already posted a pic a while ago but since i will be dying a virgin and have no interest from any girls despite talking to female co-workers and female classmates regularly i may as well post my pic..
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11-15-2012, 12:31 PM #1891
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11-15-2012, 12:34 PM #1892Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they've been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It's an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It's a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.
― Muhammad Ali
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11-15-2012, 12:36 PM #1893
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11-15-2012, 12:39 PM #1894Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they've been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It's an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It's a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.
― Muhammad Ali
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11-16-2012, 02:31 AM #1895
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11-16-2012, 03:16 AM #1896
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11-16-2012, 06:24 AM #1897
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I'm on the left. People seem to think that because you are black, you are born slaying poon and it's just not true. Stereotypes suck when you do not live up to them but everybody assumes that you do.I've got Avoidant Personality Disorder, so I never was that social to begin with. I've been approached countless times, but my low confidence and awkwardness prevents me from making any moves.
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11-16-2012, 06:46 AM #1898
Yeah man fcking sucks being a black FA. Everyone else thinks I'm weird cause I don't get girls. White girls are disappointed when they realize im just like a white guy instead of being urban. Why don't I have any confidence though. You look like the type of black guy that is running through white girls srst
Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; and if it is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.
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11-16-2012, 06:47 AM #1899
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11-16-2012, 06:52 AM #1900
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11-16-2012, 09:55 AM #1902
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Yes, everybody assumes that, people even think I am confident because of the way I stand, how tall I am (5ft 11 is not that tall) and the muscle that I have. Girls assume I'm confident and then when it comes down to it I mess it up by not doing anything. They either friend-zone me, or wait forever to make a move and I never do. I would be running through tons of pussy if I didn't have low self confidence.
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11-16-2012, 10:10 AM #1903
don't quite understand how you can have low confidence when you get approached countless times..I get approached at times just normal bs someone saying how tall are you or do you play basketball?some chicks just straight up leave negative comments since I am ugly as phuck..you look good though so it must be apd,lack of experience or something that happened to you in the past that caused low confidence..also is that a KM hookah?mirin
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11-16-2012, 10:14 AM #1904
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In on black FA feels, + 1 on everyone thinkin you get girls, I dont act white but White girls round here don't like black guys anyway except the single mother whales...these feels.. Also atleast you arent ugly bruh I only get approached once every 6-7 months and its a fugly drunk 1-2/10
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11-17-2012, 07:54 AM #1905
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11-17-2012, 10:02 AM #1906
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Yes we were doing KM hookah (we call it Shisha over here though). Vanilla or some berry flavour, nice as fuark. But yes it is definitely AvPD, low-confidence, self-esteem, shyness and wanting to please are all side-effects. Fap does not help either so I'm going for as long as I can no fap. So far it's been 8 days!
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11-17-2012, 10:09 AM #1907
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11-17-2012, 10:11 AM #1908
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11-17-2012, 10:13 AM #1909Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they've been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a fact. It's an opinion. Impossible is not a declaration. It's a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.
― Muhammad Ali
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11-17-2012, 10:41 AM #1910
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11-17-2012, 10:42 AM #1911
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appreciate it bruh but in real life noone cares about those things, only on the misc especially height..most of the dudes i know who get the most chicks are manlets who don't lift ide say 5'8-5'10 and 160-180, thats why I think you could pull em no problem if you just work on your self confidence.. yea Black FA's are out here!
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11-17-2012, 12:00 PM #1912
I would say that's about right. I think the problem is that you might be too intimidating for girls since you are 6'2" 237 lbs. By looking at your face, it seems like you are mean mugging all the time which only compounds to the effect. But then again, I knew a black bodybuilder who was 6'3" and looked 250+ lbs of muscle and he would be bringing home girls left and right so idk...
Das not it mayne.
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11-17-2012, 12:14 PM #1913
babyface/10, makes me look younger in my opinion
recovering fatass here, i hope my facial aesthetics improve once i get to a normal bf%, i am at about 20-25% now
i already lost a lot and my friends noticed and complimented me, but i still have the mindset that any girl will be disgusted by me and if a girl is looking at me its just because she wants to laugh at me.
to the ginger a couple of posts above, dont give up, i once had a girl choose a ginger over me so i dont think you have it that bad
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11-17-2012, 12:52 PM #1914
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11-17-2012, 03:14 PM #1917
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yeah I had a problem since childhood not smileing. its just not me. I have heard i am intimidating but I think I just fit in the category of guys who just don't get girls..I'm trying my best to accept it and move on wit my life and for the most part I feel alot better accepting it than wrecking my brain and stressing tryna figure out why I don't
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11-17-2012, 03:26 PM #1918
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11-17-2012, 05:22 PM #1919
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