Birth control

[MilaGroski]

Now zipitlisten is switching BC because Yasmin turns her into a crying, bloated, big bish! So I have been looking into Nuvaring but I've seen a lot of bad reviews, but it looks to tiny and low maintenance. Then I saw a lot of women have gained weight on nuvaring and the birth control shot! Ugh.. do you girls have any good suggestions? Any BC you strongly recommend against?

I don't mess with my hormones, I had used IUD's (non hormonal type) for 20 years before hubby got snipped. No issues, really, best thing imho

[Botika]

I had problems with spotting on implanon and ended up getting it out. Thankfully the Dr was skilled and I didn't end up with a big scar. It's easier to put in than take out.

I also has problems on the pill with acne. Diane made it better for a while but then it returned.

For a while I had a non-hormonal IUD so that I could give my body a break from the hormones. Was ok but cramps were an issue.

Apparently Mirena is a good IUD option. It releases hormones locally which reduce period length, some women don't get one at all.

You could always just try having a break from the pill for a few months and then trying a different pill. A different dose may alleviate the symptoms you are experiencing.

[skamps]

There are a lot of positive reviews on Aviane (generic version of Alesse) and the dosage is quite low so it doesn't come with the typical unwanted side effects that you mentioned.

[Ava30]

I'm starting to like condoms better and better. Even though they totally suck, it's better than weight gain, mood swings, swollen boobs and being bloated!
I work way to hard in the gym to gain weight cause of stupid BC - I know a lot of women use it as an excuse but still, scared!

This is what I am doing
I am sick of all the things that come with all these hormones we put intp our bodies. I had a mirena for 2 years and it made me feel terrible. I removed it we just use condoms now

[Botika]

This is what I am doing
I am sick of all the things that come with all these hormones we put intp our bodies. I had a mirena for 2 years and it made me feel terrible. I removed it we just use condoms now

I agree. I've been off hormones for 18 months and feel a lot better for it.

[Ava30]

I agree. I've been off hormones for 18 months and feel a lot better for it.

I feel like a new person. Those hormones make you crazy

[mrshester]

I knew some girls who took the implant and said there were no side effects compared to the pill, i'd rather the girl get that

If you're talking about the implanon, there are side effects. My sister had them. Everyone may not have them, but anything you put into your body like that can affect it very little or it can kill you.

[mrshester]

I agree. I've been off hormones for 18 months and feel a lot better for it.

When little man is a bit closer to becoming 2 and I feel like we're really ready for another little one, I'm coming off mine for good. I'm going to learn how to recognize my body's signs of ovulation and try to track it. I'm sick of putting the hormones in me as well...

[thebigzakbowski]

what about the pull out method? no messing with hormones

[BrotherWolf]

what about the pull out method? no messing with hormones

could work well or could be a disaster

[Igmann]

I'm starting to like condoms better and better. Even though they totally suck, it's better than weight gain, mood swings, swollen boobs and being bloated!
I work way to hard in the gym to gain weight cause of stupid BC - I know a lot of women use it as an excuse but still, scared!

Condoms suck, especially if the man is uncircumcised.

[penny0527]

I'm starting to like condoms better and better. Even though they totally suck, it's better than weight gain, mood swings, swollen boobs and being bloated!
I work way to hard in the gym to gain weight cause of stupid BC - I know a lot of women use it as an excuse but still, scared!

you know what messes with your whore-moans? a baby...

Condoms are an inconvenience. No more spontaneity.

I take Microgestin FE pills and have for years. It has no effect on me what-so-ever.

what is with men and their fear of a vasectomy even if they do not plan to have kids?

[rickiecoombs]

There are a lot of positive reviews on Aviane (generic version of Alesse) and the dosage is quite low so it doesn't come with the typical unwanted side effects that you mentioned.

^^ I had good results on this, as well. Would still be on it, if I had a choice.

If you're talking about the implanon, there are side effects. My sister had them. Everyone may not have them, but anything you put into your body like that can affect it very little or it can kill you.

^^ What she said!! Getting other people's input is a great idea, but ultimately, you may have to figure out what's best for you through trial and error. Getting the Depo shot terrified me, because of the listed possible side effects. I've had none of them. Someone else, however, could have all of them! There's really no way to know - for the most part - how a certain BC will affect the person who's taking it.

I really hope you find something that works well for you!!

[mrshester]

you know what messes with your whore-moans? a baby...

Condoms are an inconvenience. No more spontaneity.

I take Microgestin FE pills and have for years. It has no effect on me what-so-ever.

what is with men and their fear of a vasectomy even if they do not plan to have kids?

I think it has to do with the permanence, maybe? My mom had her tubes tied after her 3rd (my oldest little brother). I don't know if I could do it. And even those are not always 100%...I know a couple of men who had vasectomies and ended up with that surprise. Kids ended up looking just like their fathers, so it wasn't infidelity.

[penny0527]

I think it has to do with the permanence, maybe? My mom had her tubes tied after her 3rd (my oldest little brother). I don't know if I could do it. And even those are not always 100%...I know a couple of men who had vasectomies and ended up with that surprise. Kids ended up looking just like their fathers, so it wasn't infidelity.

Maybe but if my husband doesnt get one I will get my tubes tied. A vasectomy is so much less invasive.

The babies that are produced after a V are most likely due to not following up afterwards. you have to go back a couple of times to have them test.

[oldskooler]

what is with men and their fear of a vasectomy even if they do not plan to have kids?

