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06-09-2015, 06:54 AM #61
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06-09-2015, 06:54 AM #62
Wait she's 29 and a virgin?? Filipinos are religious but I mean...they aren't puritans from 1600's. I cannot believe they have only kissed and he wants to fuking marry her.
Worst case:
-Ladyboy who sees young sailor as the golden ticket to America and human ATM for her most probably broke-ass family back in the philippines, somehow convinces him she's a virgin at 29 and only lets him kiss her.
Best case:
-Non-sloot ultra-religious female (that he met where? at a club or bar? lul) who looks like a tranny.
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06-09-2015, 06:56 AM #63
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06-09-2015, 06:56 AM #64
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06-09-2015, 06:57 AM #65
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06-09-2015, 06:59 AM #66
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06-09-2015, 07:00 AM #67
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06-09-2015, 07:05 AM #68
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06-09-2015, 07:05 AM #69
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06-09-2015, 07:06 AM #70
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06-09-2015, 07:07 AM #71
Well, you have probably planted a seed of suspicion if he suddenly went NC on you. Rightfully suspicious, btw.. This isn't a matter to be taken lightly, so hopefully he treads more carefully now. He's probably doing this.
"OP is crazy. Dinklady is perfect in every way"
"But taht is weird about that green card thing"
"And why is she taking such slutty pics if she's a Virgin"
"Man but OP wouldn't tell me this unless he was really concerned-!but NO! It has to be a girl cause I kissed her and I ain't gay!"
"Maybe I should ask my dinklady more questions before I talk to OP again"
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06-09-2015, 07:07 AM #72
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06-09-2015, 07:10 AM #73
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06-09-2015, 07:14 AM #74
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i've known this guy for 20 years, and he's never gone straight NC on me like that. We've had fights where we have our cooling off periods, but for him to do this, and not come back shows he's in some deep thought, and rightfully so. He's way too stupid with women, I've seen him cheated on, verbally abused (manlet time), disregarded, and just keeps on coming back. One part of me hopes he'll listen, but another part of me knows he's a stubborn SOB who wont learn until he has a d1nk resting on his forehead.
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06-09-2015, 07:16 AM #75
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That's the point if I can help you to avoid something catastrophic I will. It is my duty as not only a friend, but a human being. You and I are complete strangers, but If I saw a nail under your tire I'd tell you, instead of letting you pull off only to be stranded down the road. He's better than this...he deserves better.
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06-09-2015, 07:18 AM #76
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06-09-2015, 07:20 AM #77
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06-09-2015, 07:21 AM #78
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06-09-2015, 07:24 AM #79
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Nope, because as far as I know he's never been entertained at the thought of shoving a spring roll down his throat.
I started becoming more intrusive with the questioning, and he dipped... I asked him if he thought not even seeing her(naked) or not progressing with the intimacy threw off any red flags, and that's when he went NC.
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06-09-2015, 07:26 AM #80
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06-09-2015, 07:34 AM #81
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Dude, he's your bro. If he doesn't have a strong father figure in his life there's really noone else thats going to be straight to him about his potential phuck-ups.
Don't tell us this chit How is that going to help him? Everything in this thread you should be telling him. Just give it to him straight. Hell, even if it was guaranteed that she was a chick, why is he in such a rush to marry her/him/it.
If he's only stationed there, I doubt he's known him/her/it for no more than 6 months. Thats not enough time to marry someone even if she was a legitimate hot chick.
If he wants to marry that he seems like one desperate schmuck. TBH, this really isn't funny because this can potentially ruin his entire life.
and if he's dead-set on marrying this "thing" then you should at least tell him to postpone until he knows more about "he/she/it" Its not like we're living in the 1940's and he'll never see him/her/it again, there's phone texting and the internet. There's really no rush here.
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06-09-2015, 07:39 AM #82
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06-09-2015, 07:41 AM #83
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I'm not laughing, and I have told him this, I just know how he is, and I needed to keep him level enough to get it out. One I pushed he dropped straight off. I'm gonna give it a few hours, and send him a note...He's in a rush because the dude has never had anything resembling "love" and he wants it more than anything. Most of our conversations are about failed relationship matters. I think he's blinded because for the first time he feels in control of his relationship. It's going where he wants, and that's marriage. His father is around, but to be honest he's probably one of the biggest pushovers you'll ever meet. His mother is queen b1tch and I mean this with the utmost sincerity. She left his father after 40 years of marriage (once he got laid off from Ford) and immediately shacked up with another man. I hope what we did talk about resonates and he actually puts some thought into it. Schmuck is a good word...He joined the navy because he needed to get away...he was running, and this is what happens when you run.
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06-09-2015, 07:42 AM #84
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06-09-2015, 07:45 AM #85
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Wait he is about to marry someone he has never had sex with? Even if that is a dude the worst part of this story is how much of a loser he is.
Skepticism is the chastity of the intellect, and it is shameful to surrender it too soon or to the first comer: there is nobility in preserving it coolly and proudly through long youth, until at last, in the ripeness of instinct and discretion, it can be safely exchanged for fidelity and happiness
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06-09-2015, 07:48 AM #86
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06-09-2015, 07:51 AM #88
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06-09-2015, 07:51 AM #89
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It really depends...Cali Asians will literally fuk anything. The Asians I see up here wont even look at you unless you're [insert Asian country here]. He's also 5'4", so it's not like he's some imposing presence you can't ignore. It's something fuked up here, and I don't want to put my finger on it.
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06-09-2015, 07:52 AM #90
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