Update on "Seeing girl in a few hours, strong noob"

**DaBurg3r** · 03-20-2009, 01:18 AM

Originally Posted by dabbmw2002

Honestly, if she blew off about going to something as trivial as a bar, she is either playing games or she doesn't really like you. If she really dug you she would have wanted you to come.

this man speaks the truth.

**hgainer8** · 03-20-2009, 01:19 AM

now she's sayin 'why are you freakin out, i had plans before'

updates to come, she didnt tell me anything about these plans so what does she expect, cozies up then just leaves so i duno how im supposed to react to that

Originally Posted by Chadpz

so many other girls out there though OP.

yea man this is learning haha

**Derly** · 03-20-2009, 01:22 AM

Originally Posted by hgainer8

now she's sayin 'why are you freakin out, i had plans before'

updates to come, she didnt tell me anything about these plans so what does she expect, cozies up then just leaves so i duno how im supposed to react to that

yea man this is learning haha

We're all trying to tell you that you weren't doing good in the first hour, thats why the plans didn't include you. Did she have her phone out at all while you were together? Because I bet those plans were for them to come rescue her from you.

**hgainer8** · 03-20-2009, 01:24 AM

Originally Posted by Derly

We're all trying to tell you that you weren't doing good in the first hour, thats why the plans didn't include you. Did she have her phone out at all while you were together? Because I bet those plans were for them to come rescue her from you.

im not arrogant enough to say that isnt a possibility

but she asked me to come and we were havin fun all night so i dunno why she'd want a rescue

but hey, maybe she wasnt diggin me, ill find out soon enough. I can deal with that, I'm not exactly casa nova lulz

**CandyStripes** · 03-20-2009, 01:25 AM

You're her back-up plan aka friend zone.

**Derly** · 03-20-2009, 01:25 AM

Originally Posted by hgainer8

im not arrogant enough to say that isnt a possibility

but she asked me to come and we were havin fun all night so i dunno why she'd want a rescue

but hey, maybe she wasnt diggin me, ill find out soon enough. I can deal with that, I'm not exactly casa nova lulz

The rescue was that she didn't wanna just straight walk out. She had to have "plans" so that it didn't seem like she was just stranding you there without notice.

**Chadpz_old_old** · 03-20-2009, 01:27 AM

Originally Posted by hgainer8

im not arrogant enough to say that isnt a possibility

but she asked me to come and we were havin fun all night so i dunno why she'd want a rescue

but hey, maybe she wasnt diggin me, ill find out soon enough. I can deal with that, I'm not exactly casa nova lulz

Find out? hahaha. Dude she ditched you to leave with other dudes. Drop the ego, it will not help with this.

**hgainer8** · 03-20-2009, 01:29 AM

Originally Posted by Chadpz

Find out? hahaha. Dude she ditched you to leave with other dudes. Drop the ego, it will not help with this.

she's weird man, she's done something similar to this but keeps comin back to me

im just gonna ask her straight up whats goin on

it isn't ego, she's told me she likes me and thinks about me a lot, but then these lame scenarious play out so im like wtf

**CandyStripes** · 03-20-2009, 01:31 AM

Originally Posted by hgainer8

she's weird man, she's done something similar to this but keeps comin back to me

im just gonna ask her straight up whats goin on

it isn't ego, she's told me she likes me and thinks about me a lot, but then these lame scenarious play out so im like wtf

Geez, I wonder why. You're a simp.

**Derly** · 03-20-2009, 01:32 AM

Originally Posted by hgainer8

she's weird man, she's done something similar to this but keeps comin back to me

im just gonna ask her straight up whats goin on

it isn't ego, she's told me she likes me and thinks about me a lot, but then these lame scenarious play out so im like wtf

Dude don't ask... Just make a move... If you get another chance to hang out you just make a move, don't talk about this, cause she's just gonna take it as you being insecure.

**hgainer8** · 03-20-2009, 01:32 AM

Originally Posted by CandyStripes

Geez, I wonder why. You're a simp.

5'3 121 lbs

i didnt talk to her for almost 2 weeks then she asked me to meet her at the bar

**CandyStripes** · 03-20-2009, 01:34 AM

Originally Posted by hgainer8

5'3 121 lbs

i didnt talk to her for almost 2 weeks then she asked me to meet her at the bar

I'm not a guy, but you're still a simp.

She doesn't want you, if she did she wouldn't go around cancelling her plans with you. She's keeping you in her back pocket for when she has nobody else.

**garrett1989** · 03-20-2009, 01:35 AM

strong fail by OP. sorry brah but you're her emotional tampon brah

**Demon-seven** · 03-20-2009, 01:36 AM

There are two doors. The door to your right leads to the Source and the salvation of Zion. The door to your left leads back to the Matrix, to her... and to the end of your species.

**evilninjaturtle** · 03-20-2009, 01:38 AM

this is the kinda **** i would have done at age 17.

so much fail.

first, when u threw a kindergarten fit and slammed the door or said do u want me to come or not = fail as hell, shes prob laughin at u right now

second, the text....that was strike three.

she's prob showin those a-rabs that text u sent and they are having a good laugh at ya right now.

REMEMBER: all girls are whores

this will get u far in life

**U.S.M.C. TANKER** · 03-20-2009, 01:38 AM

grow a pair op. Tell her exactly how you feel or end it right now. You dont want to stay losing do you?

**hgainer8** · 03-20-2009, 01:40 AM

Originally Posted by evilninjaturtle

this is the kinda **** i would have done at age 17.

so much fail.

first, when u threw a kindergarten fit and slammed the door or said do u want me to come or not = fail as hell, shes prob laughin at u right now

second, the text....that was strike three.

she's prob showin those a-rabs that text u sent and they are having a good laugh at ya right now.

