Matches have pretty much died ³

[imbored21]

Went on a date. She was a 6/10 but boring. I was gonna put her in smash only material but she texted me when I got home "thanks for inviting me out but it's not gonna work out." Damn, getting rejected by girls you dont even want is depressing.

[imbored21]

There comes a point in every interaction with a woman where she asks these 2 questions:

What do you do for fun??

Where do you want to travel??

How am I supposed to answer this??

I'm on that Andrew Tate time. These are my true feelings on the subject.





"You're looking forward to the weekend to watch a movie?" - TOPG

[awwchit2]

Brahs convince me to either purchase hinge x or not srs

I’m back on the market trying to slay young girls srs

[IronILLinois]

Thread buried under pages of spam

shut up pussy

[LargePeter]

shut up pussy

Self proclaimed President of Legz422 Crew
Calling others pussy

lmfao

[Luc1fer]

Self proclaimed President of Legz422 Crew
Calling others pussy

lmfao

congrats on making his Garbage Tier Miscer List

[imbored21]

So far I've gathered from women

1. all they want to do is talk about what you do for fun - when asked what they do, they never have hobbies
2. All of them are obsessed with traveling/drinking.
3. They don't like guys who don't have social lives
4. Most are boring/autistic as **** on dates
5. 95% of single women have absolutely 0 game
6. Most women think they're prettier than they are
7. Any moderately attractive women will show up late

lol

[legbroke]

Brahs convince me to either purchase hinge x or not srs

I’m back on the market trying to slay young girls srs

If you're getting some matches, but not enough/not good enough and you can afford it, paying for the apps seems like a good move. If you're getting nothing, it doesnt seem like it'll magically get you matches though. That's been my impression.

[awwchit2]

I caved and got hinge x

we’ll see how it goes got 2 matches already.

Sent out a few likes.

I’m very selective anyways. I have Have no children, no smoking, age 18-32 as my
Deal breakers

Also I unmatched like 100 matches that were just sitting there.

[imbored21]

I caved and got hinge x

we’ll see how it goes got 2 matches already.

Sent out a few likes.

I’m very selective anyways. I have Have no children, no smoking, age 18-32 as my
Deal breakers

Also I unmatched like 100 matches that were just sitting there.

i get several matches a day with Hinge +. On free version I get like 2/month. Still get very little dates. I am very selective though. I only see 7+ asian girls who are within 10 miles, under 5'8, skinny, no social/party/travel pics, no basic bios (fluent in sarcasm, astrology, love language, freak in the sheets, tacos and tequila, building legos together etc...), must be american asian not fob asian, no low effort bios either, no weird sexual orientations,no she/her/they, no "drink:socially smoke:no Weed: hidden" (mega cringe).

[awwchit2]

i get several matches a day with Hinge +. On free version I get like 2/month. Still get very little dates. I am very selective though. I only see 7+ asian girls who are within 10 miles, under 5'8, skinny, no social/party/travel pics, no basic bios (fluent in sarcasm, astrology, love language, freak in the sheets, tacos and tequila, building legos together etc...), must be american asian not fob asian, no low effort bios either, no weird sexual orientations,no she/her/they, no "drink:socially smoke:no Weed: hidden" (mega cringe).

i used to get matches like every day then it just died suddenly. my likes weren't hitting anything.

ive fuk'd from tinder, bumble, hinge, and FB dating lol. dead srs

the reality is its officially pay to win now. for the price of a bar tab you can match w more sloots and try to date. fair trade imo.

FB dating is pretty good. I get hella matches there and there's no limit to swipes and it's not pay to win (yet).

[imbored21]

i used to get matches like every day then it just died suddenly. my likes weren't hitting anything.

ive fuk'd from tinder, bumble, hinge, and FB dating lol. dead srs

the reality is its officially pay to win now. for the price of a bar tab you can match w more sloots and try to date. fair trade imo.

FB dating is pretty good. I get hella matches there and there's no limit to swipes and it's not pay to win (yet).

do you need an actual ******** account for this?? I don't have one.

[imbored21]

and does anyone here talk to girls in person? It seems like it's mostly betas relying on online dating. I'm gonna start hitting on girls at the gym. How embarassing would it be to tell people you met your girl on a dating app? Just feels beta as hell (still gonna use them thouhg cause it's easymode).

