Fkkn in-laws showed up announced as "a surprise" this morning.

[LinuxJon]

What. The. Fukc.

Who thinks it's normal to book a flight from CA to TX and not tell anyone ahead of time that you're showing up at their doorstep?

Even if you wanted to surprise my wife, nobody could shoot me a text first? It's not like I have a job, we have kids, or a whole fukload of other stuff going on, right?

Entire weekend of plans has to be shuffled now and I have no idea what TF is going on.

[tripod29]

Pics?

[Unstumpable]

Brutal. Where are the dogs and cats supposed to sleep now if they're taking the guest bed?

[Lefticle]

Brutal. My dad used to just show up unannounced and pretend it was some sort of "surprise" that I should be happy about. I absolutely hated it. Told him he needs to at least give me a heads up first so I can let him know if I'm home or not.

[freeburn]

That sounds like an absolute nightmare

Tbh I'd put them to work. Oh good you're here! Time to babysit, gramps

[SaltyDog920]

Jesus. Didn't even have a chance to clean the house. That'd be the most embarrassing part.

[gmenfan40]

That's just rude. I think old people become disconnected with life and how busy people are after they retire. (Super Ded fkn Srs)

[atgbrahsrs]

That's just rude. I think old people become disconnected with life and how busy people are after they retire. (Super Ded fkn Srs)

boomers are detached from reality in all phases of their lives

[Titansfan08]

Lmao, have fun with mother's weekend

Nothing worse than coming home from work and bam an in law is there

[LinuxJon]

That's just rude. I think old people become disconnected with life and how busy people are after they retire. (Super Ded fkn Srs)

So much this. Either you're disconnected from reality or you have an actual personality disorder if you're just showing up at people's homes expecting it to be completely fine.

[HateLiberals]

Cuck for not controlling your woman and household

[Uhyeahokay]

In-laws saw the mess we live in, children now in care, animals taken to the shelter, emergency mexican landscapers working in the backyard. I'm hold up in one of my giant safes.

[Roldz]

That's a dick move no matter how they want to justify it.

Divorce your wife to assert dominance.

[FoulSmell]

Be a good son in law, and give them the address to the nearest motel.

[crupiea]

How can grown adults in todays world with cell phones and computers everywhere think this is acceptable?

They cant, They know exactly what they are doing. Its a power struggle and they are coming to assert dominance.

[tripod29]

Your in-laws are disrespecting you bro. Farther in law for sure thinks less of you for not saying chit and instead running to a gay, mostly Indian, dying bodybuilding forum to cry about it. Srs, vry srs.

[LinuxJon]

How can grown adults in todays world with cell phones and computers everywhere think this is acceptable?

They cant, They know exactly what they are doing. Its a power struggle and they are coming to assert dominance.

Basically how I feel.

I'm not starting **** today, but they better be gone by Monday. And they are definitely hearing that they need to let me know before just showing up next time.

[stevebec]

Didn't even have a chance to throw out the old rugs and buy identical new ones.

[blissful88]

Customary back in their day; especially on Holidays



It is kind of disrespectful; they should've at least made hotel reservations


They just invited themselves into your home, lack of respect for the fact that it's supposed to be your family

Grandparents do the same thing with their grandchildren, they will try to raise them and supersede your rules for the kids




I've had to brake-check my sister-in-law a couple of times when it comes to my kids

[AshWar]

lol @ marriagecels

[8pieces]

should pay him back by showing up by yourself at his house

[LinuxJon]

Customary back in their day; especially on Holidays



It is kind of disrespectful; they should've at least made hotel reservations


They just invited themselves into your home, lack of respect for the fact that it's supposed to be your family

Grandparents do the same thing with their grandchildren, they will try to raise them and supersede your rules for the kids




I've had to brake-check my sister-in-law a couple of times when it comes to my kids

They already know not to get involved in the parenting. They were the "throw them in public school and let the system raise them" parents. They threw a hissy fit about us homeschooling and I shut that down real fast.

My wife's brother and his family actually went NC on them for a while bc they were being so disruptive. I can totally understand why.

[LinuxJon]

should pay him back by showing up by yourself at his house

Nobody is getting me back to California unless they drag my cold, dead body there themselves. Absolutely fuk that place. I've already told my kids they are never allowed to move there or I'll disown them and cut them out of the estate. lol

[Akd123]

LMFAO! stranger things have happened

[GuineaDago585]

Hey, it could be worse.

My own mom won’t even see me.

She moved halfway across the country and last time I drove down there to see her (2019) she left town that same weekend because she’d rather go camping with her boyfriend. She told me to just use her house like it’s an Airbnb. Srs.

[TryingMen]

You shouldn't rearrange your weekend for them. You're enabling this behavior so expect more of it. If they want to do this they can f*ck off and tag along to whatever you needed to do or sit in their hotel if they aren't able to tag along to something specific.

[IlChosenOne]

Jesus. Didn't even have a chance to clean the house. That'd be the most embarrassing part.

75+% chance theres some kind of literal sht on the floor

should pay him back by showing up by yourself at his house

lmao

[Ratfish]

no chance they feel comfortable around the cave bear living there

[thursdayParty1]

How can grown adults in todays world with cell phones and computers everywhere think this is acceptable?

They cant, They know exactly what they are doing. Its a power struggle and they are coming to assert dominance.

This. Nobody is that non-self aware

[kengriffeyjr24]

That's a dick move no matter how they want to justify it.

Divorce your wife to assert dominance.

How can grown adults in todays world with cell phones and computers everywhere think this is acceptable?

They cant, They know exactly what they are doing. Its a power struggle and they are coming to assert dominance.

who cares? if your house is messy enough you need advance warning of visitors thats pretty pathetic

assuming they are not demanding your time/expect you to take care of them, just let them im and go about your tasks/plans as normal

my parents visit sometimes when im busy and I just let in etc and dont change plans.

or you simply hand them the kids and tell them they are on babysitting duty