Tinder Thread Part X: To match, or not to match. That is the question

[American Psycho]

can you post a pic of your face pls? srs

just curious to see if you are a hbb

These are my first two profile pics (cropped here )



What do I score?

[ArCaNe66]

These are my first two profile pics (cropped here )

[Img]http://i.imgur.com/V8STxk9l.jpg[img]

What do I score?

hnnnnngggggggghhhhhhhhhh


bitcoin and chill? haha


also, more pics of Stefanie? hnngghh

[American Psycho]

Anybody have something clever for the girl that said maybe?

also, more pics of Stefanie? hnngghh

[ArCaNe66]

Anybody have something clever for the girl that said maybe?


[Img]http://imgur.com/R6dAzfQl.jpg [img]

ffffffffuuark. very nice

[JamesMUSCLE]

Anyone elses Tinder not working? it won't let me login. tried uninstalling and reinstalling. Still won't work.

[sneffyo]

Im supposed to meet up with a 7/10 today, no netflix, just bang the minute I walk in the door. Said im on a schedule and dont have time for netflix, just chill. Might be the weirdest encounter ever lmao

[American Psycho]

Im supposed to meet up with a 7/10 today, no netflix, just bang the minute I walk in the door. Said im on a schedule and dont have time for netflix, just chill. Might be the weirdest encounter ever lmao

No talking, just dominate her

[sneffyo]

Manhandle a total stranger the minute she opens the door. Leave without ever saying a word. Now that would make for a good story.

But on a srs note, do anyone use a condom if shes on the pill?

Was supposed to quote^

[YouAreAllLiars]

Advice? Suggestions? Only 5 matches in a week, 2 of which were bots, none were the hot ones I'd want lol

[AwkwrdBrazilian]

Advice? Suggestions? Only 5 matches in a week, 2 of which were bots, none were the hot ones I'd want lol

Re-make account, reduce amount of pictures, and act more douchey.

Srs, works.

[goodcupcakes]

fak aussie miscers wutdo

[YouAreAllLiars]

Re-make account, reduce amount of pictures, and act more douchey.

Srs, works.

what you mean fam?

[American Psycho]

[img]http://i.imgur.com/zJJvOJM.png[/img




fak aussie miscers wutdo

Keep it short and escalate

[cls91]

Manhandle a total stranger the minute she opens the door. Leave without ever saying a word. Now that would make for a good story.

But on a srs note, do anyone use a condom if shes on the pill?

Was supposed to quote^

Please don't be stupid and think pregnancy is the only reason for wearing condoms...

[ToiletTerrorr]

Using 5 of my best pics out and not getting no matches, not sure what's up, I'm tall and each showcase my fashion style which is my best feature I think in every pic not sure what's up.

[Sway12]

Using 5 of my best pics out and not getting no matches, not sure what's up, I'm tall and each showcase my fashion style which is my best feature I think in every pic not sure what's up.

Let's see?

[Aaronza]

fak aussie miscers wutdo

Ask the sheila if she is available to come round for a piss up followed by a root for tucker

[Jack101]

Advice? Suggestions? Only 5 matches in a week, 2 of which were bots, none were the hot ones I'd want lol

Get tinder bonfire app and mass like girls.

Your body is like an 8 misc standards 9 IRL standards because you'll stand out from non lifters.

Face is a 7. That with BBC you should be raking it in.

[Sway12]

These are my first two profile pics (cropped here )



What do I score?

[goodcupcakes]

Ask the sheila if she is available to come round for a piss up followed by a root for tucker

[Jack101]

These are my first two profile pics (cropped here )



What do I score?

You kinda look like Lord Farquad in the picture on the right (semi srs)

[American Psycho]

Get tinder bonfire app and mass like girls.

Your body is like an 8 misc standards 9 IRL standards because you'll stand out from non lifters.

Face is a 7. That with BBC you should be raking it in.

**** off with this cuck mentality. Don't believe the media lies

You kinda look like Lord Farquad in the picture on the right (semi srs)

I get Adam Livine from Maroon 5 and used to get the guy from MIB (not Will Smith)
Also Justin Theroux from Mulhall and Dr


This girls next message was the morning after said oh so you're not trying to murder me!

Also got a feeling Stefanie is from this thread lol

[LegendKill3r]

Does restarting your profile no longer work? I deleted my profile and remade it 2 days ago and haven't got a single match.

Edit: just used flame and it showed me a person that liked me and just to test it I liked her back and we matched.

Is it still recommended to use autolikers?

Also for anyone that wants to use tinder on their computer download Tinder++.

Also what do you guys prefer between tinder and okcupid? I was more of an okcupid guy before but there's so many weird chicks on there so I deleted it. If I could just get matches again like the old days on tinder that'd be nice.

I tried bumble too but deleted it. There's so many more fake profiles on there. I'll wait till that app gets hot.

[SugarFree1]

Also what do you guys prefer between tinder and okcupid? I was more of an okcupid guy before but there's so many weird chicks on there.

Why does it have to be one or the other, use both. Shoot use multiple sites. Some sites/apps I liked more then others but have had nice dates from each.

