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09-21-2017, 03:53 PM #571
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09-21-2017, 05:23 PM #572
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09-21-2017, 11:37 PM #573
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Theres a chick in my class who i have great chemistry with, i can make her laugh a lot etc. Also i find her very attractive and actually like her personalty wise, which is rare.
I asked her out, but she told me she likes hanging out with me but got out of a bad breakup last year blah blah. I thought it was a bs excuse and i just misread her signs. But she was still willing to go out for drinks. ever since then she had been messaging me more and acting even more flirty, so this was confusing.
So drink nights happen and I end up back at her place and ended up hooking up.
I actually really like her, and she is out of my league. how do i not fuk this up? is gf possible?
i get gf kind of vibes the way she messages me a lot and wants to study with me all the time
planning on just laying back and really trying to not seem like i want a relationship, then hope one day she brings it up-Guitar Shredders Crew-
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09-22-2017, 11:06 AM #574
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09-22-2017, 11:12 AM #575
Have a date tonight with the guy from my home state. He wants to do dinner/drinks, but I'd rather go to a concert. Tonight I'm going to tell him I'd like to take it more slower, hope he's on the same level... Saturday going on a hike with date 2 guy. That's pretty much my weekend. Hope you all have a great weekend!
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09-22-2017, 12:23 PM #576
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09-22-2017, 12:27 PM #577
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09-22-2017, 12:43 PM #578
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09-22-2017, 12:46 PM #579
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09-22-2017, 10:15 PM #580
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09-23-2017, 08:38 PM #581
in an outing with a girl who i worked with on a small project, i was told to ask other girls or other guys out.
she also said she is going to introduce other girls to me.
besides,she said she will ask me to hang out when she is free and when she wants because she is busy,in an angry tone too.
before this outing,she was really receptive of me asking her out to meals and drinks.
she was even offended when i said we should stopped seeing each other after the project ends.i suggested that because she said i am not compatible with her and i was afraid of catching feelings for her,which i am.
she feels it is perfectly fine for girls and boys to see as many people as they want at the same time.
this really boggles my mind :/
how should i proceed?i did try no contact. and she called me out on it for ignoring her.i thought of returning her favour.she threw me a surprise birthday party when i knew her only for a week.Last edited by stu4rt; 09-23-2017 at 08:55 PM.
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09-25-2017, 05:41 AM #582
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09-25-2017, 07:56 AM #583
Update:
The guy I'm feelin' and I went to the concert on Friday. The show was OK, we dance and made out. I told him I was a little slow, he said that was fine.
Went on the hike with the other guy, seemed bored the entire time. Very little eye contact. Didn't make a move either.
Overall good weekend. Still on the app now, talking with a former fat guy that eats clean and works out too. Text game is good so far, we shall see....
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09-25-2017, 01:49 PM #584
first date with new chick
went out for lunch- she ordered first and said she was buying mine as well, never had that happen before.
cane back to my place after, made out but didnt wanna bang
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09-25-2017, 03:01 PM #585
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09-25-2017, 03:13 PM #586
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09-25-2017, 03:56 PM #587
update: been going on 6 months with the new girl I met back in april. Doing great. Makes me wonder how I put up with the dating bull**** for 8+ years. there is so much trash out there. dont let constant rejection from women make you feel worthless. Its hard, I know, been there done that.
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09-26-2017, 06:16 AM #588
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09-26-2017, 05:08 PM #589
- Join Date: Mar 2017
- Location: United Kingdom (Great Britain)
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Update:
So the last few days has been really good for socialising, making plans and meeting new people. Met a super cute Columbian girl at a party last week and she seems really cool. First conversation we ended up talking about salsa dancing and I said I always wanted to try it (semi srs). The next day she text me asking to join her at a salsa class a few day later and that she wanted me to be her partner. Anyways I went along and really enjoyed it, much more so that I could have thought possible. Had lots of close contact with her and other girls due to the ration being approx 4:1 in guys favour and now I'm seriously considering picking it up as a weekly thing, even if its just to expand social circle further.
A few of her friends also came along so we went for drinks and food afterwards and then finished in a salsa bar so we could practise some more. I ended up walking her to her accommodation too which is only a 5min walk away from mine. Only regret is that I did not go in for the kiss when saying goodbye, but things are a bit weird in that regard. She knows about my FWB, which has stopped now due to FWB thinking I slept with someone else and didn't disclose it. (Part of the agreement was that we say if we are sleeping with other people). No idea if playing a bit more cautious is beneficial in this case, but as this has all happened pretty recently I didn't want to come across too heavy so soon. She also asked me to see the new film 'It' at the cinema later in the week, but I have already seen it. I might just go with her and act invincible because I know where all the scary bits are
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Met cute Columbian girl at party, mentioned I wanted to try salsa.
Got her number and next day she asks me to be her partner and attend local salsa class.
Went to salsa, had a really fun time and thought we bonded really well.
Walked her home but didn't go for kiss due to her knowing that my FWB has recently ended. (She knows the girl).
Girl asked me to see 'It' with her at the cinema later in the week. Looking pretty promising!
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09-26-2017, 09:23 PM #590
Maybe someone can offer advice here, I used to be able to flirt and get along well with just about anyone but as of the past few months I just don't have the motivation to flirt. I can't explain it well but I'll be attracted to a girl, talk to her and stop caring and "ghost" or whatever and lose interest. I can't help it but for whatever reason I completely lost all interest but it's weird because my libido is fine and I feel attraction and chemistry but something inside me makes me lose interest.
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09-27-2017, 04:18 PM #591
What advice do people in this thread have regarding meeting girls solo in real life. I only have a few friends so it isn't always practical to go out with them. Am I doomed to fail if I go places on my own and try to meet new girls? I sometimes do reading and writing at a local coffee shop but I basically never see approachable girls to talk to there.
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09-27-2017, 06:18 PM #592
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09-28-2017, 05:05 AM #593
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- Age: 28
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Sounds like you have other things on your mind instead, is there any other areas of your life that are suffering which could be causing this? My libido and success rate always seems to be at its highest when I am happy with everything else in my life at the same time.
I would recommend getting a hobby or use Meetup. You can meet girls by yourself but having a shared interest with them ie hiking, gives some common ground to start the conversation with. Personally I am not a massive fan of meeting people by myself, but I tend to find that the most approachable people for me are in bars/pubs.
Don't tempt it pls.
So I was planning to arrange 2nd date with the Columbian girl and I was thinking of heading to the beach for a walk or mini golf. Which would you say would be the most appropriate?
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09-28-2017, 07:52 AM #594
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09-28-2017, 10:10 AM #595
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09-28-2017, 10:27 AM #596
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09-28-2017, 11:27 AM #597
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09-29-2017, 08:33 AM #598
Small Update: The guy (home state guy) I was crushing hard on is getting quite. Hope he's not about to ghost. He is busy with his job so I hope we can meet up this weekend.
Gym guy said he couldn't meet tonight and wanted to reschedule, seems like a flakey guy. Another guy that has the same music and book taste as me asked me out. I suggested beers downtown.
Wish me luck misc!
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09-29-2017, 04:55 PM #599
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09-29-2017, 05:03 PM #600
This is probably a stupid question, but how do you guys keep a conversation going for hours (in person)?
I mean, I understanding talking about your hobbies, your day ,etc. but after about 15 minutes, I'm at a loss for words.
and asking her questions repeatedly seems like an interrogation.
This is coming from someone with zero success with girls/women (kissless virgin) who's trying to change things for the better.
thanks!!
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