How Serious Are This Girls Red Flags??

[Soulforge2015]

Yes, mate. They are really damaged goods but they hide it very well. Most of these bitches can be pretty deceitful. You got lucky the one you meet told you all her stuff early on so you knew the kind of woman you were dealing with. In my case, I'm raw cause the bitch presented herself as something she wasn't so by the time I found out I was already invested in the bitch. Nevertheless, I think you may be doing a good choice by leaving that ho alone.

The way I see it Mate, getting a couple of more fuks or even a 3sum isnt even worth it.

Fast is she is a massive danger as a LTR and you can only fuk a hoe for so long.

Being around these types of chicks for too long, brings nothing positive in your life

[YIAMSOMEBODY]

Haven't finished reading the entire OP, but 1 & 2, I would've been ghost. Hayle naw....

[DustinTheHuss]

This sloot, bit by bit let me know partialy who she is.. But I am certain i only know half of it.

I should just consider myself lucky that I got out with minimum damage.

As I was considering going LTR with This hoe

How old is she?

[Soulforge2015]

Haven't finished reading the entire OP, but 1 & 2, I would've been ghost. Hayle naw....

Yes childhood sexual abuse.. Its a slippery sloppy after that

[Soulforge2015]

How old is she?

38 and no kids.. Don't think she can have kids

[DustinTheHuss]

38 and no kids.. Don't think she can have kids

38 with that many red flags, smh. I foresee her future alone with 10 cats.

[Soulforge2015]

Just curious to see if you tried to get her back for sex or what happened. I think you should try just for the sake of knowing whether this bitch would be receptive or not and then drop her again. LOL

Mate it sounds like you got a little attatched with the sloot you was seeing?

The thing is.. You shouldn't keep these damaged woman around for too long.

Kinky sex is a very powerfull drug.. You end up hooked, plus she will love bomb you, till you catch FEELS.

Its best to give yourself a time line to exit from the relationship.

6 weeks max.. Have All the sex you want, then drop her.

The more time you spend with these women, the more addicted you get.

Sex with cluster B is very powerfull

[Soulforge2015]

38 with that many red flags, smh. I foresee her future alone with 10 cats.

Mate I feel the same way...

I mean how many men would be willing to commit to a woman, who is deeply connected to a pornographer.

This old **** would ALWAYS be in the picture.. Imagine having that around your neck forever onwards.

He could intice her back into that sleazy world again, if she got desperate enough.

Plus that old **** got too see her puzzy when it was younger and finer... I got the older 38 year old vagina haha!

The crazy part is.. She actualy thinks that This type of sleazy set up is perfectly okay.

[BobbyBench99214]

What a ride, just got through reading this. Honestly after getting the inkling of just one of those red flags I would be burning rubber down the highway. What in the world were you thinking?

[Soulforge2015]

What a ride, just got through reading this. Honestly after getting the inkling of just one of those red flags I would be burning rubber down the highway. What in the world were you thinking?

Haha i was thinking with my dik Mate.

This is a common mistake us guys make, we brush off the red flags, because she is super hot and the sex is great.

Luckily I snapped out of it, sooner than later.

Some dudes end up wifing up a hoe like this, then paying a very heavy price down the line.

Cluster B have a way of getting inside your fukin head.

[dolviolex]

This is a common mistake us guys make, we brush off the red flags, because she is super hot and the sex is great.

No, this is a common mistake YOU make. I wouldn't have lasted a day with a woman like this because I can easily find a much more well-balanced woman. You have more issues than this woman after reading this whole thread and because of this--YOU attract this type of women.

This thread needs to die, part of me thinks it's not even real because it's so ridiculous.

[Soulforge2015]

No, this is a common mistake YOU make. I wouldn't have lasted a day with a woman like this because I can easily find a much more well-balanced woman. You have more issues than this woman after reading this whole thread and because of this--YOU attract this type of women.

This thread needs to die, part of me thinks it's not even real because it's so ridiculous.

Mate your a dumb azz...

Do you think woman reveal everything about themselves within days of meeting her.

No they slowly throw in hints here and there over a period of months.

I only got the full picture of her past and current situation 3-4 months in.

And then i dumped her.. Atleast get the story right fuk boy.

And who hasn't put there dik in crazy at some point in there life.. Pretty much most of us.

[DustinTheHuss]

Mate your a dumb azz...

Do you think woman reveal everything about themselves within days of meeting her.

No they slowly throw in hints here and there over a period of months.

I only got the full picture of her past and current situation 3-4 months in.

And then i dumped her.. Atleast get the story right fuk boy.

And who hasn't put there dik in crazy at some point in there life.. Pretty much most of us.

If it took you 3-4 months to end it, then you have issues of your own to even be attracted to a woman like that. Seek professional help.

[Soulforge2015]

If it took you 3-4 months to end it, then you have issues of your own to even be attracted to a woman like that. Seek professional help.

Seriously I really think you have lost the plot lad..

What the fuk do you think happened, I found out all this shyte over one week..