[LargePeter]

congrats on making his Garbage Tier Miscer List

I was put there shortly after I had him in my sig as a pube faced twink who doesn't lift

[skinnyfat88]

It seems to take a while to move up in the algorithm, hence it can be useful to use boosts or w/e on Tinder.

As others said, it's not a ton of money compared to what a night out would cost. Don't view it as "I need to pay to get a date," rather you pay to have a much wider selection of who you want to go on a date with.

[awwchit2]

It seems to take a while to move up in the algorithm, hence it can be useful to use boosts or w/e on Tinder.

As others said, it's not a ton of money compared to what a night out would cost. Don't view it as "I need to pay to get a date," rather you pay to have a much wider selection of who you want to go on a date with.

Would probably never pay for tinder again. It’s trash app. Whales and fat trans. Blue haired feminists

Hinge is much better quality and the fact they don’t blur your damn likes and you can send messages with your likes is just better. I match with what I think I could pull IRL. Tinder I’m matching with below my league and rarely match with an actual cute girl. I’m very selective on hinge. Tinder I swipe to fuk anything

[skinnyfat88]

Would probably never pay for tinder again. It’s trash app. Whales and fat trans. Blue haired feminists

Hinge is much better quality and the fact they don’t blur your damn likes and you can send messages with your likes is just better. I match with what I think I could pull IRL. Tinder I’m matching with below my league and rarely match with an actual cute girl. I’m very selective on hinge. Tinder I swipe to fuk anything

I was on Hinge for a bit.
I've never really followed any type of "game" and been pretty genuine online. With Hinge I found I got a lot of responses to my initial message (which I often put a bit of thought and effort into) but the majority had unengaging responses and didn't respond to a 2nd message. So I got a bit frustrated with the effort I put into a first message only to go nowhere.
The two dates I had over a few months were less attractive than their pics.

I feel like less time is wasted when someone matches based on my profile alone (Tinder or Bumble).

But yeah the overall quality may be higher on Hinge or Bumble. Tinder is just the most straightforward but I'll likely switch it up as time goes on. TBD.

I'm straight up about being a dad as well as allergic to pets which is no doubt limiting my matches. I need to get out and about more IRL like I did pre-Covid but I am older, pickier, and have less desire to drink as often as I did a few years back.

[awwchit2]

I was on Hinge for a bit.
I've never really followed any type of "game" and been pretty genuine online. With Hinge I found I got a lot of responses to my initial message (which I often put a bit of thought and effort into) but the majority had unengaging responses and didn't respond to a 2nd message. So I got a bit frustrated with the effort I put into a first message only to go nowhere.
The two dates I had over a few months were less attractive than their pics.

I feel like less time is wasted when someone matches based on my profile alone (Tinder or Bumble).

But yeah the overall quality may be higher on Hinge or Bumble. Tinder is just the most straightforward but I'll likely switch it up as time goes on. TBD.

I'm straight up about being a dad as well as allergic to pets which is no doubt limiting my matches. I need to get out and about more IRL like I did pre-Covid but I am older, pickier, and have less desire to drink as often as I did a few years back.

i have the opposite problem i dont put much thought in my messages and I go straight for number rather quickly (which often scares them)

the thought of small talking "how was your day what you do for work" etc bores me to death thats what a first date is for.

if im just trying to smash i put even LESS effort

[imbored21]

Together we can build legos together. Vomit. Low effort copy pasting scum. Apps are making me hate roasties so much

[sloppyjoe1]

Hey bro's I check in here once in awhile for fun, see what ya'll are talking about. I'm 32 and I haven't dated a girl let alone talked to in over a year. I haven't put in one SINGLE ounce of effort lol. Been focusing on my job, hobbies, gym, just signed a contract to build a new home in a cool community. I'm a good looking guy, in shape, have my life together, etc, but I can tell you guys that if you don't put in any effort you will get nothing. Some people say you need to pipe down with girls and let them come to you. I think that is true ONLY if you make the first move. You have to open the door because they won't entertain rejection. If you don't, someone else will, and girls know that so they don't sweat it and get FOMO like men do. Open the door, introduce yourself, talk a little chit, then go back to what you're doing. If they like you, they'll enter your space or text you to see what's up someday.

