Agree with this 100%. If somebody is so insecure to think other guys care that much about their gfs going out w/ their friends then you have some issues. Even if I sat at home while my gf would go out I wouldn't be texting her or worrying about her when she came back bc I KNOW she would come back. I'd watch tv and go to sleep when I was tired. She's out with her friends, not some random ass dude she met yesterday. And if she did do that then peace out.
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09-12-2012, 06:35 PM #122
So true. Just last weekend I was at a club and two sloots were flirting and asking me to lap dance for them (course I did haha), and the one that had her hands on me the most had a boyfriend that was picking her up. I lol'd about it and told her that the boyfriend was a "beta *******" (srs) and her friend and I laughed our drunken asses off about it. The sloot then says "I don't care, he's not here"...yes very srs and real life sloot just as the women arguing against the logic of this thread
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09-12-2012, 06:46 PM #123
We don't know to what extent she is lieing. She maybe saying she's off out with Carla to a night club then going to see Tyrone for a bit of ***.
Or she could be going out with the girls and op is texting her every 5 minutes asking when she's coming home. Who she's with. Is she ok. Is she having a good night. Is she safe, does she need picking up, how much has she had to drink, why isn't she home yet.
In which case she's not shady she's a human being who doesn't want to be attached to her bf by texts every 5 minutes on the dot of every day.
God I fking hate texting
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09-12-2012, 07:01 PM #124
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Psalm 64:1-6
Hear my voice, O God, in my prayer: preserve my life from fear of the enemy. Hide me from the secret counsel of evildoers, From the tumult of those who do iniquity, Who have sharpened their tongue like a sword. They aimed bitter speech as their arrow, To shoot from.
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09-12-2012, 07:19 PM #126
Are you speaking of the girl at the club? If so, then no, of course not 1=all. As much as it sounds like I don't trust the entire female species, it's not true. I know there is good girls out there, but those good girls wouldn't put themselves in bad situations just the same. So maybe if I rephrase, 1 "taken" bar sloot=all that I have seen in my experience. I used to work in a nightclub as security years ago and saw this crap ALL THE TIME. I don't think that all women that go to bars are sloots, but I think that all women who are in relationships that go to bars without their significant others are trash at best.
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Last edited by Danger_Close; 09-12-2012 at 08:19 PM.
Psalm 64:1-6
Hear my voice, O God, in my prayer: preserve my life from fear of the enemy. Hide me from the secret counsel of evildoers, From the tumult of those who do iniquity, Who have sharpened their tongue like a sword. They aimed bitter speech as their arrow, To shoot from.
MFC: They hate us because of our freedom.
I carry a .40S&W because i couldn't make up my mind.
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09-12-2012, 11:39 PM #132
We established this in a previous thread already lol. And I agree with you 110%.. especially the Asian ones, feelsbadman. It's so weird to live in a city where the white girls are typically more grounded and less likely to be slooty. Like I said in that previous thread we both posted in, I'd be single for a long time if I didn't find my GF. Not to sound like a WK (personally IDC cuz I'm not e-statting at this point) but my GF feels like the only good-looking and decent Asian girl in Van City. Everyone else either smokes, drinks, parties, does drugs, raves, or gold-digs. Hell, most Asians here do all of these lol
You must spread some Reputation, blah blah blah sorry mate ):
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09-13-2012, 04:33 AM #133
Wow. Just wow.
My background. Dads a band photographer and ran a business for 12 years and is now retraining at UNi. Mum is a mental health carer. They have been married over 20 years and beat it into me from a young age that I should find a "good" girl. And I moved out because I was sick of them lecturing my lifestyle.
So my background was a massive fail well done.
Iv had exes that went out and exes that didn't. 2 of my exes have slept with less than 5 people.
You sound like a insecure control freak. You don't like sleeping around with strangers well done, your moral compass isn't THE moral Compass we all have to live up to
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Well RH.
I did it. We broke up. This constant battle of what was expected from a relationship between her and I just came to a tipping point over the last 24 hours. I won't say this thread was my motivation, but it definitely helped support me as this went down.
I feel like absolute ****. I still love her, but I knew I wasn't making her happy anymore, and this relationship has become more of a burden than something supportive in our lives. We had great chemistry when we were with each other, and for those times I regret how this ended. But I know I'll be ok in the long run, and hopefully look back without wishing I had tried harder.
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I'd actually much rather he came. And the reality of what situation exactly? I don't even drink so I'll be sober all night. Why is it so hard to believe a woman could go out with a group of friends and see a band without *insert whatever dreadful consequence you think will happen here*. What do you think I'm gonna do, pick up a guy and fuk him that night? Not something I would do even if I was single - never have. Your assumptions are ridiculous. Not every woman is a cock hungry whore.
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Just because you guys don't have the self-control to go out with a group of friends, stay sober and go home alone at the end of night doesn't mean everyone is like you.
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it's not about you. you may go out with that mentality, but sometimes people get carried away or make one innocent decision with good intentions and end up in a bad situation. what if you went out and some guy started casual innocent conversation with you, and ended up being a creep and following you home, or sexually assaulting you? you may not have bad intentions but you're still going to be in a place filled with horny drunk guys looking to pick up girls, and if you're an attractive girl you are a sitting sheep in lion territory. regardless of whether or not you think you can "handle yourself", things could happen that might compromise your relationship. before i met my girl she's went out and literally had creep guys chase her around the club. if i found out that was going on and ended up seeing the guy later, i would most likely lose my cool and physically harm him. why would my girl want to put me in that situation? a girl who truly values her relationship wouldn't put herself, or me in that position IMO. but to each his/her own.
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