eHarmony was a bust. Don't waste your money

[US_Ranger]

I legitimately just stopped lifting.

Son......

Get your ass back in the gym

Someone that gets it. Online dating is a waste of time, and studies show it (especially for certain ethnicities). All of my success has always been talking to women IRL.

Unfortunately I've looked at the local sports leagues here and even did Rugby for a bit. Mostly all male and older people. Like 30-40s and mostly white entirely. Fairly mixed area so thats weird, but it is what it is.

I've told you 50 times already. Go to college. Tons of young women, tons of ways to meet them, tons of things to do.

And as you've done 50 times before, you'll make excuses as to why you aren't going to use your GI bill and go to school.

In before "I don't want to give up my career"
In before "I make good money"

No one cares dude. I quit a 6 figure job to use the last of my GI bill and go to school. I'm living like a broke college student again. Zero ****s given. I snowboard when I can, I study day and night, I do yoga, lift and mma. I'm happier now than I was making 6 figures at a job I hated in a place I hated.

Change your fcking life. You're on this planet for 80 years (if you're lucky). 50 of those years are good years. Make use of them. Quit chasing the dollar for some arbitrary reason. Who gives a fck. You're not happy, change things now. School starts in August. That gives you time to apply now for fall semester, figure out your living situation, apply for part time work and get your GI bill stuff in order.

Fck your government clearance. Fck your job. Fck your career prospects. You could do be dead from bleeding out in the middle east. You didn't. Why be unhappy now.

I co-sign these. I've never met a decent woman online. All of them had issues, were not attractive and/or desperate 30-something's looking for a cuck after riding the carousel (srs). I've seen it work but the women weren't great.

Every single decent woman I've met was IRL, mostly sports leagues, social circle and friends of friends.

In 2014/2015 I would have completely disagreed with you. Now I completely agree with you.

I've met a couple awesome women online but holy hell has it changed in the last year or so. That's why I deleted all that crap.

[Theanine]

Yup, it's unreal now. Just chit tier, tried it for one week recently and deleted. Back in 2006-2010 you could find legit HBBs, now it's a cesspool

[deadliftbrah19]

Trevan this lady asked me to link her thread to you:

http://forum.bodybuilding.com/showth...hp?t=173266271

See I've played matchmaker with Lottabody, Silverwildcat and now PamelaHenry for you.

[Shizneen]

I've had the best luck on okcupid and by that, I mean ALMOST meeting women. They loose interest when they find out I'm too broke to have a car, even though I'm in college to make sure I don't end up at a dead-end job like them. I may try okcupid again in a year after college is done and I have a car. Poverty life.

[AWillis]

lol at paying to msg and talk to fake accounts (employees of the company undercover)

real life
tinder
badoo
friends of friends
gym
another hobby

these are your options

[bassinyoface]

DISCLAIMER: I don't care if this Pondus guy is a GOD on this forum (its a fawking online forum people...). Half the time he writes things to try to help people he comes off as condescending, narcissistic fella and a know it all (there are ways to be brutally honest without doing that) and that has and always will be my opinion of him (not trying to start sh!t just being honest)...but if what I have just quoted that he wrote is true then sorry Otaku maybe he is right, and I'll agree with him wholeheartedly!!!!!!

No I pulled very good looking women the first time around and then handed it over to you w/about 15 matches after only a few days of swiping.

The second time that was only after 1 day and you had 6 matches in your area and none "looked" obese and none were ugly. That one I gave you her number had strong ****ing angles and her face was not fat. She was one of the cutest obese women I had ever seen and I'm not even attracted to black chicks. I also had 3 other numbers, but I gave up after how much **** you gave me. Again, that was after 24 HOURS IN YOUR CITY!!!

I got 4/4 numbers that I tried for and I don't even usually try to get numbers on first contact.

and to be real, the more of your stuff I read the more you OOZE negativity. I wish I lived near you so I could help a brother out...but I can't. Respect to this Pondus fella for actually trying to help you (probably had a selfish motivation judging by how he talks about himself and to others) but he still tried at the end of the day

[xvicknumber7x]

I'm visiting otaku in the summer to fix this shiit. Anyone who is with me, please confirm via PM.

[TheJizzler]

I legitimately just stopped lifting

Do explain...

Has your social life exploded or are you just filling those hours with more hentai-watching?

[kjoel007]

I'm visiting otaku in the summer to fix this shiit. Anyone who is with me, please confirm via PM.

Nice of you, but people only change if they want to change. He subconsciously believes he's not good looking enough to meet average-hot women. His brain has too much negative data from his bad experiences, etc, and unless you are with him for at least 3 months... you will fail.

US_Ranger: a lot of passion in your post, but I hope you are not suggesting he go to school just so he can meet women. That is not wise. He/no man should ever do anything for the sake of a woman, otherwise it won't end well. Also giving a 6 figure job... a mistake in my humble opinion.

OP: continue going to gym; among many reasons, we go to the gym because it relives stress and makes us feel good. Also good for our long term health. Nothing to do with women at all. Women should not be a factor in this.

[RExpert77]

I don't get why so many men even try dating sites or apps. Unless you're a 8+/10 good-looking Chad you're just wasting your time and money.

