworker showed up with her Chad fiancée, and once my girl seen she had pulled a Chad , it was over !
Ded fkn srs , I was read the riot act right then and there , told me she wanted a tall dark and handsome guy lol . I never seen anything escalate so quickly in my life .
Wouldn’t doubt they went to his place after the tournament and had a 3 some , as sloots would rather share a Chad then date a Timmy .

[Onlinedatingcel]

Online dating is chads only. Tinder is gigachad only.

You either need to be a pretty boy with a hyper attractive face or be extremely masculine with an attractive face.

Where do your photos score on photofeeler?

[imbored21]

Online dating is chads only. Tinder is gigachad only.

You either need to be a pretty boy with a hyper attractive face or be extremely masculine with an attractive face.

Where do your photos score on photofeeler?

how do normies get gfs?

[Onlinedatingcel]

how do normies get gfs?

They talk to them in high school and college.

[imbored21]

They talk to them in high school and college.

I ****ed up my life

[niospecv]

Go out and meet average women in public. That is where you will succeed. Online dating is for rich chads only.

[DustinTheHuss]

Do you post your income?

[forthenoodz]

I laugh because when people say they make six figures, that means they make $100,001 per year, but are trying to make it sound impressive.

That's only going to be a flex to ghetto, trashy girls, it's not going to make panties drop wherever you walk because that's just a standard salary these days. Do you own a nice house and have nice things? Those will impress the girls more anyway.

Regarding the lifting, you just started so you can't really say that you look like you left. Someone who looks like they lift is one who's done it for a few years and actually changed the composition of their body shape. If you actually are being consistent with lifting now, good for you. But don't expect your twink physique to impress anyone anytime soon, it takes work, especially if you have a bad base to begin with.

this. 6 figures is not impressive anymore

[Sevenlionz]

It’s your personality or the way you’re coming across to them srs

If you can score a date that means that out of the hundreds of dudes wanting their attention they took their time and chose you. Anything after that and the ball is in your court

[Onlinedatingcel]

It’s your personality or the way you’re coming across to them srs

If you can score a date that means that out of the hundreds of dudes wanting their attention they took their time and chose you. Anything after that and the ball is in your court

This isn't true. Not every match or date is created equal. Some women go out on a date for a free meal, or out of desperation if they are in a dry patch.

[BigElephant]

Not sure what your face is like, but that could be an issue. Regardless, you likely aren't getting any action off dating sites as a 5'7" male unless you have fukk you money and advertise it. Women on dating sites are hyper picky and only actually close with legit Chads.

Not sure where the best place to pick up on women IRL is. If you just want pussy then bars and clubs are fine for that but it's going to be shallow and unfulfilling. If you want serious relationship material women that's going to be hard to find.

[Visel]

How long have you been making 6 figs OP? Are you dressing, driving, and dining like a richcel or not? Otherwise how else should a woman judge this in the first place?

How long have you been lifting OP? Are you actually kinda jacked, or at least bigger, or no? If you're a fatcel with muscle underneath you're still not gonna attract anyone with a dadbod.

[BigElephant]

What do you advise I do? (im ugly, 5'10, pajeet)

Ugly face and pajeet status is pretty close to a death sentence. At least you're not manlet, but you're not tall enough to offset the other stuff either. Best you can do is get ripped and earnmax. A guy with your appearance but is ripped, rich, and charismatic still has a chance. And I mean technically you'd still have a chance without being rich too, but many women just won't give you the time of day. Some are nice and will talk to you but even if your charisma can shine through in those interactions, if they have already disqualified you from romantic consideration before that it most likely won't change their minds.

I apologize if I'm being a downer, but I don't want to sugarcoat things and give you false hope either. I've been in that situation before talking to a woman and things are going well it's a good conversation and she either shuts it down immediately when I ask her out or she takes my number and never calls. This sucks because the positive conversation kind of builds you up and makes you think there is hope but then you get shut down. It's not fun. For reference I'm a 5'6" scrawny white guy with an attractive face. Not sure which of us has the bigger hurdle to overcome. Women don't like looking at ugly faces, but they often view manlets with a sense of comedy like they are lesser than men so they obviously wouldn't be turned on by one and thus wouldn't consider one for romantic pursuits.

[imbored21]

Not sure what your face is like, but that could be an issue. Regardless, you likely aren't getting any action off dating sites as a 5'7" male unless you have fukk you money and advertise it. Women on dating sites are hyper picky and only actually close with legit Chads.

Not sure where the best place to pick up on women IRL is. If you just want pussy then bars and clubs are fine for that but it's going to be shallow and unfulfilling. If you want serious relationship material women that's going to be hard to find.

i only date asian. I'm way taller than all of them lol

And im 5'7.5. That's like a real life 5'9.5 since everyone inflates their height by 2 inches. With shoes that's 5'10.5. I have literally nevet been called short outside of the misc lol

[BigElephant]

i only date asian. I'm way taller than all of them lol

And im 5'7.5. That's like a real life 5'9.5 since everyone inflates their height by 2 inches. With shoes that's 5'10.5. I have literally nevet been called short outside of the misc lol

That's good. Not sure how Asians feel about height as I've only ever seriously pursued white women. But I do know dating apps are a different story and standards get inflated on there. Women literally have thousands of guys to pick from so they're only going to go with the very best. This is where the 80-20 thing actually ends up being true, and is likely beyond that ratio at this point. They may swipe right on more guys just to have options. But they'll talk to fewer, and they'll agree to meet up with even fewer. If a woman on a dating app is talking to an average guy and then gets hit up by a Chad, 90% of the time the average guy gets ghosted until Chad ditches her.

[1hardgainer]

i only date asian. I'm way taller than all of them lol

And im 5'7.5. That's like a real life 5'9.5 since everyone inflates their height by 2 inches. With shoes that's 5'10.5. I have literally nevet been called short outside of the misc lol

Are you white? If so, that's pretty much all you need to get an asian gf.

[imbored21]

Are you white? If so, that's pretty much all you need to get an asian gf.

Doesn't work for me :/

[bsrkoacar2]

Hmm that sucks brah. That equation payed off for me. Do you happen to be insufferably negative in real life like you are on the misc? No offense, but that would need some work if so

[imbored21]

Hmm that sucks brah. That equation payed off for me. Do you happen to be insufferably negative in real life like you are on the misc? No offense, but that would need some work if so

No man. I'm just a quiet, boring, nice guy IRL.

[LargePeter]

Still get ghosted after the first date (the 2 first dates I get per year). 99% of hinge matches are still landpigs. lol

Did you get your six pack ph@ggles?

I've just found mine at 5'9" and 217lb, based as fuk