REMEMBER: all girls are whores

this will get u far in life

brah they aint all whores, and if she is a whore and my behavious turns her off, then success for me, because i aint lookin for the whores

if shes bangin some arabs then i didnt want her anyways.

Originally Posted by U.S.M.C. TANKER

grow a pair op. Tell her exactly how you feel or end it right now. You dont want to stay losing do you?

thats the point ive come to, ****s gettin real soon

**andrew28** · 03-20-2009, 01:42 AM

Originally Posted by hgainer8

5'3 121 lbs

i didnt talk to her for almost 2 weeks then she asked me to meet her at the bar

are you buying her drinks at the bar? paying for her cover?

and brah don't ever go by what a girl says. her actions speak louder than words and her actions are clearly screaming in your face that she doesn't care about you that much if not at all. if she did then she wouldnt bail on you, it's not rocket science

it's only one girl there are tons more out there. i cannot stress this enough.

**U.S.M.C. TANKER** · 03-20-2009, 01:46 AM

OP do you live in Van? The fcking girls to guys ratio is 3:1 there, there are so many damn single chicks (hot btw) walking around. Get your ass a wing man and hit the fcking clubs.

**evilninjaturtle** · 03-20-2009, 01:46 AM

Originally Posted by U.S.M.C. TANKER

grow a pair op. Tell her exactly how you feel or end it right now. You dont want to stay losing do you?

this is exactly what u dont want to do

**FullSack** · 03-20-2009, 01:47 AM

she probably kind of likes you but likes one of the arabs more and is copping arab dick right now

**T2TL** · 03-20-2009, 01:48 AM

Originally Posted by hgainer8

I got there around 11, called her, she was still in her dorm, she said she was comin asap, I met up with her at the bar

things are all good, we talked for 1hr+, good chemisty

then some random arabs she knows are goin to this bar and she's like 'you wouldnt like it'

so im like 'wtf, do you want me to come or not, ill go home'

shes like 'yea ok'

then im like 'cya'

shes like 'bla blah, ill call you!' but im pissed so i cut her off and just slam my car door and drive off

i dont have time for this ****

just got home texted her "wat the f*ck is this ****, seriously, call me if you get back"

gonna rip her a new one

these games are BS dont have time for it

Your mistake was the text at the end, no reason for that. You should of left and for a couple of weeks if she asks to do anything tell her you're busy.

**evilninjaturtle** · 03-20-2009, 01:49 AM

Originally Posted by Tech2TheLimit

Your mistake was the text at the end, no reason for that. You should of left and for a couple of weeks if she asks to do anything tell her you're busy.

this manlet is wise beyond his years

**hgainer8** · 03-20-2009, 01:50 AM

Originally Posted by Tech2TheLimit

Your mistake was the text at the end, no reason for that. You should of left and for a couple of weeks if she asks to do anything tell her you're busy.

you're probably right, but i dont have time for this kind of garbage, we've been doin this for 6 weeks, and she goes back home for the summer in a month, she'll be gone for 4 - 5 months, over 2,000 miles away

it wont hurt for me to press the issue a bit, which is why im taking a more aggressive route in this case

**CandyStripes** · 03-20-2009, 01:51 AM

Originally Posted by Tech2TheLimit

Your mistake was the text at the end, no reason for that. You should of left and for a couple of weeks if she asks to do anything tell her you're busy.

Good advice, but I will add to that and suggest that he doesn't even need to respond at all.

Fool me once shame on you, fool me twice.....

**Chadpz_old_old** · 03-20-2009, 01:51 AM

Originally Posted by hgainer8

you're probably right, but i dont have time for this kind of garbage, we've been doin this for 6 weeks, and she goes back home for the summer in a month, she'll be gone for 4 - 5 months, over 2,000 miles away

it wont hurt for me to press the issue a bit

6 weeks wow. How old are you OP?

**hgainer8** · 03-20-2009, 01:54 AM

Originally Posted by Chadpz

6 weeks wow. How old are you OP?

same age as you brah

yes christian, yes not trying to get laid, yes looking for longer term relationship

problem could be that she isnt that kind of person

i understand the advice a lot of people are giving, and if i was like that, i'd go all out and probably be in her room right now gettin it on to some barry white, but im not like that lulz

**Chadpz_old_old** · 03-20-2009, 01:57 AM

Originally Posted by hgainer8

same age as you brah

yes christian, yes not trying to get laid, yes looking for longer term relationship

problem could be that she isnt that kind of person

i understand the advice a lot of people are giving, and if i was like that, i'd go all out and probably be in her room right now gettin it on to some barry white, but im not like that lulz

OK...that clarifies a lot then OP.

Here's what happened: She = party girl looking for casual sex. You = Long term relationship guy (virgin?) who won't give her sex. At least not until some serious commitment or girlfriend status.

Going to the bar tonight you guys were on totally different levels. She = We'll talk, he'll invite me over, then we'll ****. You = I am enjoying this conversation and getting to know her. You saved yourself a lottt of trouble - be glad she left.

You attract what you are....OP I suggest going to church/church events and finding yourself a nice girl there (serious).

**thedestro** · 03-20-2009, 01:57 AM

So you get mad, storm off, and then text her later to try and argue about it some more? Stop being such a girl.

**hgainer8** · 03-20-2009, 01:59 AM

Originally Posted by Chadpz

OK...that clarifies a lot then OP.

Here's what happened: She = party girl looking for casual sex. You = Long term relationship guy (virgin?) who won't give her sex.

You attract what you are....OP I suggest going to church/church events and finding yourself a nice girl there (serious).

partially correct, but she's fully aware of what i'm like, and she's catholic

but yea, im not too worried about it, if she is looking for casual sex as you suggested, then it wont work out between us, which is all for the better anyways

it's just a piss-off for the short term

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