[imbored21]

Hey bro's I check in here once in awhile for fun, see what ya'll are talking about. I'm 32 and I haven't dated a girl let alone talked to in over a year. I haven't put in one SINGLE ounce of effort lol. Been focusing on my job, hobbies, gym, just signed a contract to build a new home in a cool community. I'm a good looking guy, in shape, have my life together, etc, but I can tell you guys that if you don't put in any effort you will get nothing. Some people say you need to pipe down with girls and let them come to you. I think that is true ONLY if you make the first move. You have to open the door because they won't entertain rejection. If you don't, someone else will, and girls know that so they don't sweat it and get FOMO like men do. Open the door, introduce yourself, talk a little chit, then go back to what you're doing. If they like you, they'll enter your space or text you to see what's up someday.

sucks bro. We have to try so hard for so little and no one understands the struggle but us. Feel like I'm in some secret society and Andrew Tate is the only one speaking up for us.

[skinnyfat88]

Hey bro's I check in here once in awhile for fun, see what ya'll are talking about. I'm 32 and I haven't dated a girl let alone talked to in over a year. I haven't put in one SINGLE ounce of effort lol. Been focusing on my job, hobbies, gym, just signed a contract to build a new home in a cool community. I'm a good looking guy, in shape, have my life together, etc, but I can tell you guys that if you don't put in any effort you will get nothing. Some people say you need to pipe down with girls and let them come to you. I think that is true ONLY if you make the first move. You have to open the door because they won't entertain rejection. If you don't, someone else will, and girls know that so they don't sweat it and get FOMO like men do. Open the door, introduce yourself, talk a little chit, then go back to what you're doing. If they like you, they'll enter your space or text you to see what's up someday.

Agreed for the most part. Unless you're top 2-3% lookswise, you need to at least get the ball rolling. Once you do, sometimes you don't need much "game" at all and they will help with the escalation but you have to be confident enough to have a conversation.

Anyways, are you going to be putting in a bit of effort now? Have you had relative success in the past?
Good luck whatever you're looking for brah!

[sloppyjoe1]

Agreed for the most part. Unless you're top 2-3% lookswise, you need to at least get the ball rolling. Once you do, sometimes you don't need much "game" at all and they will help with the escalation but you have to be confident enough to have a conversation.

Anyways, are you going to be putting in a bit of effort now? Have you had relative success in the past?
Good luck whatever you're looking for brah!

I'm not sure man. I just don't seem to care much anymore. I had a gf who lived with me for 5 years but that ended 5 years ago. Since then I feel like I've been through that whole LTR thing and it doesn't have the same allure as it once did when I was younger. I find myself putting my time and energy towards new & challenging things. I have put a lot of time into work and there is still more to learn and experience, reaching new heights financially, going through a new home build, and then having a few hobbies that there is so much to explore. It would be nice to see someone I'm really into but I don't have the desire to start that process. It comes down to priority, the things I'm doing have a much higher quality return than chasing women. Some dudes are out there getting after it with women but I'd just rather do something else lol.

[Demona86]

YES! What is with the basic bio crap?! I am new here, are we allowed to swear?

I am a chick (36), and there are so many almost identical bio's it's crazy.

Can beat you at Mario kart
Can fold a fitted sheet
pineapple on pizza, blah blah

Everyone is the same, why is this?
And the pronoun people rule out 85% right away.

It's discouraging. I hate to delete my bumble today because I needed a break from the misery.

[HelpMeChads]

losers

[Luc1fer]

losers

Coming from the incel begging "Chads" to help him out with women

[awwchit2]

Hinge X is proving to be worth it.

Quality and frequency of matches have improved.

My stack has way better quality of girls actually my type.

Still giving it more days for the algorithm to readjust.

But yeah I matched with this girl who liked me first and she’s is my fookin typeeee. She messaged me tonight again after the initial match earlier today. not holding my breath because of that reply time… We’ll see what happens

[Demona86]

Huh, maybe I'll try hinge.

Couldn't hurt, I guess.

I saw a few pronouns on bumble yesterday as ze/zer and xe/co

Wtf is this?! How tf does a grown man consider himself a "ze"?

It's honestly depressing to just swipe most of the time.
Nevermind the ghosting and whatnot.
The bios depress me.

[imbored21]

Hinge date tomorrow with a 7/10 asian chick. Wish me luck.

[Demona86]

Ok, hingeX isn't so bad.

Probably the best dating app (paid or unpaid) that I've tried.

Not that that says much, lol.

But at least it's bearable to be swiping here