are you going to post any results, or talk to any girls for fukk sakes?
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10-03-2012, 01:33 PM #61
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10-04-2012, 07:25 AM #66
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Dude . . . no. You need to approach differently if you don't have aesthetics.
Find a way to sit by around her, borrow a pen, say thanks - do it again something to break the ice. Then at least you have an identity - then when you get a chance make fun of her for something - don't be a dick be funny. Then keep workin on it steal her pen and give it back to her and walk with her on the way out etc. you gotta get her comfortable and then get her to think your funny then trust you - otherwise you gotta be good looking or popular to get her . . . sounds like you're gonna have to work on gameEat clean and train hard because nothing tastes as good as being fit feels!
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10-04-2012, 08:50 AM #67
Or work on not taking everything so ****ing seriously. I don't even know if OP even has a sense of humor.
You said good morning and she ignored you? Lol what did you expect her to say back? "Top of the morning to you too young sir!"
That's a horrible convo starter. It had no direction. If someone unexpectedly said good morning to me too, I probably would just nod and stay silent. Or at the very most give a fake QUARTER grin back (not even a half).
That could be a start for you getting used to actually speaking OP, but don't count that as an interaction.
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10-04-2012, 08:55 AM #68
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10-04-2012, 09:36 AM #69
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10-04-2012, 09:38 AM #70
Lol you're phucked kid just give it up. I'm 5'10 with shox on but at least I get comparisons to Thor and Achilles in Troy. You need to settle for 4s and below you may get extremely lucky and end up with a 6, but your standards will have to drop significantly. I see plenty of ugly as Phuck couples who's kids will end up looking like et but at least they got each other.
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10-04-2012, 10:06 AM #71
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Just riveting, riveting stuff here.
Also, you're 5'9" dip****.
I like where your head's at. A little humor can go a long way. You don't have to crack jokes or anything, just situational humor. 'Good morning' is creepy. Like you made a thread on a forum about how to approach a girl.
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10-04-2012, 10:50 AM #72
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10-04-2012, 06:35 PM #73
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10-04-2012, 06:45 PM #74
Why didn't you ask her again? You can call her out (playfully) for ignoring you.
If in the future when you try to open someone and they ignore you, don't just give up. A guy that asks "good morning" isn't necessarily interested... it could be manners/small talk/boredom. A guy that asks a second time is showing intention, she will have a clearer idea and respond more genuinely to the situation.
A good generic strategy for situations like these is to verbalize the failure/awkwardness... you could have said "Don't you find it awkward when you say hello to someone and they don't say it back?".
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10-04-2012, 07:12 PM #75
be louder, 100% serious.
Even then that doesn't matter. I smiled at like 10 girls today and 1 smiled back. No ****s given.
but yea the secret is going harder and demanding attention. None of this quiet half asses bullshyt
BTW you better not be trolling or all respect lost lolThe best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
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10-04-2012, 07:34 PM #76
Yeah as soon as i left i realized i could've done that but i was just so set on her saying good morning and going from there that i wasn't ready for anything else that could've happened...
lulz am i really getting that bad that im acting like a troll?? But i'll keep that in mind, im not stressing over it or anything though.Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; and if it is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.
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10-04-2012, 09:14 PM #77
I didn't say that saying good morning is creepy, it might be how you portray yourself. Straight up if you can't pull 4's then you are doing everything that is humanely possible wrong because 4's don't reject people they are just happy someone would even consider stroking them. with that said one cannot just acquire game because just like looks it is somethin your born with. i don't care what the schmucks on here tell you because chances are they are just some scrub hiding behind a screen, if at this point you do not possess it then you'll have to enhance other aspects such as your appearance and status. you say your 23 and you're makin 90k annually, then that right there is the best base to start with. go out on weekends lookin like a phuckin baller and make people notice you, do yourself a favor and buy some hugo boss and polo black suits. at least one a piece. bishes will notice trust me and they will start to wonder who you are and what you are about. in the same token just live in the moment and enjoy it while taking in your surroundings. if you have friends bring them to and if you don't make some and make yourself someone desirable to be around.
Last edited by TSPoonSlayers79; 10-04-2012 at 09:28 PM. Reason: Whoops you aren't the 90k kid disregard that
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10-04-2012, 09:28 PM #78Straight up if you can't pull 4's then you are doing everything that is humanely possible wrong because 4's don't reject people they are just happy someone would even consider stroking them.
Although I believe there would be a very strong correlation between physical looks and self-esteem/self-worth it's far from definitive. I don't believe you can make that statement.
There are unattractive people (well below 4/10) with incredibly high self-esteem that won't put up with anyone's crap... and there's 10/10's that will jump on anyone that will give them the slightest bit of validation.
It's best to judge them on a case by case basis.
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10-05-2012, 02:40 AM #79
I don't think what u said about 4/10s are true. Even they have crazy standards, especially since I'm talking black girls. The bold is what I'm trying to tell these guys...everytime I try "game" or flirting and joking with girls I just look stupid. I'm not cut out for this sh-t.
Do not think that what is hard for you to master is humanly impossible; and if it is humanly possible, consider it to be within your reach.
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10-05-2012, 02:55 AM #80
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You have 2 options
1) Stop the defeatist attitude
2) Become what you preach and stop caring because if you dont stop caring you will become severely mind fukd if you are not already.
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10-05-2012, 06:05 AM #81
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10-05-2012, 06:45 AM #83
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10-05-2012, 06:47 AM #84
OP or any other FA feel free to answer...
What the fuk do you guys get from this constant pity party you are throwing yourselves? I am as serious as cancer, I want to know why they fuk you guys flood this forum with your self pity bs? Is it a misery loves company thing? Is it your only outlet for any sort of attention? I just dont get it. Does it make yall feel better or justified in your FA mentality to know other pathetic ****s like you exist? This forum and these people are the absolute worst thing for you. Its a cycle you will never escape.Ol' 71st street. The devil that birthed me.
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