My mom was convinced I was a genius (she is a narcissist/phsych issues so of course her son would be a genius). Got me tested a bunch 130-135iq but honestly I feel like I’m only good at the mental shape manipulation stuff.
Anyways all it makes me feel like is I’m a failure for what I could of done if I applied myself right. But I have wisdom cope family kids good life etc.. so I don’t dwell on it too much.
But plenty of people who might have been slightly “slower” then me who are much much much smarter just because they spent more time learning things. Also legit smart people like 140+ iq will just make you feel dumb all over again.
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06-27-2022, 08:12 PM #31
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06-27-2022, 08:25 PM #33
This is a basic, entry level office job that does not require an extraordinary IQ. My point is that he should be smart and competent enough to do the job given enough time since he is college educated.
He seemed laser focused, and highly motivated to do well at the job. He would turn down conversations to do work(one of the only ppl at the office who would do this.) He was always on time.That said, I don't know the full story, but from what I saw, he just needed more time. Perhaps he did or said something to upset someone. That would make more sense, but was unlikely to be the case from I heard. He seemed like a hard worker who was willing to learn.
tbh I think its the employers on this one. Don't know the whole story. Theres probably something that I don't know.AGE-25
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06-27-2022, 08:30 PM #34
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06-28-2022, 08:57 AM #38
Sometimes it just isn't a right fit or the employee seems clueless and it's just better to cut ties quickly. Doesn't matter what the person's formal educational level is. However, a good employer always wants their new employees to succeed and you have to onboard folk's properly, which from reading your descriptions sounds like they didn't.
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06-28-2022, 09:00 AM #39
Organizational psychology and a psychologist in the classical sense are two separate things.
I also almost guarantee you are not getting the full story here. It is alarming to fire someone within a month, but that really should fall back on accountability with the hiring manager.Train hard, train smart, have fun!
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06-28-2022, 05:05 PM #40
You waited all the way until lunch?
Some employers actually fire employees on the first nanosecond. If they use the wrong door or walk in the wrong way, its immediate termination. Sometimes they also fire employees for being one nanosecond late to work. For example, if work starts at 8:00, but the employee comes in at 8:00 with 1 nanosecond, he or she is generally fired on the site. One employee was 2 minutes early to work and was fired for being a cuck/suck up, and not made for the job.
Many employers also have started to fire employees from the parting lot. If the employee is seen wearing the wrong cloths or not tucking their shirt in, at the parking lot, its immediate termination, even before the job starts.
Hell some employers have even started to fire employers after the job acceptance letter. If the newly hired employee does not reply fast enough or does not seem excited enough when accepted, he or she is fired on the spot. If they seem too excited or reply too fast, they are then fired for being desperate. Many would be employees who are too late to reply have 2 messages from their inbox nowadays. One letter of termination and another acceptance letter. They are usually set about 5 minutes apart from each other.
HR experts are trying to figure out ways to fire someone after or during the interview process.Last edited by johnnydeep1; 06-28-2022 at 05:56 PM.
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06-28-2022, 06:07 PM #47
This is a basic, entry level office job that does not require an extraordinary IQ.
He also seemed laser focused, and highly motivated to do well at the job. He would turn down conversations to do work(one of the only ppl at the office who would do this.) He was always on time.That said, I don't know the full story, but from what I saw, he just needed more time. Perhaps he did or said something to upset someone. That would make more sense, but was unlikely to be the case from I heard. He seemed like a hard worker who was willing to learn. Its not like its a Walmart job, and the guy was dealing drugs outside the store or anything.AGE-25
Wt-165
HT-5'10"
Bench-100 dumbbell press-5 reps
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06-28-2022, 06:12 PM #48
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06-29-2022, 04:23 AM #52
Depends on their attitude mostly at 1 month into a job. If they are subpar but have a great attitude about the job/improving their work performance, then that's someone you can possibly work with to the point of getting them where they need to be at the job. On the other hand, if they have a chitty/entitled/etc. attitude despite sucking at the job, it indicates that they can't be worked with to mold them into a quality worker.
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06-29-2022, 04:27 AM #53
Well either his performance was not good, or he just wasn't a cultural fit - and by cultural fit i mean somebody who holds weight just didn't like him for whatever the fuk reason.
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06-29-2022, 04:40 AM #54
Depends on the situation.
I've seen slow starters become monsters. It all comes down to the potential you see in them and if it's right for the job.Permanent reminder that MBisonSon is a fgt => https://forum.bodybuilding.com/showthread.php?t=181456073
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07-01-2022, 06:01 PM #58
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Most places I have worked, and from people I have talked to, it's typically a 90 day provisional period until they are fully hired. Most managers will also let the employee work the majority of the 90 days before making the final decision. Managers who make a lot of **** hires tend to have their judgement questioned by their bosses, so it's actually in their best interest to do everything they can to ensure the employee they hired works out, so they will ride it until the end of the provisional period, grasping onto hope they can make this person work out.
My guess is that OPs guy is complete ****, doesn't fit the work culture, or there is something else you don't know about that caused his manager to throw in the towel early.Last edited by DrunkNinjaMastr; 07-01-2022 at 06:10 PM.
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