If your girlfriend/wife fcuked another guy behind your back

[cookiefiend]

wait, what if he finds out about the nudes you sent me?

They weren't me, I just googled pictures of beached whales

[TrinnieBuu]

Either you let anger consume you, or you move on.

My last ex "cheated" on me. Dated the guy for a few months, been to his house several times. Had the keys to his house. One day, I got a call, from his wife with whom he has three children with. The house that I thought was where he lived, was just his beach house. I had no idea he was married. Never been played that hard in my life. Call me a cuck, but all I did was send him a screenshot of the 30 minute phone call with his wife. And left his keys on his kitchen counter. Haven't spoken or responded to anything he said in 3 years.

I really think if I spent enough time being angry to actually plot out how to take revenge, I'd still be angry.

[DDSF1]

Either you let anger consume you, or you move on.

My last ex "cheated" on me. Dated the guy for a few months, been to his house several times. Had the keys to his house. One day, I got a call, from his wife with whom he has three children with. The house that I thought was where he lived, was just his beach house. I had no idea he was married. Never been played that hard in my life. Call me a cuck, but all I did was send him a screenshot of the 30 minute phone call with his wife. And left his keys on his kitchen counter. Haven't spoken or responded to anything he said in 3 years.

I really think if I spent enough time being angry to actually plot out how to take revenge, I'd still be angry.

You did the right thing. Good job.

[DDSF1]

My ex fiance was a police officer that was banging her supervisor. He was married with 2 kids. Her and I bought a house together and I was like a father to her daughter. Found out I was babysitting her daughter while she was out f**king this guy.

Called his supervisor out of rage. Ended up being his buddy and never went anywhere. Womp womp. This was a decade ago. I just say move on.

I hope it worked out financially for you with the house, etc

[cookiefiend]

I really think if I spent enough time being angry to actually plot out how to take revenge, I'd still be angry.

This is what it comes down to really. If there's something immediately obvious to do that might briefly help you feel better, like chucking all the chit that they've left at your house on the lawn, fking do it.

But to sit around trying to figure out how to get Justice is probably just going to make things worse.

[MuzzieChik786]

I wouldn't call it a threat exactly, not like he says, "remember, don't cheat or I'll kill you" on his way out the door every morning lmao.

We've just discussed it enough for be to know what the likely outcome or possible range of outcomes would be. If cheating was something I could do accidentally, or if it could happen to me as such, id be worried, but since I know I have the choice and I'm not going to it's a non-issue.

I understand. But still unsettling. I know for a fact that my husband wouldn't kill me for any offense. He'd just leave.

I'd do the same thing. Even if I caught him red-handed, cheating. I'd do a 180, walk out of the house and never hear/talk with him again. My things would be picked up by friends/family and the rest would be handled by a third-party court mediator (I'd not even go to court tbh).

They weren't me, I just googled pictures of beached whales

Epic. lol.

[chickenbroccoli]

NC is beta.

Withdrawal money from her bank account and go to the strip club/whore house and have the time of your life.

[cookiefiend]

NC is beta.

Withdrawal money from her bank account and go to the strip club/whore house and have the time of your life.

I thought you were all good with cheating?

[chickenbroccoli]

I thought you were all good with cheating?

Only in preliminary stages of relationships where expectations are not established.

Most guys are too scared to set expectations for women. This is why they go NC after being "cheated on." Because they never stood for anything and have nothing to say.

[1slo5oh]

You are a woman, but you are a vicious one.

Well you cant treat it the same way you would fk with one of your Bro's.... you have to think of the bitchiest , eye scratching, hair pulling , vindictive, petty $hit women would do to one another to really dig deep into their brain. Calling her cocksucker would just be a true statement... most women admit to being bitches.... so... as I said... psychological warfare... think like the enemy.

[DolphinPilot]

I dunno, I always thought it was just wasted effort trying to get back at someone for cheating. You're really not going to change anything and sure it will feel better, but you won't really look any better, compared to her.

There really are no repercussions for cheating anymore, mostly because people in general don't think cheating is really all that bad, so any sort of justice you seek or enact will only make you look like the bad person in the situation. It sucks and I agree it's chitty to just let it go, but that's the way it is these days.

I mean, your reason for wanting to get them back for cheating boils down to your feelings of being humiliated by others who witnessed it, right?

I'd do the same thing. Even if I caught him red-handed, cheating. I'd do a 180360, walk out of the house and never hear/talk with him again.

fixed for you. I'll give a pass this time but if I see you doing that chit again I swear...

[CrimsonSteel]

Why even feed into it? Just live better.

(And post about how slooty sloots are getting and how Chaddy Chads are getting on Misc.)

[Jormund]

Walk away and be happy. That is a revenge. Don't pull a War Machine on her, because there is no reason to destroy your life because of someone that cheated on you.

[jaygee15]

Girlfriend= move on, nc

wife = but who was hosea and gomer

[TinyTtinyA]

lol i smashed her best friend

how long until she found out?

[AestheticIWIN]

That's pretty scary yo. A death threat if you cheat. Yikes!

Agreed on the beat the chit outta you part. THAT you would deserve, death though... seems extreme.

