Is life over at 30

[conics]

Lie about your age by 5 years and live those years m***********Because That's all you have left get a good skin care routine

Unless of course you have money in which case none of this s*** matters You're not marrying anyone just f*** people you find attractive

What skin care routine

Recommend a good one

[conics]

Lie about your age by 5 years and live those years m***********Because That's all you have left get a good skin care routine

Unless of course you have money in which case none of this s*** matters You're not marrying anyone just f*** people you find attractive

I make sub 6 figs is that good enough

[RobParks2M]

I was just at college last semester
Got a bid to a frat and was joining

Had friends even tho they were 18-19

They didn’t know or think I was 30 and I couldn’t tell either

Cuz I’m still 18 in the head

But I didn’t go out to the bars just chilled with the boys at the house

That’s all I wanted: guy friends

I can still visit and chill with them or even go back to college

But idk what to do

I moved to a big night city and signed up for 13 sports leagues of beach volleyball ball and softball

What more can I do? Pickleball

I want to do stuff while I’m working my remote job cuz I have so much down time

Go to my local college classes and sit in there pretend I’m a student and ppl that way?

Go to coffee shop? What else

Right now I’m just wasting time rotting in bed doing nothing

Bruh you can do better. 18-24 is fantastic to do stuff broke college kids do. Going to house parties with a 30 rack and playing yard games with the boys, attending festivals, and going downtown on Wednesdays with the whole crew and holding down your section of your favorite bar.

BUT once you are 24+ and are a big boy with a real job suddenly all sorts of other opportunities present themselves. Buy that $1,000 EPIC/Ikon pass and shred resorts till you realize back country is waaaay better then drop $20-40 racks on whatever toy suits you either ATV/side by side/jetski/boat. $50-60,000 for the Truck to haul your toys? No problem don't even think twice about rolling through whatever you find yourself facing whether you are crawling rocks or plowing through snow as it comes over the hood. Did I mention how sweet new bikes are with carbon fiber frames, 29 inch wheels, and 160-180mm of travel?

Needless to say 25-40 you can explore hobbies and actually have the funds to follow your dreams. I've managed to live the life I always dreamed about when I was still in school crushing 30packs and waiting to do something other than buy some beer and waste another weekend. Not even gonna go into the incredible feelz coming home from work and hearing the excited "DADDDDIEEEEEEEEEE" squeal and hugs from my kiddos

[conics]

Bruh you can do better. 18-24 is fantastic to do stuff broke college kids do. Going to house parties with a 30 rack and playing yard games with the boys, attending festivals, and going downtown on Wednesdays with the whole crew and holding down your section of your favorite bar.

BUT once you are 24+ and are a big boy with a real job suddenly all sorts of other opportunities present themselves. Buy that $1,000 EPIC/Ikon pass and shred resorts till you realize back country is waaaay better then drop $20-40 racks on whatever toy suits you either ATV/side by side/jetski/boat. $50-60,000 for the Truck to haul your toys? No problem don't even think twice about rolling through whatever you find yourself facing whether you are crawling rocks or plowing through snow as it comes over the hood. Did I mention how sweet new bikes are with carbon fiber frames, 29 inch wheels, and 160-180mm of travel?

Needless to say 25-40 you can explore hobbies and actually have the funds to follow your dreams. I've managed to live the life I always dreamed about when I was still in school crushing 30packs and waiting to do something other than buy some beer and waste another weekend. Not even gonna go into the incredible feelz coming home from work and hearing the excited "DADDDDIEEEEEEEEEE" squeal and hugs from my kiddos

Bro what r u talking about?

Some sort of racing? I wouldn’t like that

[RobParks2M]

Jesus bruh get some hobbies. That is the TL;DR of what I'm saying. Being a broke college kid is fun for a few years. Use your income to explore things that interest you.

[Misclife333]

I feel 20 still

I wasted my 20s playing video games and sitting inside doing school work

No friends no nothing

And now I have nothing

How do I relive my 20s that I never had

i'm in the same shoes. Are youu working currently OP? Are you finished with school?

[Misclife333]

its too late

ya done goofed

l0l

[Sergis]

I was just at college last semester
Got a bid to a frat and was joining

Had friends even tho they were 18-19

(..)

