Getting married in T-Minus 9 days.

**Dave P** · 03-26-2015, 10:54 AM

Originally Posted by YouMadOrMirin

Getting nervous OP? Is this gonna be you? lol

[img]http://www.gtvibes.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/Runaway-Groom-400x301.jpg[mg]

Nah, in all honesty we are both kinda just wanting the whole thing to be over with.

Tired about talking about the colors of the bows on the chairs, and the flower girls basket not being big enough, and all the stupid sh!t her mom obsesses about.

**1quick1** · 03-26-2015, 10:54 AM

Stay safe brah.

From my friends and families experiences things don't sound like they'll change after marriage. Most say it's stays the same.

But holy hell just wait til you have a kid. They say that's when your life becomes totally different and for many when the problems started coming. You'll no longer be the most important thing in her life. Your thoughts, feelings, and opinions all come a far 2nd place to her perceived thoughts and ideas for the kid. That poker night you go to on Tuesday nights with the boys will start becoming a point of resentment since you're not putting in the same time and energy to the kid that she is. Then if you divorce that awesome chick that was your best friend will rape you in court in favor of the kid.

Not against marriage crew
But not having kids crew

**GThreeHM** · 03-26-2015, 10:54 AM

Originally Posted by Dave P

Not really concerned.

If we ever do get divorced it would be pretty clean, she is an RN and makes just short of 6 figures. Not like she is a broke housewife or anything.

an RN that makes short of 6 figures? u wot? she better be a traveling nurse to make that money.

**Gsxr25** · 03-26-2015, 10:55 AM

Hope you enjoyed your stay on the MISC. RIP Dave P

Originally Posted by GThreeHM

an RN that makes short of 6 figures? u wot? she better be a traveling nurse to make that money.

That's what almost all RN's make out here in CA.

**Josh81** · 03-26-2015, 10:55 AM

getting marriage license @ city hall in a week, very discreet, only wife and her best friend and my parents will be there

in one year will renew vows and have the whole big thing,and a 3 day cruise honeymoon

just feels right having her in my family now, and i don't feel the need to have a huge costly event to impress people i hate because its "just what you do"

**adiadi** · 03-26-2015, 10:56 AM

OP, is she a big fan of your Story time with Dave P series??

**ZMAg** · 03-26-2015, 10:56 AM

Originally Posted by Dave P

The difference is I have been 21.

You've never been 31.

I remember being all staunchly against marriage and how much it was a outdated institution blah blah

I know brah, I know :] let me be a naive 21 year old for awhile

**Hemunit** · 03-26-2015, 10:57 AM

Congrats OP! Just remember, the first year is the hardest! After that, it's a blast!

been married since 10/23/10,

no ragrets

**1quick1** · 03-26-2015, 10:57 AM

Originally Posted by GThreeHM

an RN that makes short of 6 figures? u wot? she better be a traveling nurse to make that money.

When I worked at a hospital in Ohio (keep in mind cost of living is nothing there)

Nurses made more than:

Cops
Teachers
Firefighters
Me

and was just about the only jobs available.

**TradeKing** · 03-26-2015, 10:58 AM

Originally Posted by Retoaded

shhhh this is the misc. the 21 year olds here know everything there is to know about life, cars, investing, love, and women.

Actually the biggest age demographic of ppl I know who are against marriage are usually 40+ yr old guys who are in a marriage or divorced. They always tell me "kid never get married, its just not worth it."

**Dave P** · 03-26-2015, 10:59 AM

Originally Posted by GThreeHM

an RN that makes short of 6 figures? u wot? she better be a traveling nurse to make that money.

She has a pediatric specialty, and almost hits 100k if you include her overtime.

**HazemJ93** · 03-26-2015, 10:59 AM

RIP.

Not srs. Congrats OP

**TobleroneLifts** · 03-26-2015, 11:00 AM

What's with the people bashing him for getting married? Not cool guys.

Marriage isn't for everyone and people shouldn't get married by default just because society expects them to. However, if someone chooses to get married because that's what will make them happy then they should.

Congrats OP. I hope you and your soon-to-be-wife enjoy many happy years together.

**GThreeHM** · 03-26-2015, 11:00 AM

Originally Posted by Dave P

She has a pediatric specialty, and almost hits 100k if you include her overtime.

Mind blown. I currently work in a hospital and I know none of them make that unless they're a traveling nurse.

That's bonkers. Good on her!

**EoR** · 03-26-2015, 11:00 AM

You married a successful women, that means she has options so you must be presenting something pretty valuable too. You seem level headed, good luck and hopefully you can have a family and stay together.

**PolishPhenom** · 03-26-2015, 11:02 AM

See you in the relationship help section in 4 years.

**randomguy2323** · 03-26-2015, 11:02 AM

how long you been together?

**Dave P** · 03-26-2015, 11:05 AM

Originally Posted by adiadi

OP, is she a big fan of your Story time with Dave P series??

She would probably be disturbed if she had to read the nitty gritty details like in the story thread but she is aware of all of it, I was pretty upfront early in our relationship about how fcked up my past was.

She has heard alot of the stories, but obviously reading them in detail would probably upset her.

**Xplicit_Mindz** · 03-26-2015, 11:06 AM

Married for 6 years..........*Divorced crew checking in*

**randomguy2323** · 03-26-2015, 11:07 AM

Originally Posted by randomguy2323

how long you been together?

this

**2StepsFromHell** · 03-26-2015, 11:08 AM

Originally Posted by Dave P

Because I want kids

Why?

**Dave P** · 03-26-2015, 11:09 AM

Originally Posted by randomguy2323

how long you been together?

It will be 5 years on April 1st.

Living together for 2

**Josh81** · 03-26-2015, 11:10 AM

Originally Posted by Dave P

She would probably be disturbed if she had to read the nitty gritty details like in the story thread but she is aware of all of it, I was pretty upfront early in our relationship about how fcked up my past was.

She has heard alot of the stories, but obviously reading them in detail would probably upset her.

being upfront and putting it all out there was the best choice i made, either wife material or just another sloot i'd never talk to again

**Drufeus** · 03-26-2015, 11:10 AM

Congrats OP. Happily married miscer checking in. Trying to have kid 1 at the moment. Wheres the honeymoon?

**Soonerjohn** · 03-26-2015, 11:10 AM

How does she feel about video games?

**Flakker** · 03-26-2015, 11:11 AM

Congrats OP. Marriage is great. You'll do well.

**5x10** · 03-26-2015, 11:12 AM

Grats man(as long as the anal stool is still in use)

**Dave P** · 03-26-2015, 11:12 AM

Originally Posted by Drufeus

Congrats OP. Happily married miscer checking in. Trying to have kid 1 at the moment. Wheres the honeymoon?

Actually going to do the yes-man and go to the airport and take the first flight out to wherever we end up, not pack anything and just go.

100% SRS

**shc99** · 03-26-2015, 11:13 AM

Originally Posted by TradeKing

Some of us dont need a legal document to have a solid relationship.

And then some of us are beta,like OP.

repped

**Dave P** · 03-26-2015, 11:13 AM

Originally Posted by Soonerjohn

How does she feel about video games?

I have a 55" TV on top of a 70" TV so she can watch TV while I play PS4 and I put a couch in the office so if I'm PC gaming she can lay down and bullsh!t with me if she wants.

She is cool with it.

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