Why you should not get married. Found this gem in the "just engaged" thread.

[foyt20]

What kind of total loser would marry a girl like that at all???

Especially 1 & 2

A guy looking for companionship...

and she is probably good at giving head.

[TML89]

Common Law states;
Alabama
Colorado
District of Columbia
Iowa
Kansas
Montana
New Hampshire
Oklahoma
Rhode Island
South Carolina
Texas
Utah

Outside of these States you do not have to get married,and worry about the legal work being involved and marrying a woman.

And most, if not all, of those states have things in common.

[nightmare69]

Then don't have kids with a "girlfriend"

You dont have to have kids, just live with her for a few years to be common law.

[Jorge0886]

You dont have to have kids, just live with her for a few years to be common law.

No I understand that, I'm just saying that's one thing to avoid, LOL!!

[AloneUnafraid]

Could not agree more. Going through divorce now. I've got a ****ing FANTASTIC lawer though. Lol, my lawyer told me the dumb bish goofed and got an ambulance-chaser edition divorce attorney.

She was all fired up and on the war path until my lawyer sent a warning shot/heavily weighted counter demands. The bishes feminist lawyer looked up the credentials and case history of mine and shut RIGHT the fuk up. I'm going to BURY this bish.

It also helps that I kept a pretty sizable amount of liquid assets that she never knew about and never will.

The lessons I can give the MISC retards that belive in marriage:

1. Keep a ****load of COMPLETELY, I say again ****ING COMPLETELY, secret liquid assets. Don't tell your mom, dad, siblings, best bros, preist, ****ING ANYONE.

2. Research, and pay for, the best ****ing divorce attorney you can find. It might just be the best money you ever spend.

[BEARDofNORRIS]

31 and still posting on an internet forum? Not married? No avi? Son....

You say that like it's a bad thing.

You're 26 and posting on an internet forum? Married? Like to show your body to a bunch of young male strangers on the internet?

What's up? Trying to get a little time away from the wife? I can misc all night long if I want to, and nobody will b!tch at me. I don't even have to do the dishes or take out the trash first! I have it open on my 50 inch 3D LED tv in my living room right now while I drink my beer. Nobody bothering me to let them watch their estrogen-fueled b!tch shows. You jealous?

I've visited 5 different countries in the past year, have a 3 story, 3 bedroom, 2.5 bathroom house all to myself, debt free, have an active social life, still get laid by girls in their early 20's and am completely satisfied with my life.

Come at me married bro.

It's not that people need a woman to be happy, but people don't like to be alone. You either need a woman around you, or you need to have a full enough social life so you never feel like you are alone.

Once you are 40+, you aren't going to have a crew of guys to roll around with everywhere anymore because most of them will be married and have families, and will probably be alone a lot more often than not.

Strong generalization. I actually do enjoy being alone.

brb, going to call all of my divorced/single 40+ friends and let them know that they are all sad, lonely losers and we can't hang out any more.

This is a perfect example of WHY most guys get married. You're terrified of being alone and don't think you'll have any friends or pussy if you don't convince some chick to marry you. But what you don't understand is that being married in your 20's is no guarantee that you'll be married in your 30's, 40's or 50's.

You do your thing. I'll do mine. We'll compare notes when we're 80.

[Sami88]

faith in humanity

confusious

[SumblimeStyle]

Just marry a girl richer than you.
???
Profit.

[lasher]

You obviously havent found the right person. I was married once before and yes, I got divorced, but I was young and thought I was in love...we divorced almost 7 years later and then I found my true love, we have been together 7 years and I love him now like I loved him the first time I saw him, he is my soul mate and I cant see us getting divorced for anything in the world, he really does complete me and I complete him, sounds cliche but its the truth. There are some good marriages still out there, you just have to look a lot more carefully these days for Mr. Right.

age: 20

[freshspam1]

This thread is why I'm gonna be the stay at home dad and my girl will make the millions. I'll just workout/watch tv/play video games/play with dogs/eat/boat/golf/etc. and then if I get sick of her I'll take her money

[jujuB]

first off, most of this applies to westernized marriage situations.

Could not agree more. Going through divorce now. I've got a ****ing FANTASTIC lawer though. Lol, my lawyer told me the dumb bish goofed and got an ambulance-chaser edition divorce attorney.

She was all fired up and on the war path until my lawyer sent a warning shot/heavily weighted counter demands. The bishes feminist lawyer looked up the credentials and case history of mine and shut RIGHT the fuk up. I'm going to BURY this bish.

It also helps that I kept a pretty sizable amount of liquid assets that she never knew about and never will.

The lessons I can give the MISC retards that belive in marriage:

1. Keep a ****load of COMPLETELY, I say again ****ING COMPLETELY, secret liquid assets. Don't tell your mom, dad, siblings, best bros, preist, ****ING ANYONE.