[MajesticLion]

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[Legend1617]

I'm visiting otaku in the summer to fix this shiit. Anyone who is with me, please confirm via PM.

If this ever happens please make a thread about it.

[TacomaLust]

I'm visiting otaku in the summer to fix this shiit. Anyone who is with me, please confirm via PM.

I'm in. Won't fix anything though. Curious to see how he approaches and talks to girls.

[deadliftbrah19]

I'm visiting otaku in the summer to fix this shiit. Anyone who is with me, please confirm via PM.

I thought we were all doing a Misc meet up in Key West, at least that's what psychoslobin said.

I just watched Bad Boys II. Otaku has to follow Will Smith's swag. Will is sexy in that movie!

[xvicknumber7x]

If this ever happens please make a thread about it.

I'm gunna do it and I'll stream it or something, whatever he is comfortable with.

[pondus_levo]

and to be real, the more of your stuff I read the more you OOZE negativity. I wish I lived near you so I could help a brother out...but I can't. Respect to this Pondus fella for actually trying to help you (probably had a selfish motivation judging by how he talks about himself and to others) but he still tried at the end of the day

Um, thanks?

[bassinyoface]

Um, thanks?

essentially I disagree with most everything you say. I don't vocalize it. But in this case I felt I needed to in order to show this guy that maybe HE is really the problem

oh

your welcome

[NumberOneStunna]

So much cringe in this thread. You have 2 choices: 1) Lower your standards or 2) stay single.

You aren't attractive to the women you desire. Nothing wrong with that as long as you accept it as your fate. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results.

[elterrible987]

Many suggested that website and I would say its a total waste of money. Spammed out messages to every single match I had. 2 overweight/obese white girls responded. About 1 to 2 hours in range of me. Suggested lunch after things seemed to go well and they just stopped replying. In short...if you do poorly on other sites and cell phone applications then don't waste your time and raw capital.

Tours over boyo, youve tried everything. You know what time it is. Just have to find a nice spot.

[DoYouEvenNEM]

Fat ugly dumb cousin, who never worked a day in her life, pretty much met this baller executive at a tech company through eHarmony and married him.
Everyone probably laughs behind their backs, especially his back.

[xvicknumber7x]

Fat ugly dumb cousin, who never worked a day in her life, pretty much met this baller executive at a tech company through eHarmony and married him.
Everyone probably laughs behind their backs, especially his back.

If they are both happy, then the joke is most certainly on everyone else.

[elterrible987]

If they are both happy, then the joke is most certainly on everyone else.

this. i mean guys like bill gates was just married to some homely regular bish but then again they never had to give half their chit to a gold digger.

[Konrai]

If they are both happy, then the joke is most certainly on everyone else.

^ This, quite frankly people put WAY TO MUCH importance on physical aesthetics when it comes to a relationship, granted I feel it is important to a degree, none of that really matters if the person you date or marry isn't faithful or makes your day to day life miserable...If that guy is happy with who he married then the opinion of the others is irrelevant unless they actually have legitimate concerns.

[DrFlexologist]

cringey commercials with that old dude, too.

I think I tried it like 10 years ago and found it to be a waste of time

[Nedo]

Fat ugly dumb cousin, who never worked a day in her life, pretty much met this baller executive at a tech company through eHarmony and married him.

If you ask me, either he has a small pen0r or is a minute man

[CaraG73]

I just wanted to share with you guys my most recent experience with eHarmony. It seems like this website has completely changed from what it was five years ago when I tried. To me there are a lot less users on it than before and the people that are on it are much less are sponsored. I think most people are moving towards app-based dating program such as tinder. Although Tinder is supposed to be only for young people looking for hookups, I think that is slowly starting to change as well.

Overall, program such as tinder cost much less money due to the fact that they are applications instead of "full desktop" versions. I have seen this trend with other program such as Photoshop or full Windows/Macintosh versions compared to their cellular counterparts. Applications are simply much cheaper and due to the high prices of eHarmony this is another reason people have slowly been stopping using it. If I was running the company I would drop the prices down to be competitive with current popular dating application prices.

As for me, I will not give this dating platform another try as it is just more disappointing than ever currently. Do you guys agree with me?

[antman12]

I just wanted to share with you guys my most recent experience with eHarmony. It seems like this website has completely changed from what it was five years ago when I tried. To me there are a lot less users on it than before and the people that are on it are much less are sponsored. I think most people are moving towards app-based dating program such as tinder. Although Tinder is supposed to be only for young people looking for hookups, I think that is slowly starting to change as well.

Overall, program such as tinder cost much less money due to the fact that they are applications instead of "full desktop" versions. I have seen this trend with other program such as Photoshop or full Windows/Macintosh versions compared to their cellular counterparts. Applications are simply much cheaper and due to the high prices of eHarmony this is another reason people have slowly been stopping using it. If I was running the company I would drop the prices down to be competitive with current popular dating application prices.

As for me, I will not give this dating platform another try as it is just more disappointing than ever currently. Do you guys agree with me?

lmfao, I just checked the cost after reading your post out of curiosity...

$59.95 a month.......f********k you.

[gericon]

I also didn't have too much luck on eHarmony...