What absolutely baffles me about women and dating

[Nicklol]

its like a never ending nightmare
the one thing that eludes me in life.
the more I try the more I get rejected.
Now im in a stage where I dont wanna try again cuz Ive wasted too much time and money just to meet a girl and get ghosted 24 hours later. every date this year has been like that

[MagicWater]

you don't have to look like a ******* everywhere you go. I wear fukkin white hanes shirts from wallymart

i love fashion

but I get a billion compliments for how I dress

[Redfish225]

Fuk off.

Dying rn, lmao.

[gibbypoo]

how do those things matter when you don't even get a chance?

I'm a 7.5 and if i approach a 7.5 female at a bar or gym, she will laugh at me instantly. If i was a 5, she would call police on me

then it's not your looks (aka it's your personality, attitude, class, intelligence)

[MrSchons]

Congrats on hitting 1000 posts in a week making the same thread bro

[MagicWater]

its like a never ending nightmare
the one thing that eludes me in life.
the more I try the more I get rejected.
Now im in a stage where I dont wanna try again cuz Ive wasted too much time and money just to meet a girl and get ghosted 24 hours later. every date this year has been like that

if you're getting dates and no 2nd dates, your personality is atrocious

I don't ever get dates but I've dominated the few I've gotten in my life. All wanted to be with me long term but none of them were dating material

[LeoThedude]

Fake news... I'm only maybe a 8/10 on a good day and I get access to some top tier girls. Face is important but what's more important than anything to seal the deal is confidence and personality. Displaying complete confidence in yourself just always seems to get girls going like nothing else. This is a roll bread though so don't know why I'm even trying.

[AK5426]

i love fashion

You know there is a strong correlation of loving fashion and liking a nice clean wenier in your mouth?

[cncman]

Being tall and handsome is a crutch that makes those men weak.
Short men are much more resourceful and highlight their stronger attributes having practiced it all their lives.
Tall people are becoming insecure because they are beginning to realize how beta they are.

Just adaptation

[AlexTheNewbie]

how did you approach her?

any 9/10 has a billion options of 10/10 6+ feet men. Why on god's green earth did she pick you?

Apparently my social skills are on point and I'm good enough of an actor to look like I'm confident. My education is the highest it can be for my country and my face is apparently a 9+/10 (on photofeeler setting it to women <29 y.o. and), plus my body gives me extra points. She wasn't superficial though. I'm a genuine nice guy and care about everyone whilst still looking out for myself and not letting anyone walk all over me. Caring, kind and understanding is what she and her parents would call me.

We met through mutual friends at 15 years old and lost contact because she moved away. Fast forward 4 years later and she hits me up on FB to chat. We instantly fell in love.

I have a new gf now.. but I still kinda miss her, I have to admit.

[DJGirth]

Being tall and handsome is a crutch that makes those men weak.
Short men are much more resourceful and highlight their stronger attributes having practiced it all their lives.
Tall people are becoming insecure because they are beginning to realize how beta they are.

Just adaptation

I know this is a troll post but the cope is off the charts

Try not being an ugly virgin OP

[HockeyBacon18]

1k posts in 15 days


that could be exhibit A why

[lockdev]

Go fuark yourself OP.

Have had numerous IRL 7/10+ girlfriends and I'm an 6/10 manlet.

Fake news/10

[cncman]

I know this is a troll post but the cope is off the charts

Try not being an ugly virgin OP

Negged beta male

[MagicWater]

Apparently my social skills are on point and I'm good enough of an actor to look like I'm confident. My education is the highest it can be for my country and my face is apparently a 9+/10 (on photofeeler setting it to women <29 y.o. and), plus my body gives me extra points. She wasn't superficial though. I'm a genuine nice guy and care about everyone whilst still looking out for myself and not letting anyone walk all over me. Caring, kind and understanding is what she and her parents would call me.

We met through mutual friends at 15 years old and lost contact because she moved away. Fast forward 4 years later and she hits me up on FB to chat. We instantly fell in love.

I have a new gf now.. but I still kinda miss her, I have to admit.

your face is 9/10 and you're pretending like you're somehow at a disadvantage

9/10 face is still top 2% of society even at your midget height

[Ilikebeef]

The problem is that because OPs second sentence is true, logic dictates that his first and 3rd sentences are false.