[MetroBrah]

Dated a girl I met from Tinder exclusively for about the past 5 months thanks to help from this thread. We went to six flags, I met her mother, held her nephew and spent the night at her sister and brother-in-laws house several times. All november (right after we had a wonderful halloween including all her nieces and nephews) she pretty much went cold. Barely heard from her at all. Last night she broke up with me. Guess she got bored or something. Just thought id share....redownloaded Tinder this morning so I guess im back in the game. This time im setting up a truly real profile. I don't want a million matches, just a few highly targeted ones that might come through. That's my new strategy being back.

[LegendKill3r]

Bout tinder plus to see if it'll give me a better shot at getting matches. Just for a month and I'll cancel unless it really gives me a good boost.

[LegendKill3r]

Why does it have to be one or the other, use both. Shoot use multiple sites. Some sites/apps I liked more then others but have had nice dates from each.

I used both together but okcupid just had way less hot women on there and more weird and ugly ones. I preferred how you could just message chicks on there without matching them but most of the hot ones have full inboxes or just down respond even when you match with them. And you have to have a good detailed profile otherwise chicks won't give you the time of day. So much self entitlement on there even with the ugly super whales on there. Just said **** it and deleted my account and went back to tinder. It seems like most chicks just use tinder. way more better looking chicks on tinder anyway.

[LegendKill3r]

So I take it restarting profiles no longer works?

[LegendKill3r]

Re-make account, reduce amount of pictures, and act more douchey.

Srs, works.

I had 5 pictures but just reduced them to two so hopefully this works

[Hailceasar]

If she has or has had it in the past for over about a month then yes, that's EXACTLY what it means. It doesn't necessarily mean she's a sloot (she could just be a serial monogamist who ditches guys as soon as a bigger, better deal comes along) , it DOES mean she's not long term relationship material, because it indicates she's embraced her hypergamous nature, as opposed to suppressing it which is what relationship material girls do.

Once you understand female hypergamy and how the women that are worth any serious commitment are, at least in part, a little disturbed by their own nature and try to exhibit as much self control as possible over it due to a rational understanding that, were she to completely unleash her most primal nature, it would be self destructive.

So what you'll find is that women that are worth a serious, long term, committed relationship will either:

- Not be interested in tinder at all, they want to meet the man they'll love and be totally committed to ORGANICALLY, because if she meets him through a social circle, or work, or a chance meeting during her daily errands, that is (or appears to be) less contrived than a cold approach in a bar/club it doesn't present her with the same conundrum that feeds into her most primal hypergamous desires and makes her uncomfortable (ie. if all these guys want me, then maybe an even BETTER guy wants me)

- Jump on tinder due to social pressure/hype and hate it, either immediately when she feels guys start competing for her and is presented with a paradox of choice, or after 1 or 2 dates. ergo she'll be on tinder for less than a month.

A woman that completely embraces her unabated hypergamy and has a constant need to trade up, something that tinder completely caters for, is the equivalent to a man that can't control his inner most nature and will phuck any attractive girl that offers (often raw), regardless of the consequences. Both are bad bets for long term relationships.

So much misogyny and delusion in this post especially the bolded sentence. Brah you seldom post some wisdom ITT but you come across as someone who has experienced a lot of rejection both in real life and online. Women and Men ditching people for a better looking, fitter, and more successful prospect has been happening since the mediaeval times, before tinder and it will still continue when tinder has come and gone.

I fear you are instilling this defeated and misogynistic mentality in a lot of these young readers mind. You have to bare in mind that you may have had a completely different experience with women than a lot of people on here, so when you get on that keyboard to type you posts..think for a second that there are billions of men and women on this planet and we are not all the same. The sweeping generalisation that most women (esp those who are on tinder) are worthless horrible sloots is very narrow minded and ludicrous.

What you should be encouraging folks to do is how to better and improve themselves in order for these said 'sloots' not to ditch them. If a girl is leaving a guy for another bloke, then you have to check yourself. What do I have to do better? Self improvement is very underrated in the misc, yet its a body building website..Not only aesthetically, but success in life, career, status, experience, exposure etc. If all you do is lift and go drinking at your local bar scene every weekend then why the heck will she stick with you. Do you have any stories to tell apart from your drunken nights and disorderly behaviours with the boys? Do you have any travel stories, interesting hobbies, or achievement that will fascinate women? Do you show some charisma and portray confidence when you are with women? This all again comes down to self improvement. Do you dress and smell nice when you go out on dates? When was the last time a girl told you with genuine smile on her face, that she likes your outfit or you smell good within 2 minutes into your date? These little things matter. Its not always about wealth and money, some women want more than that. No one wants to date or be with a loser. There are exceptions to all these of course, (fame) but they are few and far between.

Contradictory, you are the same person that post on here about how you are competing with well travelled, well dressed Sydney guys in top shape. Have you ever asked yourself why those girls rather pick those guys over you? Yes, you are in an open marriage so you are at a disadvantage but even though you are single you'd still be confronted by the same competition and I doubt the results would be much different. Are you one of those that think every guy in top shape spends all their lives in the gym and doesn't have a successful career? Again that's an impression I gather from some of your posts. If that's the case then that's another case of delusion..It takes a lot of self discipline and dedication to be in top shape and those skills and attributes are transferable to careers and day to day life activities.

This is not a rant against you whatsoever, I am just trying to bring some positivity in here. I hope to God this will help some of the readers.