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03-03-2021, 08:12 PM #31
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03-03-2021, 08:19 PM #32
Well, that is life and even if you fell in love with some young chad after a few years you would be bored of him.
Why not compromise and find a great older guy to settle down with and just fap to pics of young Chads.
I know an older woman who is happily married, but has a thing for young hot Chad's and she can easily get them if she wanted to, but she just leaves it at flirting although she does spend most of her time going from young Chad to young chad cock teasing them as she loves the ego boost and is happy to just have a fap over it.
What I am trying to say is sometimes you cannot have everything and you need to compromise, so marry Ratfish(insert your own name) and fap to notbadnotbrad.
or risk growing old and lonely unless of course you find the perfect man.
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03-03-2021, 08:23 PM #33
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03-03-2021, 08:24 PM #34
In all seriousness, I can't imagine that many good looking younger men are interested in even one night with a woman in her late 40s.
And even ugly 25yos would be embarrassed to admit to it.
I guess if you genuinely can't form an attraction to men your own age, then that's that, but i think there are lots of very handsome men in their 40s. Sad for you that you've basically condemned yourself to a life of solitude.
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03-03-2021, 08:30 PM #35
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03-03-2021, 08:38 PM #36
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03-03-2021, 08:39 PM #37
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03-03-2021, 08:46 PM #38
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03-03-2021, 09:01 PM #39
I read the article and I can totally relate.
The former Pepsi salesman would constantly go on and off with me. He had a hard time with the nearly 20 year age difference, too. He was an insanely hot blonde surfer type of look and the sex was my best ever.
Since he was an addict, we could talk for hours about addiction, 12 steps and recovery as I've been to a lot of 12 step meetings. I was his support to stay clean and gave him daily pep talks. But then he'd block me for no reason, then unblock me, then block me. Then he'd find a young girlfriend. He'd break up with her and text me. This cycle went on for 4 years.
It really gave me a lot of stress and anxiety. Now he has me permanently blocked, and it's a long story.
I wish like SS said I would learn not to get attached to the young guys, but I do It's hard to control my emotions in that sense.
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03-03-2021, 09:07 PM #40
Yeah I have not fallen in love with any young guy. I do like them and I like sex with them but it’s not really any deeper attachment.
The most attachment is with my long term 4 years and I do love him in a shallow sense but I’m not in love with him. I just like talking with him and I’m fond of him. Almost like a friend. But no intense chemistry or intense attachment. And the sex is just normal nothing amazing.
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03-03-2021, 09:13 PM #41
I just talked to my FWB of 6 years today but I'm not in love with him either. I can relate to that.
I've fallen for many young guys and I can just remember crying for days when they ended it because they could tell I was getting attached. My family couldn't understand why I was so sad and I couldn't tell them why.
It wasn't just the Pepsi dealer, there was a Harvard grad, a guy who worked for Google and some others who had their acts together.
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03-03-2021, 09:16 PM #42
It's so hard to find men our age.
I went out with a 52 year old 2 weeks ago. I'm pretty sure he's secretly married and just using their beach house to meet women for sex. He immediately started touching my hair when we were on the beach and rubbing my shoulders. It was really weird.
He had it all, too -- good looks, about to retire, nice. He didn't like that I was Christian, though.
Then he said he was going skiing with his ex-wife all day and staying over at her house so he had to leave. LOL. I could track him on Bumble and he was at her house for 3 days, and then he went back to the beach house.
As they said in the Matches thread, I was borderline trolling. Red flags 101. Unfortunately I wasn't trolling. So now I'm on break from online dating.
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03-03-2021, 09:18 PM #43
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03-03-2021, 09:20 PM #44
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03-03-2021, 09:21 PM #45
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03-03-2021, 09:23 PM #46
I'm honest and up front about my situation and he wasn't.
Yes I've seen some older guys who were married on paper only, but they were clear they would never leave their partner, so it didn't progress to anything physical as I always want the option that I could have a relationship with the guy and possibly leave the marriage.
I guess I'm a monkey brancher
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03-03-2021, 09:24 PM #47
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03-03-2021, 09:28 PM #48
I understand your point of view but think about what they might think about your situation.
I actually respect them more if they down right say they will never leave. I respect men in that sense. Women are more fickle. They monkeybranch and see if they can get something better. Not just you but in general I think. Sometimes I think men are better at loving and more loyal even if they do crap like that.
Edit: Lol I even wrote that before I saw your monkeybranch comment.
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03-03-2021, 09:29 PM #49
Yeah I rarely saw slooting in high school and college as our generation was so scared of AIDS. I mostly saw relationships, and even they were paranoid to have sex. I was engaged through those times so I had only one partner.
Now it's a huge feminist thing to ride the cawk carousel in high school and college and brag about it to their friends? I would never tell my friends about my sexcapades. They would be ashamed.
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03-03-2021, 09:32 PM #50
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03-03-2021, 09:32 PM #51
Yeah they don't like my situation and another guy that I was talking to is 53 and he complained that the women in my area are all separated and living together due to the high cost of living. He said that he had to go through financial hell for a divorce and live in a tiny place, so he gets upset that we get to stay in big houses and date. Then he said the women would get clingy and upset if he went out with the guys, so he blocked them.
Another guy was 50 and single but said he liked to date married women since he is a single father of 3 small kids and doesn't have the time for a relationship, but that many are also looking for a better guy to leave for.
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03-03-2021, 09:33 PM #52
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