Nooooo.. She told me about the occasional ******* use in month one..

I overlooked it, simply because at that stage i gave zero shytes about her and to me she was just an occasional bang.

The rest of her sleazy background came out in month 3.. By then i had already developed some FEELS for her... But i knew it wasn't right and how much of a Mind Fuk she would be..

So i started to plan a exit stratedgy.. Its not always that easy when you like the chick.

Month 4 i decided to dump, especialy when i saw how bad she was with resloving conflict.

The vast majority of this shyte came out month 3..

[John$Galt]

lmao this girl is like a red flag warehouse. or actually a manufacturer of red flags.

if the sex is "insane" you can basically bet your life she's not worth taking seriously. then the rest of your post...well...holy shiite.

[Soulforge2015]

lmao this girl is like a red flag warehouse. or actually a manufacturer of red flags.

if the sex is "insane" you can basically bet your life she's not worth taking seriously. then the rest of your post...well...holy shiite.

She got red flags coming out of her Azz lol

[rdbr]

Damaged asf OP, you did the right thing. Girls like this are useful for casual flings/FWB, anything else and you're playing with fire and sooner or later you will be burnt. Tread very carefully anytime a potential partner tells you about childhood abuse, that type of **** shapes your whole life and will significantly effect their mental health and relationships with others.

[Soulforge2015]

Damaged asf OP, you did the right thing. Girls like this are useful for casual flings/FWB, anything else and you're playing with fire and sooner or later you will be burnt. Tread very carefully anytime a potential partner tells you about childhood abuse, that type of **** shapes your whole life and will significantly effect their mental health and relationships with others.

I know Mate.. I needed this lesson as a wake up call, to remind me to vet women very carefuly before getting involved.

Luckily it was a fling with her.. And I got out sooner than later.

She did love bomb heavily.. Even started asking me to move in with her only after 3 months of seeing her.

Even FWB is quite risky with these girls.. They know how to get you deeper involved.

Dodged a nuke.

[Jasonw1178]

No brah.. I am leaving that sloot well alone.

I had my few months of fun with her... However she is damaged goods, cluster B sloot.

I am actualy thankful i got out, within a reasonable amount of time, without long term damaged.

This types of broken woman can drive a man to suicide if you fall for them.

Sometimes its just best to walk away man..

By the sounds of it, the sloot you was messing with, in the end left you, and your feeling a little raw about it?

These types of broken/damaged chicks, its best to completely avoid.

However if you decide to bang one.. Its best to drop her, sooner than later.

They will love bomb you to high heaven and manipulate you into a relationship.. Then abandon you.

Her ultimate weopon is the kinky sex? Thats how they hook you in.

Can relate. Was with a girl like that for almost a total of 7 years.

When we met, she was seeing about five other guys, so I was like WTH get some. She even told me she was a total slut/hoe. Sex was amazing. First time I entered her, I said "damn you really are a slut" and she liked it. Then she got rid of the other guys and just wanted me. Makes you feel real special, nomsayin.

When things are good, they are GREAT, but when they are bad, they are HORRID. We had lots of good things, but then it could blow up, and we would have breaks. During these breaks, she would get another guy in her in no time, but then get rid of him and say she missed me and loves me. How she couldn't live without me. She would go get other girls as a way to make it up to me, sometimes she would just randomly bring chicks home with her. Yeah, fun times.

I loved her, and we had a lot of great times. She made me really happy most of the time. We had a pretty bad break off about two years ago, but kept dating and hanging out. Finally put a final end to it. Final straws were her telling people I'm a narcissist, and how I was manipulating her into have sex with other guys, because everyone was finding out about her sleeping around. I can't figure out if she was trying to make me sound like a cuck or a pimp, I guess it depended on who she was talking to.

So what keeps you letting them back in? Partly the good times because they are so great. Secondly, they are often knowlegable about how they messed up and will try to correct it, but as soon you give them another chance, the cycle restarts. My ex went as far as making a FB post about how I'm good to her and she sometimes says things when she gets frustrated. Thanks for revivling my reputation, not that anyone actually belived you, but I know what is going to happen the moment I let you back in.

[Soulforge2015]

Can relate. Was with a girl like that for almost a total of 7 years.

When we met, she was seeing about five other guys, so I was like WTH get some. She even told me she was a total slut/hoe. Sex was amazing. First time I entered her, I said "damn you really are a slut" and she liked it. Then she got rid of the other guys and just wanted me. Makes you feel real special, nomsayin.

When things are good, they are GREAT, but when they are bad, they are HORRID. We had lots of good things, but then it could blow up, and we would have breaks. During these breaks, she would get another guy in her in no time, but then get rid of him and say she missed me and loves me. How she couldn't live without me. She would go get other girls as a way to make it up to me, sometimes she would just randomly bring chicks home with her. Yeah, fun times.

