Friend thinks im weird for not wanting to spend money/move out

[roughinhouse]

I guess i am weird. I'm not into any typical manly hobbies and have no interest in brand name products.

How weird would u think i am if you knew the following about me?

- 1 mil saved up + will get around 4 mil from inheritance
- still live with parents, dont want to move out and dont plan to ever
- hobbies include programming, game dev, walking/hiking with dog
- only had 1 gf for a 2 year relationship since highschool, basically been an incel afterwards with no desire to pursue another gf/sexors/marriage.
- barely buy anything, largest amount i spent was a gaming pc i cheaped out on for 2k+.
- buy clothes like once a year
- have an old car i drive. Could easily spend more but i cant understand the point of having a nice car? To me its just something to get you around.
- dont like most songs, typically just listen to video game remixes when playing video games/programming.
- dont understand hobbies like clubbing, cars, pursuing women. I do like building stuff though like making a new fence with my dad.

[RealLifeAlpha]

basically been an incel afterwards with no desire to pursue another gf/sexors/marriage.

- dont like most songs, typically just listen to video game remixes when playing video games/programming.

Sounds normal brah (ded fkn Srs)

[Jestbrah]

you sound like someone who has low test and doesnt have a grip on reality with how pointless the activities you are doing are while viewing other activities that actually have a point as a human being as pointless.
Your viewpoint on life is ass backwards

brb save money and live like a robot
vs
brb use money as a currency to enjoy life and experience life and make the most of every day

there seem to be a lot of incel miscers tho think acquiring currency just for the sake of being good at acquiring currency is some sort of goal. Meanwhile other miscers are just smart with finances, and choose to live life by buying vehicles they enjoy, going on vacations, banging hookers and trannies, and buying guns to shoot for fun.

[roughinhouse]

you sound like someone who has low test and doesnt have a grip on reality with how pointless the activities you are doing are while viewing other activities that actually have a point as a human being as pointless.
Your viewpoint on life is ass backwards

brb save money and live like a robot
vs
brb use money as a currency to enjoy life and experience life and make the most of every day

thats the thing tho. I do enjoy my life lol. Like being with my parents and dog. Making games is fun for me even if im not very good. I definitely have low test (and high estrogen actually) but doctor didnt do anything about it.

[Issobolic28]

thats the thing tho. I do enjoy my life lol. Like being with my parents and dog. Making games is fun for me even if im not very good. I definitely have low test (and high estrogen actually) but doctor didnt do anything about it.

How old are you ?

[Jestbrah]

thats the thing tho. I do enjoy my life lol. Like being with my parents and dog. Making games is fun for me even if im not very good.

I didnt say you arent enjoying your life, I said you arent experiencing LIFE as a human being. You are living like a robot. You dont even know what you are missing out on because you are consumed by living in your comfortable bubble where its safe.

A person can enjoy eating a twinkie without ever realizing what authentic italian pasta with high grade parmigiano reggiano and truffle shavings tastes like. Hes not "wrong" for liking the twinkie but hes missing out on things far more enjoyable that life has to offer.

[8pieces]

joking aside, moving out is rare in countries that are not the us. even in some western countries it's normal for your parents to live with you

[WafflesBrah]

Do you my brotha. Don't conform to what society thinks is "normal" or what you should be doing.

[Jestbrah]

joking aside, moving out is rare in countries that are not the us. even in some western countries it's normal for your parents to live with you

that alone would be understandable but the rest of the stuff OP posted shows that thats a completely different situation

Do you my brotha. Don't conform to what society thinks is "normal" or what you should be doing.

hes doing the opposite though and refusing to participate in human life and just sit behind the comfort of a screen and live in his safe space. Hes more controlled by machines than he is by his own life.

[roughinhouse]

How old are you ?

Almost 27.

I didnt say you arent enjoying your life, I said you arent experiencing LIFE as a human being. You are living like a robot. You dont even know what you are missing out on because you are consumed by living in your comfortable bubble where its safe.

A person can enjoy eating a twinkie without ever realizing what authentic italian pasta with high grade parmigiano reggiano and truffle shavings tastes like. Hes not "wrong" for liking the twinkie but hes missing out on things far more enjoyable that life has to offer.

Thats true but i dont really know what to try. I tried living alone while in uni and i was miserable. I like hanging out with friends but i dont like it when we go to restaurants or clubs. I'd rather just order some fast food or pizza. I'm not good looking at all so I gave up on women and i guess i sort of became asexual after i had that realization and reading how most women are into your face. I could travel but seems like a waste of money and boring.

[Jestbrah]

Almost 27.