Here's a thought, if you want to fuk someone else, at least have the bare minimum decency to BREAK UP WITH YOUR PARTNER FIRST (or immediately after the cheating wasn't pre-planned). There is no justification for fuking someone else while you are in a committed relationship/marriage. To do so, is effectively wanting to have your cake and eat it to. It's selfish, despicable, immoral behaviour that should be treated as such. Sharia law has it right in this regard, someone commits adultery, stone that btch to death (man or woman).

[chickenbroccoli]

wife = but who was hosea and gomer

Aware

[MuzzieChik786]

fixed for you. I'll give a pass this time but if I see you doing that chit again I swear...

360 would put you back in the spot you started you big dork.

I win. Give me chocolates!

Here's a thought, if you want to fuk someone else, at least have the bare minimum decency to BREAK UP WITH YOUR PARTNER FIRST (or immediately after the cheating wasn't pre-planned). There is no justification for fuking someone else while you are in a committed relationship/marriage. To do so, is effectively wanting to have your cake and eat it to. It's selfish, despicable, immoral behaviour that should be treated as such. Sharia law has it right in this regard, someone commits adultery, stone that btch to death (man or woman).

I agree. I just think being in fear for your life isn't cool either.

Aware

Aware too.

Hosea was a cuck though. But he knew what he was getting into.

[AutistTrigger]

Arrow to the knee

[cookiefiend]

I agree. I just think being in fear for your life isn't cool either.

Not in fear, nothing to be afraid of if you're not planning on cheating

Arrow to the knee

Lel

[Clinos]

Only in preliminary stages of relationships where expectations are not established.

Most guys are too scared to set expectations for women. This is why they go NC after being "cheated on." Because they never stood for anything and have nothing to say.

Why do you have to set expectations for your girl such as, "Don't have any other naked dicks around or in you" or get to the point that she has to tell you "Don't stick your dick into anyone else" as the basis for a relationship?

You yutes are all mixed up.

[chickenbroccoli]

Why do you have to set expectations for your girl such as, "Don't have any other naked dicks around or in you" or get to the point that she has to tell you "Don't stick your dick into anyone else" as the basis for a relationship?

You yutes are all mixed up.

Naked, as in unprotected, is not acceptable. But if you don't make any commitment to a women, why shouldn't she find someone who repects her and will commit? Expectations come with commitment.

[Clinos]

Naked, as in unprotected, is not acceptable. But if you don't make any commitment to a women, why shouldn't she find someone who repects her and will commit? Expectations come with commitment.

Holy Sht you're dumber than Strawhat.

[cookiefiend]

Holy Sht you're dumber than Strawhat.

Pretty sure he's trolling at this point. In other threads he's said cheating is ok if not married. There seems to be no consistency. And lol at the idea of sleeping with someone else being ok but posting on the misc is a no-no.

[chickenbroccoli]

Holy Sht you're dumber than Strawhat.

My gf is smoking hot and vowed to always stay true to me. She is also extremely respectful of me because I gave her the commitment she needs to feel secure. I will say what I'm doing is working.

Oh, and she has many friends IRL and would never feel the need to fill an empty void by posting on the misc. She's a proper lady.

[stickjump]

If I only knew her for a few weeks or months, I'd probably just walk away. But if I seriously knew this chick for years, and and knew her family, then I'd probably aware her parents before going nc. I'd tell them something like "hey sorry I can't be your son in law, your daughter cheated on me. cya".

[Clinos]

My gf is smoking hot and vowed to always stay true to me. She is also extremely respectful of me because I gave her the commitment she needs to feel secure. I will say what I'm doing is working.

Oh, and she has many friends IRL and would never feel the need to fill an empty void by posting on the misc. She's a proper lady.

I'll bite for a bit.

You don't give someone a commitment, you maintain the commitment. The other party places their faith in you honoring your commitment. I'm starting to see why so many of these new relationships are rife with failure, cheaters, and promises to 'delete' Tinder.


pics of the loyal Amish woman please

[chickenbroccoli]

I'll bite for a bit.

You don't give someone a commitment, you maintain the commitment. The other party places their faith in you honoring your commitment. I'm starting to see why so many of these new relationships are rife with failure, cheaters, and promises to 'delete' Tinder.


pics of the loyal Amish woman please

Right, but you didn't mention a commitment is established first. What is important emotionally, financially, and spiritually needs to be expressed and communicated first. Otherwise everything is left for guessing.

I will post pics when I'm not on my cell and rushing off somewhere.

[MediocreGains]

You're right in that the desire for revenge is very much a part of human nature. Sam Harris and Robert Sapolsky talk about it here around the 56:30 mark:



But when you decide to get revenge on a cheating sloot, all you're generally doing is wasting your time and showing her and the world that she is still the center of your world. As everyone has already pointed out, moving on and quickly is generally the best form of revenge. Make it known to her how well you've moved on if you want to get a bit petty, such as showing up with a younger and prettier girl in one of her spots. Anything more than that though is a lot of time and effort wasted for little gain.

That is... unless you can smash her sister, best friend, and/or mother. In that case you'll be getting your revenge and fulfilling one of the great male fantasies. Win win scenario. You'd be doing what you wanted to in the first place, except now you wouldn't have any loyalty obligations to hold you back.

[DolphinPilot]

360 would put you back in the spot you started you big dork.

I win. Give me chocolates!