You do realise I'm in my 40s? Hardly ideal fodder for a drunken young stud trying to get laid, when there would be numerous more attractive women 20 years younger than me and much more receptive to their advances who are actually trying to pull.
I would be staying with my friends too, not going off alone to dark corners.
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09-13-2012, 09:41 AM #151
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09-13-2012, 09:42 AM #152
be real for a second. A group of friends goes out, alcohol/music/partying is involved. What % of women, or even people, will stay sober while the rest of their friends are getting yucky/hooking up? Women are at least as bad as men when it comes to group think/peer pressure, so please stop acting like the majority of people these days contain any sort of quality character; this is the whole issue.
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09-13-2012, 10:33 AM #159
thats not the point; the point is the majority of young men/women will not be able to resist social/peer temptations when out in social situations, so the fact that they thoughtlessly put themselves in this situation is a bit of a red flag (in terms of relationship material). No offense but at youre age you cant get away with this, so you don't, so using yourself as a justification for your whole gender is foolish
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09-13-2012, 11:02 AM #162
sorry man; i can definitely relate to how you're feeling right now. just rest assured that if you follow the proper steps (no contact, stay busy, focus on yourself), then time will take care of the rest for you. yeah you'll miss her and the good times, but, like in my own experience, your mental health clearly was suffering from being with a girl like that. doing what's best for YOU is not selfish at all-don't let yourself fall into the trap of thinking that it is.
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09-13-2012, 11:10 AM #163
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you can't compare a girl walking in the store to a girl being around a bunch of drunken horny males looking to pick up ass.
i agree with part of your logic. can't hide her from the rest of the world just cuz she's going to get hit on. but to me, an ideal girl for me would not put herself in those situations often, if at all. everyone has different standards and different things that will bother them. if a situation or having a girl in my life is going to stress me out then i'm going to eliminate her from my life. i've been fine alone for the past 7 years and can continue doing so. of course, it gets harder the longer the relationship lasts.
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09-13-2012, 11:22 AM #164
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09-13-2012, 11:32 AM #165
Well after reading some of this thread, it has been a close call.
The first runner up for the small dink syndrome award goes to FITNESSBLUE! -claps-
Anddddd the winner!!!! Drum roll please! TONY_S!
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09-13-2012, 11:42 AM #166
Apparently the women have called upon the whiteknights. Together as one single force, they quest to take on the evil powers of logic and reality! Go team vagina!
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09-13-2012, 11:43 AM #167
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i agree with the bold. as far as the rest, like i said. certain situations and scenarios should just be avoided, and if your girl values you, and your relationship, then she will understand and will also want to avoid those situations. it's not just me, my girl would feel the same way with me doing certain things without her around, so it goes both ways. like i said man, people have different standards and principles. you have your mentality and i have mine. hopefully yours works out for you and mine works out for me.
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My bf "doesn't care" because he's not an insecure **** like almost everyone else on here who thinks they're "alpha" because they control their gf's every move. Why should he be? He's my man, end of. I probably will get hit on but so what? I've been hit on all my life. Women aren't like men - opportunity /= action.
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Does it make you feel better to slag off other guys? Is that what you need to do to feel "alpha"? If you wanna talk alpha my guy is way more of a man than you could ever hope to be. He can handle a strong woman, which obviously scares the crap out of you. I lol at your patheticness.
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lol. nobody cares about your open relationship and your boyfriend doesn't care about you going out because he knows the only guys that will probably make a pass at you are drunken sailors and truck drivers. or maybe he just doesn't give a $h1t about you. who knows. you're 40 years old and trying to compare your relationship to people's relationships and mentalities that are half your age. you are also openly an active member of multiple "internet crews" and have 18 thousand posts on an internet forum. all at the age of 40. i lol @ anyone who actually considers your opinion or takes your advice.
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09-13-2012, 01:16 PM #175
U missed the point. You want a healthy relationship you have to stay connected to what ever level is in the collective comfort zone. It is not about a particular activity it is about learning to work together how ever that happens. I am not an advocate of dominance but collaboration with a healthy serving of mutual respect.
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09-13-2012, 02:26 PM #177
This. Sorry Tiff, but your age gap makes almost everything you say completely irrelevant ITT. Imagine if my own mom or dad were to give me advice on the opposite sex? They'd be likely dead wrong 99% of the time simply because of the huge gap between generations. You can argue that YOUR generation is a lot more "proper" than now. Go to any college party in 2012 and you'll know what I'm on about. My dad can "let" my mom go out with her friends with likely zero worries just because they are both 50, and the threats that me and MY GF face when either of us goes to the clubs/bars alone are nonexistent for them. Just because YOU (seem to) have wisdom and good judgement to do the 'right' thing, don't assume that girls (read: NOT women) half your age will as well.
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09-13-2012, 02:46 PM #179
Right on brah but, this is why I tell women
Especially with female logic &&& all that chit about equality when they contradict that ****, the roles and what have you. I posted a in my teens thread where, I would be mangled, right ripped from drinking and a ******* bender, and wanting to snap the **** out on some ******* for hitting on some bish I am with. This here is stupidity. For starters, most are skanks, I am in a inebriated state meaning, I am not thinking properly, and the best thing to do is let women do whatever the **** they like. You weed them out that way and you troll them before kicking them the **** out. A piece of advice, I would chill the **** out, and while you may not enjoy women going out or doing this and that, its just is as it is.
You do have a decision in who you commit to so, just be selective there and when they reveal they are not who you thought they were, be done with them.
You did it again? Do tell? I assume your still with your mma/wrestler special friend?Originally Posted by Isabeli [/quote
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09-13-2012, 02:50 PM #180
Every post you make speaks truth and I have seen it first hand. The reason girls do this is because they are attention craving typical sloots and cant get enough of it, even from their own man who treats them like gold. This is why they do it, and 99% of the time end up grinding on some dick on a dance floor. Not even once has one of my gfs said grinding is ok for me to do it, but they went out and grinded all the time.
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