This rat race is starting to cause me legitimate physical health problems srs.
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05-16-2024, 05:54 AM #1
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05-16-2024, 05:58 AM #2
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05-16-2024, 05:59 AM #3
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05-16-2024, 06:05 AM #4
I get bout 3.50% temporary relief whenever I vent on the misc (srs)
Time, money and a lack of direction. I don’t even know what I would enjoy srs. I remember growing up whenever they’d ask what we wanted to be as an adult, I never had an answer. Not that I was indecisive like most kids, I just literally had nothing come to mind.
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05-16-2024, 06:07 AM #5
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05-16-2024, 06:17 AM #6
I am with you on that dude, I am 33 and just went through rehab and currently doing outpatient and working part time at home depot barely making ends meet.. I just applied for financial aid but I dont know what I would enjoy .. initially I was considering IT but you need a lot of certifications and maybe 2 years min degree and then from what I read its not that easy and that nowadays you got to fight for a low paying help desk job to just get your foot in the door.
I wanted to be maybe dnr but now with my record thats probably out the door.
Theres welding but that can be a fight unless you want to work a low paying assembly line type job and sweat your balls off all day.
I thought maybe electrician but that would probably be hard to get your foot in the door. Will probably need 2 years minimum then most places want experience so maybe fight for a apprenticeship.
Im considering hvac because it might be easier to get into. Probably less than a year of vocational school. But I dont think it sounds like something I would really have passion about baha.
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05-16-2024, 06:18 AM #7
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05-16-2024, 06:26 AM #8
Damn bro respect for getting your life back on track. The job market is tough right now. It’s an employer’s market, wages are stagnant and positions are more competitive than ever. I’ve often juggled with the idea of joining a trade because my friend is in the sheet metal union, but apprentices start off at like $17/hr which is a starvation wage for me. I make $25 currently and still barely scrape by. I need A LOT of money immediately. I literally can’t afford to hustle for 5 years until I become a mechanic. Maybe you’re more risk tolerant than I am, I say go for HVAC.
Honestly if I could just be a janitor I think that would be a nice life tho srs. You get to work at your own pace, work is rewarding, your results are instant and you’re actually contributing to society unlike with these bullchit office jobs. But again, terrible pay. Every single janitor position I see in my area pays well under $20/hr.
It’s so fkin ridiculous that to reach the middle class most people have to sell our souls to work in some corporate office space just to make a halfway decent salary.
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05-16-2024, 06:27 AM #9
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05-16-2024, 06:41 AM #11
The accurate measure of how well you've done isn't where you are, it's where you started relative to where you got.
Most people go through life doing what they're supposed to and never go above and beyond.
OP's father was a janitor and OP himself is from the class that doesn't go to college. He's already gone above and beyond and advanced his station and has done way more than most of you criticizing him.People make fun of blacks, Indians and Muslims all the time on this site and no one cares. I make fun of landwhales, and all these simps show up.
At least blacks, Indians and Muslims are human beings. Landwhales belong in a zoo. They aren't even human. What is there to be offended over?
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05-16-2024, 06:44 AM #12
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05-16-2024, 06:48 AM #13
You're gonna almost need pure luck to escape in under a year.
Earnie already explained it but, the best ways to escape wage slavery:
-SalesMAXX and save every commission check. You can pull $150k - $200k/yr with the right experience. Live on 1/3 of that and save every pay check.
-Start your own business. Self-explanatory.
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05-16-2024, 06:52 AM #14
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05-16-2024, 07:38 AM #17
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That's a beautiful sentiment. I didn't know you were such a softie.
OP doesn't like me because I speak the truth. The truth is there isn't a way to reach financial independence in a year. OP has been complaining for years. Had he started actually making moves when he started complaining, he'd have achieved his goal by now.
The reality is it takes work, and you need to put in that work. No one is gonna do it for you. So get to it. Remember OP, I'm only this hard on you becauseWhen it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.
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05-16-2024, 07:40 AM #18
Ask yourself what you want out of life for the foreseeable future. Nobody can answer this except you.
Is it financial freedom? Is it a new career? Do you want to help people? Do you want a relationship? Do you want to have more freedom to do hobbies? Do you want to relax for a bit and rediscover your passions?
Again, only you can figure that out through your own self awareness. After you have settled on what it is that you’d like, then you’ll just need to focus on that “goal.” And the steps to achieving it will present itself. But you need to know what it is that you’re seeking to “escape” the matrix. If you have no clear idea, its tough to move anywhere/make progress.
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05-16-2024, 07:43 AM #19
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05-16-2024, 08:14 AM #20
unless serious obligations, study something you like, rather than decide for yourself what you should become
if you like IT for example, make it your passion, learn everything you can. the certificiations are just exams, minor annoyances.take care misc, it's been fun
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05-16-2024, 08:18 AM #21
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05-16-2024, 08:23 AM #22
Every job or career I have had in my life has been better than the previous, to the point I am where I am today owning my own business.
Everything, & I mean everything from wife, houses, career path is ALL from God’s grace & blessings He has given me. When I was an atheist I was just a drifter with no direction, when I surrendered my life to God, He set me on a path & though I stray at times, He always brings me back.
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05-16-2024, 08:30 AM #23
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05-16-2024, 08:31 AM #24
You'll never see a "rich" person who became wealthy working JUST a 9-5. You need to supplement that income.
There's tons of ways to make money online a simple youtube search will give you endless options.
Instead of making money online you can try:
-parking is a big issue. You can buy a parking lot and charge .50c for half hour
-Contracting ATM's out to local businesses
-Contracting vending machines to local businesses
-opening/buying a car wash
-opening/buying a laundry mat
-Medical/non-emergency transportation services. Get paid to transport old folks to an from their doctors appointments who are too old to drive. With an aging boomer population this one can actually be a full time job. You'll also have the opportunity to transport medical equipment between hospitals (medical devices/organs if you have the proper means of refrigeration).
These are all side hustles that only take a few hours per week to maintain but can bring in some pretty decent money.Last edited by Maestro; 05-16-2024 at 08:39 AM.
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05-16-2024, 08:34 AM #25
If you don't have some latent talent or skill you can tap to add exponential value to a high-paying industry you're going to have to hit a lottery of some kind or go off the grid.
Honestly I don't think you'd make it off the grid.
So lotto.
Or, accept that it will take longer than 1 yr. Probably 5 to 10. Those 5 to 10 years will pass whether you do something with them or not, so really you need to realize the only way you can lose that time is by wasting it.
Plot out a pathway to a life you think you'd be satisfied with living and get started.The closer we approach the uncertainty of life's ending the more we wish to trade all of the things we have acquired in exchange for all of the things we have lost: wealth for youth, knowledge for fresh curiosity, resignation for hope. We'd trade our wisdom for new experiences, but it is wisdom that will teach us that at the end of the road the only new experience is death.
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05-16-2024, 08:37 AM #26
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05-16-2024, 08:45 AM #27The closer we approach the uncertainty of life's ending the more we wish to trade all of the things we have acquired in exchange for all of the things we have lost: wealth for youth, knowledge for fresh curiosity, resignation for hope. We'd trade our wisdom for new experiences, but it is wisdom that will teach us that at the end of the road the only new experience is death.
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05-16-2024, 08:50 AM #28
i never really knew what i wanted to do either...so from the teens i made it a goal to get out ahead of the curve so i could do whatever i want or nothing at all.
literally cannot think of a job i'd want to do everyday....and doing it everyday for years on end would've likely broke me mentally regardless of the money.
God help you brahs that are working to find peace in what you do.
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05-16-2024, 08:52 AM #29
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05-16-2024, 09:49 AM #30
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