[LexBrah]

There's a whole world outside of online dating and bars where humans interact with each other

essentially this


but I'd say I'm punching for my wife (shes better looking than I am, I think) not that i'd ever let her know that. But I met her when she was 18 and I was 19 through mutual friends at a house party.

Been with her for 8 years now.

Most other friends I know in long term relationships met at school, through friends, through sports clubs, from living in the same area. Hardly anyone I know has met through a dating app? At least for a relationship that has lasted longer than 3 months.

[DJGirth]

Negged beta male

22.2k posts and a manlet. Sad life. OP try befriending this homo and you might find a spark

[MagicWater]

Go fuark yourself OP.

Have had numerous IRL 7/10+ girlfriends and I'm an 6/10 manlet.

Fake news/10

how? explain yourself

i know you're not approaching women at random places or doing online dating. Are you getting lucky meeting women through daily routine or friends?

[AlexTheNewbie]

your face is 9/10 and you're pretending like you're somehow at a disadvantage

9/10 face is still top 2% of society even at your midget height

Do you really think it's all about the face? I honestly don't think I got to be with her because of it. She valued other things way more I'm sure.

Dang this hit you hard it seems.

[iloveus]

I've completely maximized every part of my life

looks
money - been making six figures since 23, I'm 29
friends - tons of friends
lifestyle - phenomenal lifestyle. Travel constantly - go to the best bars, clubs, restaurants, festivals, concerts, etc...

I dunno what else I can do

Car Salesman Troll is at it again...

[MagicWater]

essentially this


but I'd say I'm punching for my wife (shes better looking than I am, I think) not that i'd ever let her know that. But I met her when she was 18 and I was 19 through mutual friends at a house party.

Been with her for 8 years now.

Most other friends I know in long term relationships met at school, through friends, through sports clubs, from living in the same area. Hardly anyone I know has met through a dating app? At least for a relationship that has lasted longer than 3 months.

mutual friends
school
friends

so basically they got lucky at a young age. I have zero access to any of that. I make friends constantly and nobody knows any single hotties...

[kopikum]

if you think you're 7.5 you're probably closer to a 5

and since you're carsalesman you're a dirty middle eastern so you're a solid 4

[MuzzieChik786]

For one, those 5/10 dudes don't have a personality of a doormat. Perhaps start there opie?

[MagicWater]

Do you really think it's all about the face? I honestly don't think I got to be with her because of it. She valued other things way more I'm sure.

Dang this hit you hard it seems.

yes it is. Women value face more than anything

I'm a 7.5 making 150K a year and its not nearly enough. The problem is a 7.5 is only say top 15% of society. Cute women in their 20s want top 1% of men

[pantiespending]

Such has not been my experience at all, it seems that even at slightly overweight status I have even the most fit and attractive females interested in me... so Much so they’re scared to even engage me...

This has always been how it was for me but I am not sure... the question becomes how can we change this for other men so that they don’t experience this or still have success with women... this is of priority concern to me truly. I want to see other men have success with women and families and I just don’t know how to actualize this yet...

[MagicWater]

if you think you're 7.5 you're probably closer to a 5

and since you're carsalesman you're a dirty middle eastern so you're a solid 4

avg week, i get complimented by random strangers like 3 to 5 times. On face, body, fashion sense, etc...

I go to bars and people always tell me I look great, look jacked, compliment how I dress, etc...

[explosiveMidget]

your face is 9/10 and you're pretending like you're somehow at a disadvantage

9/10 face is still top 2% of society even at your midget height

So close....

[AlexTheNewbie]

yes it is. Women value face more than anything

I'm a 7.5 making 150K a year and its not nearly enough. The problem is a 7.5 is only say top 15% of society. Cute women in their 20s want top 1% of men

On dating sites that may be the case. But show a woman what other qualities you have and you can win her over. My girlfriends all told me that I looked great, but they were really surprised I was such a "nice guy".

Stop telling yourself that you're at a huge disadvantage and make the most of what you have. If I had your mentality, I would've never approached my first gf who was taller than me. We spent 2 years together before I left to see what other women had to offer.

[Evolutionary1]

Research says that most men overrate themselves in terms of attractiveness, and you're balding. So your looks are something I know your not good with. REality check harsh truth get over yourself you bish made pusyy