My ex contacted me last night and she came over. Thoughts on where her mind is?

[sf813]

I was the one who broke up with her back in October and we've had very little contact since. Never thought I'd see her again.

Yesterday, she was over at her friend's place which happens to be in this other high rise building right next to where I live. She texted me a photo of the view from the window so I told her to come stop by. We caught up over drinks at my place. I didn't think she would still be single willing to come over because she always has a lot of interested dudes around and guys from her past to contact.

She said that she always thought about our sex and how she missed that the most. And how good my cock feels making her cum from penetration all the time and she said that's why she came over.

She said she was too drunk to drive home so she spent the night at my place. She went straight into giving me a bj like she used to do all the time. We had sex (not my best performance though and I couldn't finish). She went back to giving me a bj and asked if I want to cum in her mouth like she used to do all the time, but she said "I'm still mad at you. You don't deserve it" and turned to her side on the bed. I went to sleep and I went to bang her again the next morning, and she was receptive so we did it again before she went home.

The good bye was a bit awkward as I don't know where we stand. So I asked if she wants to go camping which we did before and I had a lot of fun. She replied I don't know and I left it at that. Kind of hoping she would be interested in hanging out as friends and having a casual FWB type situation but we haven't reached out to each other since.

[headturner1]

Where in the fuk are the cliffs?

[MiscerLonely3]

Tell it to Penthouse Forum boyo

[sf813]

Where in the fuk are the cliffs?

- After months of very little contact, ex was with a group of friends in an apt building which was right next to mine
- I was surprised to hear from her and never thought we would ever see each other again
- I told her to come by and she did
- She stayed over and we hooked up a couple of times before she went home
- We haven't communicated since

[headturner1]

- After months of very little contact, ex was with a group of friends in an apt building which was right next to mine
- I was surprised to hear from her and never thought we would ever see each other again
- I told her to come by and she did
- She stayed over and we hooked up a couple of times before she went home
- We haven't communicated since

Repped

[RainingBlood]

You guys broke up for a reason, and if you FWB, someone will catch feelings and it'll be the same chit all over again.

[BigElephant]

FWB is a bad idea. No reason to have sex with her if you don't see a future for you guys. Why did you break up with her?

[SirFapsAIot]

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[Nicklol]

She said that she always thought about our sex and how she missed that the most. And how good my cock feels making her cum from penetration all the time and she said that's why she came over.

LMFAO
this happened

[sf813]

FWB is a bad idea. No reason to have sex with her if you don't see a future for you guys. Why did you break up with her?

She isn't the long-term/wife type girl I want. But after being in the dating scene since November, it hasn't been going that great. I've met other girls for dating and had casual flings but I've had some worse luck than I expected trying to find a high quality girl with potential.

[sf813]

LMFAO
this happened

? You a virgin?

She and I have open talks about things like that. She enjoys sex a lot and always complimented how I made her feel.

[Eggiesinabasket]

She isn't the long-term/wife type girl I want. But after being in the dating scene since November, it hasn't been going that great. I've met other girls for dating and had casual flings but I've had some worse luck than I expected trying to find a high quality girl with potential.

You just said it

She isn’t the long term wife you want. She isn’t the partner you want.

Don’t waste her time—more importantly don’t waste YOUR time going back to something that you really don’t want. Move forward with intention and hold out until you get the one you want.

[infinityplus1]

Ok i think you are trying to justify it was her who wanted to see you when you clearly told her to come over

And as a heterosexual male (assuming) I'm guessing your intention wasn't to have a cup of tea

Tbh you should feel like a POS inviting her over for the intention of fckn

[tripod29]

100% true story.

[jimbob007]

Assuming this story is true, as it sounds more like a made up story to an agony aunt.

1. She got dumped by another guy/had nobody to bang that night.
2. She also wanted to dump you, as her fragile ego couldn't handle you ending it.
3. You are a sucker like so many other guys for falling for it.

[Xtermin8fascist]

She wants you back, duh. She never came from you fuking her btw. That's something she says. Her guy dumped her, and she is having remorse. She'll marry you, and then dump you again and take half your chit after cheating on you within 5-8 years.