2. Research, and pay for, the best ****ing divorce attorney you can find. It might just be the best money you ever spend.

repped. one of the best things you can do is have her in a financial hold, as bad as it sounds.

i question the intelligence of that doctor when it comes to common day things. yeah, he's very smart, he's a doctor after all, but there is life outside the profession.

[bailey1106]

You obviously havent found the right person. I was married once before and yes, I got divorced, but I was young and thought I was in love...we divorced almost 7 years later and then I found my true love, we have been together 7 years and I love him now like I loved him the first time I saw him, he is my soul mate and I cant see us getting divorced for anything in the world, he really does complete me and I complete him, sounds cliche but its the truth. There are some good marriages still out there, you just have to look a lot more carefully these days for Mr. Right.

Wut in the holy hell did i just read.

[NOVA888]

What kind of total loser would marry a girl like that at all???

Especially 1 & 2

And what about the woman that has a career, but slows that down when she has a child? This equality thing has skewed marriage, marital roles, and even what men expect from a marriage. Would men prefer paying a complete stranger to raise their kids, so that their wife can play equal breadwinner? I know women that pay their entire salaries to 'other' women, so that the wife doesn't have to play housekeeper/mother to their families. They come home exhausted from some 9-5 job, end up having minimal to no contact with their homes, children and men. And for what? To pay another woman that doesn't give a damn about the kids, who won't offer consistency or the strong nurturing needed to raise children? For what, so that the wife can save face as a feminist, or so she doesn't have to make sammiches for her man? And so that she'll look good in her man's eyes?

There are 'roles' necessary in relationships, but these feminine roles are consistently looked down upon by both men and women. Or as if being a good homemaker is some sort of flaw in a woman, something that needs to be bred out of her.

[guest89]

Does narrow it down a bit. You gotta stay away from "party" girls for sure

x2. Would never marry a "party" girl. Actually, I would never marry a girl who gets drunk period.

No one has brought up common law wife. In some states you live with a girl, buy house, cars, ect but your not married she can go after your shat just like if she was your wife. Ive seen a few buddies have this happen after they broke up with their live in g/f's, had kids and the whole 9 yards. It was just like they were married in the courts eyes.

Because they pretty much were 'married'. If you live with, are buying sh!t with them, and have kids, you are pretty much married even if you haven't filled out paperwork. It would have been smarter of them to actually go through with the marriage and get a prenup and everything documented properly.


Where I live there is no 'common law' marriage. But I would still never live with a girlfriend/ anyone without a contract.



In the state I live in, if someone establishes a residence the only way you can get them out is to legally evict them (which can take like 30 days). If they leave with some of your property, owe you money, etc., you are going to have sue them in civil court (and will have to prove whats yours). This goes for roommates, friends, relatives, etc.


As for the marriage deal, where I live everything is community property when you are married. There is no x item belongs to this person, z item belongs to the next. It doesn't matter who its registered too or what it is.






BTW as a male you should be aware, unless you can prove the mother is unfit you are pretty much gonna lose custody and will pay child support. Its not hard to prevent pregnancy, so just a few minutes of forethought can prevent ALL of this.

[tential]

Common Law states;
Alabama
Colorado
District of Columbia
Iowa
Kansas
Montana
New Hampshire
Oklahoma
Rhode Island
South Carolina
Texas
Utah

Outside of these States you do not have to get married,and worry about the legal work being involved and marrying a woman.

Thank god those are all backwards ass places I would never consider living in.

[brorepsallday]

lol brace yourself for the high rep 30+ year olds talking about how happy they are with their 5 year old marriage, LOL.

the chances of finding a western women who wont cheat/divorce you because she is having a "midlife crisis" is very slim. If i ever get married its goin to be from a second generation immigrant from like southern europe/asia who parents have atleast instilled some good values in them and are still married.

the western baby boomer generation has ruined the chances of a successful marriage for the majority of our generation. just the truth

This is the correct answer.

[tential]

x2. Would never marry a "party" girl. Actually, I would never marry a girl who gets drunk period.




Because they pretty much were 'married'. If you live with, are buying sh!t with them, and have kids, you are pretty much married even if you haven't filled out paperwork. It would have been smarter of them to actually go through with the marriage and get a prenup and everything documented properly.


Where I live there is no 'common law' marriage. But I would still never live with a girlfriend/ anyone without a contract.



In the state I live in, if someone establishes a residence the only way you can get them out is to legally evict them (which can take like 30 days). If they leave with some of your property, owe you money, etc., you are going to have sue them in civil court (and will have to prove whats yours). This goes for roommates, friends, relatives, etc.