We're pretty fond of and protective of our parts down there. Snipping and cutting doesn't rank high on the list of things we want to happen down there.

[penny0527]

We're pretty fond of and protective of our parts down there. Snipping and cutting doesn't rank high on the list of things we want to happen down there.

women are too

[FoxBlossom]

Was on Yasmin for a good while until dem der side effects started to rear their ugly heads; to the point where it was horrific mood swings (not good considering I was in the armed forces at the time!), bloating, generally feeling utterly **** for days on end and just felt like it wasn't really doing what it was meant to be doing. As someone else mentioned I wanted a total break from hormones and something that I could pretty much not have to stress about remembering to take etc, so after some research I got the non-hormonal IUD. Be advised though if you haven't had children, the actual procedure of having it fitted hurts like a mother fuarker; seriously I've had 4 hour long tattoo sessions, broken bones, car collisions and all sorts of crap that didn't come close to what it was like on the pain threshold, admittedly I didn't take any painkillers beforehand but serious, pepper thy angus if you go down this route. Saying that, I've had it for three years now and had zero problems, periods are slightly heavier but that's it, no bloating, weight gain or any other discomfort.

[Igmann]

My general advice to anyone is to not take any medication which adversely affects your hormonal functions.

Condoms suck but I couldn't ask a woman to go through some of these bc side effects just so we can avoid the use of condoms.

[oldskooler]

women are too

I'm sure you are. I'm just saying guys (in general) have an innate aversion to alterations down there. Its just instinctual for us. Gotta protect down there at all costs!

In regards to bc, its like anything else. Weighs the pros and cons and make what you fell is the best decision.

[RandomRetro]

Mercillion is fine, no side affects that i noticed. Came off it now, as i don't see the point in taking bc when i'm not having regular sex. But when i want to get one f those boyfriend types again, i'll go back on it. Better to be safe then sorry, and double protection- pop a pill and have him wrap himself. no glove no love.

[penny0527]

I'm sure you are. I'm just saying guys (in general) have an innate aversion to alterations down there. Its just instinctual for us. Gotta protect down there at all costs!

In regards to bc, its like anything else. Weighs the pros and cons and make what you fell is the best decision.

So you're saying I should give him a vasectomy in his sleep?

[Sarah4Fitness]

I chose to stop hormonal bc (tried pills, the shot, etc.) over the years, some with adverse effects, some not. (I loved the shot, btw. Regulated my emotions/moodswings, and had no other side effects I knew of at the time.)

A couple other women have mentioned the (copper) no-hormone IUD. I would definitely advise women who want to avoid hormonal birth control to consider the IUD over the pull-out (really? REALLY? Know what you call people who use that method? PARENTS!) or condoms alone.
There can be downsides, and some doctors prefer not to even offer them to women who have not previously had a child, but if you press (as I did) you CAN get this device.
Prior to getting it, I do suggest you take a strong painkiller and take the rest of the day off. It can cause mild to severe discomfort and cramping upon insertion. There are other side effects, like a long period of adjustment which includes cramps and bleeding, but AFTER all that, you're set with a bc method that doesn't require tending to, and doesn't mess with your hormonal balances.
If anyone has any questions about my personal experience with the IUD, I'm happy to share in more detail in a less public message.

[Musc1eBound]

So you're saying I should give him a vasectomy in his sleep?

Never falling asleep in your presence.

[CaliSuperSport]

use them. Wow, momentary discomfort for dude, or mood swings, maybe permanent hormonal changes, weight gain etc for you?

This is not something you should be selfless with.

this.

I want to know how guys feel about it.

Boo!!

[Bantersaurus]

The Mirena coil - it's genius!!

[penny0527]

Never falling asleep in your presence.

[LaDonnaMF]

I'm taking a shot - Depo Provera. I am on it only because it is literally the only form of BC I can take (long story). The list of potential side effects is very long, and very scary. Thankfully, I haven't had any of them. In fact, I've been taking it for several months now, and have continued to lose weight since then... I realize that any kind of BC involving hormones can cause weight fluctuations, but I think sometimes women use it as a crutch. (Emphasis on the sometimes)

I'm taking Calcium and D3, too, to help maintain bone density. The studies that show possible bone loss also show that after you stop taking the shot, you can gain back the density that you've lost. I had a dexa scan done last month, and my bones are way above average, so that made me happy! They don't recommend that you take Depo Provera for more than 5 years.

Just my $0.02

Was on Depo for two years and went off because I read studies that stated the bone loss is not reversable and is worse for older women (25 and up). Also turned out to be lactose intolerant. Was supposed to have my last shot in March... this month I've had weirdness with my body... sore breasts (freaked out I could be preggars even though no period yet) phantom period cramps.. and I'm pretty moody.

I was on the nuvaring for a while... was a b*tch at first to figure out how to compress it and get it up there... also had to take it out for sex because we both could feel it and it was akward.. often forgot to put it back in.. grew tired of putting stuff up my vajjj all the time. LOL!

Does anyone know if a lot of girls out there lie about being on birth control? Just so the guy wouldn't have to wear protection? (even though he should either way)

I don't see how lying about birth control would benefit a woman... she'd be the one getting pregnant... getting fat... and then having a baby to take care of. But there's really no way for a man to know if she is or not... if you're scared about it ask your female partners to see their birth control.. if they make an issue of it don't have sex with them and/or wear a condom (one that you bought, LOL).