I loved her, and we had a lot of great times. She made me really happy most of the time. We had a pretty bad break off about two years ago, but kept dating and hanging out. Finally put a final end to it. Final straws were her telling people I'm a narcissist, and how I was manipulating her into have sex with other guys, because everyone was finding out about her sleeping around. I can't figure out if she was trying to make me sound like a cuck or a pimp, I guess it depended on who she was talking to.

So what keeps you letting them back in? Partly the good times because they are so great. Secondly, they are often knowlegable about how they messed up and will try to correct it, but as soon you give them another chance, the cycle restarts. My ex went as far as making a FB post about how I'm good to her and she sometimes says things when she gets frustrated. Thanks for revivling my reputation, not that anyone actually belived you, but I know what is going to happen the moment I let you back in.

Wow man that is crazy.... I see some similarities in your ex and the chick I was seeing.

She was also happy and willing to have 3ums with me.. And more.

She actually had sex with me, within 3 hours of our very first date.. Hell she was Dancing naked drunk in my living room within hours of meeting.

You can bet your last dollar, the minute i dropped her, she went off and fuked someone else within hours.

Mate what you had there was a fukin mess.

The problem is, these are hot chicks.. And sexualy great and fun to be around.. Which makes them very addictive!

I still think.. I did the right thing letting her GO

[Soulforge2015]

Can relate. Was with a girl like that for almost a total of 7 years.

When we met, she was seeing about five other guys, so I was like WTH get some. She even told me she was a total slut/hoe. Sex was amazing. First time I entered her, I said "damn you really are a slut" and she liked it. Then she got rid of the other guys and just wanted me. Makes you feel real special, nomsayin.

When things are good, they are GREAT, but when they are bad, they are HORRID. We had lots of good things, but then it could blow up, and we would have breaks. During these breaks, she would get another guy in her in no time, but then get rid of him and say she missed me and loves me. How she couldn't live without me. She would go get other girls as a way to make it up to me, sometimes she would just randomly bring chicks home with her. Yeah, fun times.

I loved her, and we had a lot of great times. She made me really happy most of the time. We had a pretty bad break off about two years ago, but kept dating and hanging out. Finally put a final end to it. Final straws were her telling people I'm a narcissist, and how I was manipulating her into have sex with other guys, because everyone was finding out about her sleeping around. I can't figure out if she was trying to make me sound like a cuck or a pimp, I guess it depended on who she was talking to.

So what keeps you letting them back in? Partly the good times because they are so great. Secondly, they are often knowlegable about how they messed up and will try to correct it, but as soon you give them another chance, the cycle restarts. My ex went as far as making a FB post about how I'm good to her and she sometimes says things when she gets frustrated. Thanks for revivling my reputation, not that anyone actually belived you, but I know what is going to happen the moment I let you back in.

Clearly you ignored every red flag under the sun there.

That time when she admited that she was a slut/hoe... That was a big clue man. Lol

[Soulforge2015]

I had a feeling this day would come..

Last night my phone pings while I am in bed trying to get some sleep.

I ignore the fukin thing, however about an hour later I decided to look who messaged me..

It was her, the ex I dumped... She sent a message on Whatsapp, but deleted it.

Whatsapp alerts you that the message has been deleted.

Now I am wondering what the hell the message was, and why she contacted me?

I have to admit.. This girl still plays on my mind a little.. Nothing like some months ago, however I do still miss that sex body of her and that kinky sex lol

I seriously don’t see her as relationship material, but the sex and her attractivenes was like a drug.

I have not bothered to contact her back... And will keep up with solid NC

If you have read this thread, you will see that she used to have this old dude coming over to sleep at her house.

He is a photographer and a pornographer.. He used to take nude pics of my ex.. Also they both had some involvment with pornography.

How many of you would find it acceptable to have some old pornographer stopping over and sleeping at your girlfriends house?

With some time a away from her, I realise now how fuked up this situation was with her.

[dolvioblue]

Christ man no more of this please.

[billclintonnn]

Christ man no more of this please.

Didn’t even knew this thread existed until now, but agreed. OP it’s clear you’re still clinging on just block this bish already and move on.

[Soulforge2015]

Didn’t even knew this thread existed until now, but agreed. OP it’s clear you’re still clinging on just block this bish already and move on.

Well fook knows what she wanted... Maybe Dik.. But I just ignored and NC

[dolvioblue]

Well fook knows what she wanted... Maybe Dik.. But I just ignored and NC

Someone delete this useless thread already. Christ

[DustinTheHuss]

You obviously haven't moved on as you haven't blocked her.

This story is a disaster from Page 1, and it gets worse.

[Soulforge2015]

You obviously haven't moved on as you haven't blocked her.

This story is a disaster from Page 1, and it gets worse.

I didn't need to block her.. Never once have I been tempted to message her or talk to her.

I certainly didn't expect her to contact me.. So blocking never even came to my mind

[DustinTheHuss]

I didn't need to block her.. Never once have I been tempted to message her or talk to her.

I certainly didn't expect her to contact me.. So blocking never even came to my mind

It should.