As for the marriage deal, where I live everything is community property when you are married. There is no x item belongs to this person, z item belongs to the next. It doesn't matter who its registered too or what it is.






BTW as a male you should be aware, unless you can prove the mother is unfit you are pretty much gonna lose custody and will pay child support. Its not hard to prevent pregnancy, so just a few minutes of forethought can prevent ALL of this.

So if me and my bro live together. We live together for 5 years, buy a house, cars, etc. and are chill bros, then we leave each other, I can file for alimony? After all, we basically were married? Is that possibly a way to get around gay marriage laws?

[frank112]

This is the correct answer.

Not really, I actually know a couple of guys that marry these seemingly "obedient and subserviant" immigrant hotties and once they get accustomed to the western lifestyle, they cheat and leave the second they can. Actually knew one guy that got so screwed over by his hot immigrant wife, he went from a balling $1mil house to a $1000 crappy rent apartment.

[nschell69]

Brb all of western civilization is biased against white males and if we say anything we are immediately deemed racist. Good luck buds lol

[grizz101]

im guessing the doctor lived in Florida.

[TXAg]

"When you divorce your wife (and trust me it will happen)"

dont understand that attitude ^ does misc srsly think 100% of marriages end in divorces.

Also story rustled my jimmies

The stat is only going up... Its well above 50% for new couples. And thats only divorce, plenty of other failed marriages where they stay together (mostly because the guy does not want to lose the kids and all his money and stuff).

[Hurricane99]

newdayNINETYFOUR

Born in '94 brah?

brb taking marriage advice from a high school senior

[TotalGymFreak]

Jesus christ I need to stop clicking on these threads
It pisses me off so badly knowing men get the short end of the stick covered with sh*t when it comes to divorce and many other things such as employment and legal issues

[jmonty]

"When you divorce your wife (and trust me it will happen)"

dont understand that attitude ^ does misc srsly think 100% of marriages end in divorces.

It might only be half, but the other half are terminal.

[jonfizel]

Feels bad man


Its that damn pussy power women have.

[guest89]

So if me and my bro live together. We live together for 5 years, buy a house, cars, etc. and are chill bros, then we leave each other, I can file for alimony? After all, we basically were married? Is that possibly a way to get around gay marriage laws?

What I was talking about was a different scenario. There is no 'common law' marriage where I live. However, where I live if two people live together it can be an absolute cluster when they part ways on bad terms.

Assuming you two buy a house, car, etc. together, when you part ways it will be a civil court battle for who gets what/who pays who. This isn't just for houses/cars, its for all of the items in the residence except obvious personal belongings.

No, you aren't going to get alimony. This scenario isn't about one person supporting the other, its about property.



Basically what we run into a lot is person a and person b live together. Both get in an argument and one decides to move out. Person B suddenly wants to take the TV that "he" payed for. Person A insists that the TV belongs to him. Basically law enforcement will stand by while person B gets personal belongings (clothes, documents, etc.) and leaves. If person B wants that TV, he's going to have to sue person A in civil court for that TV.



Now, assume for a second person 1 has a lease on a apartment and person 2 moves in with them. Assume person 2 establishes a residence and pays no rent, no bills etc. Then person 1 decides he wants to kick person 2 out because is a freeloader. Basically person 1 cannot just kick person 2 out, even if he isn't on the lease and pays nothing. Person 1 has to file for eviction (which can take 30 days). Keep in mind, establishing residence = not hard. Its as simple as moving your stuff in and living there.


Rule of thumb = never let anyone live with you without a contract unless you are 100% sure that person won't try to screw you over later.

[StanfordBrah]

Why is divorce so prevalent in todays society and wassent nearly as bad in our parents days?

[freeoyster]

Why is divorce so prevalent in todays society and wassent nearly as bad in our parents days?

before all the feminism bull**** started. The media etc...

[LobsterRageFist]

Chris Rock from "Bring the Pain" (1996):

"So you gotta look at OJ's situation. He's paying $25,000 a month in alimony, got another man driving around in his car and ****ing his wife in a house he's still paying the mortgage on. Now I'm not saying he should have killed her... but I understand."

[Adumb]

You say that like it's a bad thing.

You're 26 and posting on an internet forum? Married? Like to show your body to a bunch of young male strangers on the internet?

What's up? Trying to get a little time away from the wife? I can misc all night long if I want to, and nobody will b!tch at me. I don't even have to do the dishes or take out the trash first! I have it open on my 50 inch 3D LED tv in my living room right now while I drink my beer. Nobody bothering me to let them watch their estrogen-fueled b!tch shows. You jealous?

I've visited 5 different countries in the past year, have a 3 story, 3 bedroom, 2.5 bathroom house all to myself, debt free, have an active social life, still get laid by girls in their early 20's and am completely satisfied with my life.

Come at me married bro.