It took out North Western part of the Springs, Mountain Shadows and a couple other neighborhoods in that area. Official burnt down homes/structures were I think 346-349. That doesn't include homes that may need to be bulldozed due to fire dmg, etc. though.
Very sad, I watched from afar and could not believe what I was seeing.
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Thread: Dating & Mental illness.
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07-14-2012, 05:22 PM #91"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." -Will Durant
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07-14-2012, 06:05 PM #92
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07-16-2012, 11:26 PM #95
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sounds like a pretty average reaction a bit excessive but common... you broke up with him
the killing part is stupid , when a person is really dangerously depressed often you don't see it until it's too late
if someone wants to kill him/herself and they are severely depressed they just do it they don't tell you first .. I am not a psychiatrist but this is what happened to my friend
he picked up the gun and shot himself no prior notice
****!!! makes me depressed every time I think about it, I still cry when I think back... and we weren't even that closewho says love has to be soft and gentle ?
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07-16-2012, 11:36 PM #96
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07-16-2012, 11:39 PM #97
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Yeah this...
sometimes it's just too hard to give up someone even if you know they don't wanna be around you and that sometimes needs time
it might sound horrible to think that someone would resort to threatening to commit suicide but it is a desperate move, my best friend found herself in this situation , she fell for a guy I used to live with
he was on meds when I met him just me being around him and hanging out after a couple of months he was off the meds .. I take full credit lol
I met this girl that eventually was to become my best friend brought her home one night with her friend because she needed a place to sleep after months of me and her hanging out as friends
she and him kinda fell for each other this lasted a few months, she broke up with him when he turned abusive.. verbally or he'd be dead right now and I'd be writing from cell block C lol
but that's went he went crazy again, threatened to kill himself etc.. he would stalk her sending pictures of his GF one day and insult her the next day desperate moves
so basically he just turned out to be an *******who says love has to be soft and gentle ?
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07-16-2012, 11:41 PM #98
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of course, the point is it's still painful and hard to accept unfortunately second chances only delay the inevitable and make things worse..
perhaps you are that special and you drive people to do nutty things ... not serious
after all, men do the weirdest things for the love of a woman ..
women do to , think about those who are abused by their men but keep going back thinking "it'll get better this time, he promised" and you know many times either they end up seriously injured or even deadLast edited by BrotherWolf; 07-16-2012 at 11:53 PM.
who says love has to be soft and gentle ?
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07-17-2012, 05:39 AM #99
I agree with that. I would only consider it if the person itself is seeking help and getting treated. That he is taking care of himself (it's a given in any case). So it depends on the person, how serious his illness is and how is he dealing with it. But as I've been through enough in my life so far, I would rather be with someone solid.
Then again, it's a totally different situation when you love that person, I would stay no matter what. I hate double standard for wanting someone to stay with you through your hard time, but then running away when the other person has hard time.
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07-17-2012, 12:52 PM #100
Now here is another twist though. A lot of you say you are willing to stay with them if the are willing to seek help. What if they weren't willing during the relationship but once you left them they said they would get it fixed? My ex is doing that to me and I am standing my ground. It was an issue for years and you never did anything and now promise to change once it is too late? I think not.
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." -Will Durant
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." - Marianne Williamson
"The only guarantee in life is death, live a life worth dying for." - Me
"He who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man." - Samuel Johnson
"It's not over UNTIL I WIN!" - John-leslie Brown (Son of Les Brown)
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07-17-2012, 04:38 PM #101
More than likely she will seek some sort of help for a short period of time and then after you recognize it, she will go back to the old ways.
One of my old guy friends had that happen over and over and I told him to stop being a damn doormat. Be strong. Don't stick your dick in crazy again :P
Edit: Just my opinion! Of course you don't have to take it, I'm not pushing anything or saying that this will happen. It's ultimately up to you(Obviously).> Nitro's cutting crew
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07-17-2012, 04:40 PM #102
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07-17-2012, 09:10 PM #103
You are absolutely correct! I am NOT going back down this broken path. I spent years trying to work at it no more!
Might not even be that, if something was hard or she didn't like it, would jump ship almost immediately.
*Edit - I just read what I said ^ and no, I did NOT mean my d*ck!!!!"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." -Will Durant
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." - Marianne Williamson
"The only guarantee in life is death, live a life worth dying for." - Me
"He who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man." - Samuel Johnson
"It's not over UNTIL I WIN!" - John-leslie Brown (Son of Les Brown)
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07-17-2012, 11:53 PM #104
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07-18-2012, 12:11 PM #105"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." -Will Durant
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." - Marianne Williamson
"The only guarantee in life is death, live a life worth dying for." - Me
"He who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man." - Samuel Johnson
"It's not over UNTIL I WIN!" - John-leslie Brown (Son of Les Brown)
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07-18-2012, 01:40 PM #106
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07-18-2012, 02:07 PM #107
Wooo!! Thanks Fem Misc!
"We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence then, is not an act, but a habit." -Will Durant
"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." - Marianne Williamson
"The only guarantee in life is death, live a life worth dying for." - Me
"He who makes a beast out of himself gets rid of the pain of being a man." - Samuel Johnson
"It's not over UNTIL I WIN!" - John-leslie Brown (Son of Les Brown)
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07-18-2012, 02:54 PM #108
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My ex had severe, untreated depression that manifested in alcoholism. He lost his dad at a young age, and instead of going to therapy, he was told to man up for his mom's sake. Took about six years before the depression seriously took hold, and his alcoholism developed shortly thereafter. I tried for years to help him, but when they don't want help, you can't do a thing. I left him, after seven years, and he tanked even further before finding his rock bottom. He's doing better, but mental illness is serious ****.
My current partner has depression, but he's being treated for it and it makes me far easier to live with. I suffer from mental illness (depression, recovered self harmer) but I'm on top of it.
Really, it's just a matter of whether it's being addressed. The medicated schizophrenic is far more tolerable than the uncontrolled severely depressed person.
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07-18-2012, 06:17 PM #109
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