[WoofieNugget]

She probably is still hurt from the fact you broke up with her and was drunk and emotional. Happens all the time, and you happened to be conveniently located so she could get laid because her other options weren't available.

Plus, it was only yesterday, so don't worry about reaching out. Give it a couple of days and then if you still want to hang out with her wait until she makes the first move so that she knows you have options. She's probably regretting going back to the well with a guy who dumped her.

When my exes were single and so was I, we used to hook up once in a while. Doesn't have to mean anything besides "hey, I know I can have decent sex with you and I want to get laid".

[OliverHeldens]

She still wants you, and you still want her.

Keep fuking her. A girl who gives great head is tough to find nowadays.

And I really need to see pics to determine any further advice. If she has tattoos or anyting like that, just keep her around for the blowjobs.

[g1z]

Gonna need some pics to tell what the situation really is mate.
>Give her a week then hit her up to come smash again

[hockeyman1]

cum dempster

[latverian41]

I was the one who broke up with her back in October and we've had very little contact since. Never thought I'd see her again.

Yesterday, she was over at her friend's place which happens to be in this other high rise building right next to where I live. She texted me a photo of the view from the window so I told her to come stop by. We caught up over drinks at my place. I didn't think she would still be single willing to come over because she always has a lot of interested dudes around and guys from her past to contact.

She said that she always thought about our sex and how she missed that the most. And how good my cock feels making her cum from penetration all the time and she said that's why she came over.

She said she was too drunk to drive home so she spent the night at my place. She went straight into giving me a bj like she used to do all the time. We had sex (not my best performance though and I couldn't finish). She went back to giving me a bj and asked if I want to cum in her mouth like she used to do all the time, but she said "I'm still mad at you. You don't deserve it" and turned to her side on the bed. I went to sleep and I went to bang her again the next morning, and she was receptive so we did it again before she went home.

The good bye was a bit awkward as I don't know where we stand. So I asked if she wants to go camping which we did before and I had a lot of fun. She replied I don't know and I left it at that. Kind of hoping she would be interested in hanging out as friends and having a casual FWB type situation but we haven't reached out to each other since.

If story is true OP. She was just wanting a booty call you made yourself look the fool by asking her to go camping lol. She probably giggled when she heard that

You should have just said don't be a stranger and to give you a call sometime

[wasp9166]

You opened the door

Where is yours

[OliverHeldens]

If story is true OP. She was just wanting a booty call you made yourself look the fool by asking her to go camping lol. She probably giggled when she heard that

You should have just said don't be a stranger and to give you a call sometime

Lol, she said, "I'm still mad at you", which means OP definitely still had a chance with her. In reality, the camping thing was a complete simp move though, and might have killed any further chances with her.

In reality, she probably just wanted validation to know she still has him wrapped around her finger and now that OP went into simp mode he'll never see her again.

[latverian41]

Lol, she said, "I'm still mad at you", which means OP definitely still had a chance with her. In reality, the camping thing was a complete simp move though, and might have killed any further chances with her.

In reality, she probably just wanted validation to know she still has him wrapped around her finger and not that OP went into simp mode he'll never see her again.

Yep!

[dingler]

If you want an fwb situation never contact her first, never invite her to do anything. Let her keep it in her mind that you are just there when for when she is lonely and needs to wants to get off. When she texts you invite her over, if she says no just say ok and go nc until she wants to come smash.

Inviting her to go camping probably already killed your chances so definitely go nc until she hits you up to come to your place again.

[infinityplus1]

You opened the door

Where is yours

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to wasp9166 again.

[wasp9166]

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to wasp9166 again.

[x-trainer ben]

Still mad at you
I missed our sex
I don't want to seem to easy and desperate so I won't answer today about camping.
Just wait op

[CrimsonSteel]

Shouldn't have asked about camping, pushed it too far. Like other posters are saying, keeping it really casual (and legitimately, too, not trying to scheme you way back into a relationship) is the name of the game. Pretty much NC her unless she hits you up for a booty call.

[kusok]

Here’s how it works:

if your ex ever contacts you for any reason ever, she wants dick, if your ex ever comes over to your place, she really wants dick.