Thats true but i dont really know what to try. I tried living alone while in uni and i was miserable. I like hanging out with friends but i dont like it when we go to restaurants or clubs. I'd rather just order some fast food or pizza. I'm not good looking at all so I gave up on women and i guess i sort of became asexual after i had that realization and reading how most women are into your face. I could travel but seems like a waste of money and boring.

like I said, you probably have low testosterone which effect most of the things you are describing. I am being serious not just the whole misc "low test high test" nonsense.

go get on TRT and let that wave of wanting to ravage a woman's bobs and vajeen overcome you, if you really have a million dollars saved up then you have the ability to attract a very good looking woman. I assure you it will be worth it. Then find someone who cliques with your personality and go do some traveling with them. Try foods in other countries, see views that this planet has to offer before you die, be exposed to people of different cultures and more enlightened to being a human.

[WafflesBrah]

hes doing the opposite though and refusing to participate in human life and just sit behind the comfort of a screen and live in his safe space. Hes more controlled by machines than he is by his own life.

He said he doesn't enjoy any of those things however I do agree the giving up on women is a sign of low test unless you're staying abstinence for a specific reason/goal.

[wannabe-strong]

diet?

[roughinhouse]

diet?

Pretty normal diet. Eggs or fruit smoothie in morning. usually snack throughout the day on fruits, carrots, cheese. Lunch and dinner vary a lot. Can range anywhere from baked paotatoes and grilled chicken to pasta.

[MrAWatts]

Why even live. Being the richest guy in the graveyard isn’t worth a thing *******.

[mistahAIM]

There is zero doubt in my mind that OP is literally autistic.

[isawthesign]

Are you really 50? How do you have a 1 mill already?

[Krunok]

Honestly weird as hell. As long as your parents don’t feel like you’re burdening them and they don’t mind, keep living your life how you enjoy it. Your life doesn’t affect me one bit. But yeah, to all of us, we would be miserable living that life srs.

[Hmatt330]

There is zero doubt in my mind that OP is literally autistic.

This.



But these are all labels. If he’s enjoying life, MIRIN’ not really but really opie. Srs

[DannStark]

Idk sounds chill to me. $1mill saved up and all the time in the world. I don't get why some are saying you need to bang hookers and buy expensive cars.

Only thing i'd do different in that situation is probably study something interesting, travel (without the drugs and trannies part), and go camping/kayaking every once in a while.

[Ratfish]

sad af LOL

[roughinhouse]

Honestly weird as hell. As long as your parents don’t feel like you’re burdening them and they don’t mind, keep living your life how you enjoy it. Your life doesn’t affect me one bit. But yeah, to all of us, we would be miserable living that life srs.

I honestly really don't think I am. I was curious about it once about it why I think so differently compared to people around me but I don't tick any of the boxes for autism. I just have a strong lack of desire for attention and materialism which might be cause of low t. I used to be an attention whore in highschool and used to jestermaxx/be the class clown but now I really don't care lol.

I still really enjoy meeting new people and making friends if possible as well but it's hard to do so tbh. People feel different from when I was in school.

[xbit7]

thats the thing tho. I do enjoy my life lol. Like being with my parents and dog. Making games is fun for me even if im not very good. I definitely have low test (and high estrogen actually) but doctor didnt do anything about it.

Get a different doc if you want to. If you’re happy that’s all that matters at the end of the day.

[Hector002]

you sound like someone who has low test and doesnt have a grip on reality with how pointless the activities you are doing are while viewing other activities that actually have a point as a human being as pointless.
Your viewpoint on life is ass backwards

brb save money and live like a robot
vs
brb use money as a currency to enjoy life and experience life and make the most of every day

there seem to be a lot of incel miscers tho think acquiring currency just for the sake of being good at acquiring currency is some sort of goal. Meanwhile other miscers are just smart with finances, and choose to live life by buying vehicles they enjoy, going on vacations, banging hookers and trannies, and buying guns to shoot for fun.

This. I have a feeling you don’t like those things because you’re socially awkward / insecure. Do you honestly think if you had model tier looks or were really good at talking to women you’d be living your life the way you do? Nope. Quit coping and take action before you wake up one day and are 70 years old realizing you wasted your life and can’t do anything about it.

[_grape]

Just do you brah, if you're happy who gives a f*ck

[FrankCostanza]

came in to say great save for a house, but you have a million now? move the fuk out and live. essentially when your parents die youll retire. you gotta live your life.

[immune18]

It’s fine to live how u want to live, but you owe it to yourself to get your hormones sorted so you can explore that part of your life. It isn’t hard, go to an anti ageing clinic and pay to have the tests done then for the prescription every month.

[BraneyGumble]

You sound like you have a bunch of piss jars lined up in your basement.

[ChaseW]

So OP is a 27yo full autist who has not only made after tax, but SAVED $1,000,000 in the 6 years since uni? Never change misc

[ilovetradies]

time to ask your doctor for some OJ