Or rather poured my heart and soul into my ex of 3 years and now don't have many women in my life. I miss the random texts throughout the day she sent me. However I'm getting better (talking to other women isn't really replacing that emptiness I feel) but I'm really starting to actually work on myself now unlike before. How do you *genuinely* enjoy your own company? I'm not sure if it's unhealthy or normal to be craving so much touch and affection (is this 'withdrawal' or is this my mind saying put yourself tf out there?) srs I don't really understand my own emotions at times
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Thread: Lost myself a bit after breakup
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04-22-2021, 03:20 PM #1
Lost myself a bit after breakup
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04-25-2021, 02:19 PM #6
Hey man, I'm a clingy guy, I crave that love and affection more than anything. I experience extreme dread and loneliness after a break up and just recently had one myself. I gotta say, I had a solid 6 weeks of HELL! But eventually you get used to it, stop thinking about it. Eventually, with time, your brain just forgets naturally. It's not like your ex is forgotten, more like it is pushed back a bit behind more relevant things in your life. I honestly can't think of anything that will help you feel better, you just need to wait it out. Having people to talk to about your struggle is good temporary relief to help the mandatory waiting period go by faster, but you will not recover until the waiting period is over. No amount of drugs or sex will reduce the amount of time you need. It's like cold medicine. There is no cure for the cold, cold medicine only relieves symptoms while your body fights off the virus naturally. It will take the same amount of time regardless of medicine or not for you to heal from the cold. So unfortunately you will have to just wait it out. Please do not do anything self-destructive while you are in your healing period, or you will emerge from it worse off than before.
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05-03-2021, 12:28 PM #16
Girlfriend of 1.5 years said we needed a break....moved out...found out she was on bumble. Packed up what was left of her stuff and moved her out. She was a freeloader and was not a good person but having lived with her for the last year during COVID it has been very hard on me. I have gone full NC, she reached out to get the rest of her stuff and I told her just to deal with my brother.
Basically asked me if "We are going to hate each other" I never responded. Her problem, her choice. Still stings but I have to accept the loss and move on.She was the Best Man
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05-03-2021, 06:32 PM #17
Going thru this rn. 1.5 years down the drain.
Sad part is I didn't even want to marry her but now that she's gone I can't think of anyone else.By reading this post you acknowledge SikhAndDestroy is an online persona and all posts by SikhAndDestroy are satirical in nature. Comments by SikhAndDestroy shall not reflect on the integrity and morals of the author portraying the online character nor any professional or contractual affiliates of the author.
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05-05-2021, 06:02 PM #18
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Hitting the feels. Just lost a relationship of 3 years. Kinda saw it coming slowly but still sucks to lose a lover, specicifically when they are the ones that end things. Right now sleeping on a couch. Cant help but think of all the good times and good memories, seems selective when we miss someone.
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05-06-2021, 09:46 AM #19
For me, she said she wasn't over her ex-fiancee of 4 years who she broke up with last year. And that she realized that she can't be with me right now.
This is the worst break-up I've gone through as everything was going so well with this girl...no arguments/fights, red flags, flakiness, gaslighting etc...she just dropped this atomic bomb out of nowhere while we were grabbing tea after a dinner date.
Haven't talked to her since the break-up two weeks ago and I'm still having trouble processing it.
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05-07-2021, 07:33 AM #20
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05-07-2021, 10:04 AM #21
Going through this myself yet again. How do you 30+ guys handle the fear of not finding someone good enough. Lets be real, the older we get the more lower quality women (appearance/baggage/other issues) there will be to chose from. I couldn't handle the rudeness and coldness of my ex so there was no way to stay, even though it is painful, but now I fear I won't find anyone with equal interests and life plans (no kids).
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