Go to my local college classes and sit in there pretend I’m a student and ppl that way?

Go to coffee shop? What else

Right now I’m just wasting time rotting in bed doing nothing

so you had a starting network and just decided nope, im throwing it away and restarting from zero

not a great plan

[alltrapbrah]

OP, trust me when I say the least of your problems are age related.

Find a good therapist, serious.

[Tanerian]

Donno bro I'm 39 and in the best shape of my life, with a steady gym routine, and probably the happiest I've ever been. Have a good social circle to boot.

I played plenty of video games in my 20's, and I still do at 39. I've smoked weed since 19, and dabble in that white powder 3 or 4 times a month.

That being said. I'm about to hop into Hell Divers 2 for a couple hrs, srs.

Your problems are in your head. Someone else suggested therapy. That might not be a bad idea.

[Visel]

Nearly 30's brah checking in. Here's how I'm anticipating it to be.

If you take really good care of yourself, your 30s will just be an extension of your 20s. There will potentially be harder times as your family ages and have health issues. But you're still likely extremely healthy and doing just fine. And ideally you'll have a better than ever income and a growing net worth so that you're not really sweating the real problems in life.

Don't linger and get sucked into these dark thoughts of dread. What did your 18 years old self hope you'd act and feel like in your 30s? I doubt 18 years old conics would've liked to predict he'd be depressed, full of inadequacy, not finding any joy or curiosities of this world. And I doubt 60 years old conics will want to look back at his 30s wishing he didn't self-sabotage his own youth.

Next time you're feeling the blues, check yourself, and immediately move on to the next thought or action. Throw yourself into a zone of appreciation and living in the moment. That's the optimal place to be after all.

EDIT: Think of it like this, you're the star of your own movie series. When you were an infant, it was the endearing Rugrats opening film. When you were in your early 20s it was the college partying comedy sequel. Now wherever you're at now, you're able to choose the genre to live in, perhaps a bit more of a "The Office" style comedy, hopefully not a horror film. You are not just the main character, but you play a part in the director and writer (when it comes to the controllables, and your perspective), that's the beauty of free will. Start having fun again man, you can do it.

[JoeWinko]

I feel 20 still

I wasted my 20s playing video games and sitting inside doing school work

No friends no nothing

And now I have nothing

How do I relive my 20s that I never had

you didnt waste your 20s! you had fun with the video games! im in my 20s & i play them a lot too. i perfer livestreaming & filming it though so i can look back on it.
don't feel down!
and to answer your question, NO! LIFE DOES NOT END AFTER 30!

[rjthegreat10]

I'm turning 30 end of May, I'm gonna be a dad this year my social circle is pretty good now, got quite a few things planned for the year.

I'm in the best shape of my life started finasteride so hoping I can delay the Norwood reaper for a few years.

Career wise I feel stuck in my job but it could be worse I work with a good group of people.

End of the day age is just a number and comparison is the thief of joy.

[JoeWinko]

i still have a couple years left before i turn 30. im only insecure about it because almost every gay guy (EXCEPT ME!) always wants a "fresh young twink" -_-
as long as i still look 20, i wont care about turning 30

[conics]

you didnt waste your 20s! you had fun with the video games! im in my 20s & i play them a lot too. i perfer livestreaming & filming it though so i can look back on it.
don't feel down!
and to answer your question, NO! LIFE DOES NOT END AFTER 30!

Ya but I want a social life

[conics]

Donno bro I'm 39 and in the best shape of my life, with a steady gym routine, and probably the happiest I've ever been. Have a good social circle to boot.

I played plenty of video games in my 20's, and I still do at 39. I've smoked weed since 19, and dabble in that white powder 3 or 4 times a month.

That being said. I'm about to hop into Hell Divers 2 for a couple hrs, srs.

Your problems are in your head. Someone else suggested therapy. That might not be a bad idea.

R u married with kids?

[georgeenoob]

Life is over the second you come out your mother's vagina born in a burial gown.

[Nestaaa]

Age is just a number

- said every ****phile

[dontstopbelief]

For you? Yes

For everyone else? No