What would you prefer?

[DavidWebbFk]

Was on ma mind for a while now,

I lost 15kg over the last 6 months and dropped from 20% to 12-13%.
Facial aesthetics improved as fuark, cheekbones peaking and all.

Heres the social dillema:

Before shredding I was frigging familyzoned (not even freindzoned mane), by like erry girl I came across. There was only this one chick who has liked me regardless of me bulking or me now, but she's like a 3-4/10 misc. standard.

Now that I'm all shredded and ****e, all these 7-8/10 girls who previously FRIENDZONED me and tryna hit me up and all, and now that I've started med school it's gotten worse.

But the question is, who would the misc go for?
The 3-4/10 girl who appreciates you despite your weight.
Or the 8-9/10 who want's you as soon as you get shredded?

[JarlaxleMD]

Was on ma mind for a while now,

I lost 15kg over the last 6 months and dropped from 20% to 12-13%.
Facial aesthetics improved as fuark, cheekbones peaking and all.

Heres the social dillema:

Before shredding I was frigging familyzoned (not even freindzoned mane), by like erry girl I came across. There was only this one chick who has liked me regardless of me bulking or me now, but she's like a 3-4/10 misc. standard.

Now that I'm all shredded and ****e, all these 7-8/10 girls who previously FRIENDZONED me and tryna hit me up and all, and now that I've started med school it's gotten worse.

But the question is, who would the misc go for?
The 3-4/10 girl who appreciates you despite your weight.
Or the 8-9/10 who want's you as soon as you get shredded?

You know, some on MISC might accuse the latter women to be superficial or shallow, but some of them might be more attracted by your drive and determination to change more so than the actual result, so it's important to find out from among them who is interested in just your results and who is interested by the character qualities that led to those results.

[bikes4u]

Not enough info. What does the 3/10 have going for her? you don't want to be with an 8 if she's a leach with nothing going for her.

I fell in love with a chick who wasn't exactly what I was looking for appearance wise and didn't lift, she had goals, great attitude, fun, big $.

[DavidWebbFk]

Not enough info. What does the 3/10 have going for her? you don't want to be with an 8 if she's a leach with nothing going for her.

I fell in love with a chick who wasn't exactly what I was looking for appearance wise and didn't lift, she had goals, great attitude, fun, big $.

Similar disposition, her personality is friggin great, she has inspirations (medical or something simillar). She's extremely caring even if she is a bit bland compared to those 8-9/10s who keep you on your toes all the time.

[bikes4u]

Similar disposition, her personality is friggin great, she has inspirations (medical or something simillar). She's extremely caring even if she is a bit bland compared to those 8-9/10s who keep you on your toes all the time.

Like they say Love is blind. I had this girl start walking and get her diet straight and she lost some weight, was always pretty. Before I knew it I was in love and thought there could be nobody better for me.

Does she motivate, support and inspire you to progress in your life? This is probably one of the most important aspects of a relationship. You don't want women dragging you down. Some are such attention whores that they forget about the big picture.

[JustMoved24]

i'd go find a 6-7 who likes you for you

[DavidWebbFk]

Like they say Love is blind. I had this girl start walking and get her diet straight and she lost some weight, was always pretty. Before I knew it I was in love and thought there could be nobody better for me.

Does she motivate, support and inspire you to progress in your life? This is probably one of the most important aspects of a relationship. You don't want women dragging you down. Some are such attention whores that they forget about the big picture.

To be fair, she herself is very diet conscious if not lift conscious. She is to a certain extent motivational, certainly more than those other girls. Like she will be interested in why I want to be a doctor and she'll motivate in that sense, compared to the hot chicks who are like, 'Doctor? Damn, so your first cars going to be a bmw?'. noimsayin?

[bikes4u]

To be fair, she herself is very diet conscious if not lift conscious. She is to a certain extent motivational, certainly more than those other girls. Like she will be interested in why I want to be a doctor and she'll motivate in that sense, compared to the hot chicks who are like, 'Doctor? Damn, so your first cars going to be a bmw?'. noimsayin?

It's your life Bro. If you have an attraction for the 4/10 then go for it, she sounds like a good person to be around. Ultimately you want someone who can be your best friend and stand by you no matter what. You never know what the future holds and I know plenty of people that make good $ who have gone through hard times.

On another note------be careful with these girls tryin trap you and make you babbydaddy. They will do this, I know from experience.

[GiveMeTheD]

I dont understand this thread. The 3/10 is not better than the hot sloots, she liked you because you were at her level and she doesnt have option to bag attractive guys.

It's like saying ugly, fat guys are good people because they settle for fat chicks. People date people who have high value as possible, whether that's looks, money, status etc

[DavidWebbFk]

I dont understand this thread. The 3/10 is not better than the hot sloots, she liked you because you were at her level and she doesnt have option to bag attractive guys.

It's like saying ugly, fat guys are good people because they settle for fat chicks. People date people who have high value as possible, whether that's looks, money, status etc

Look man, in our society a 4-5/10 girl has 7-8/10 guys lining up for her just because thats the way it works. She was in no way limited to attracting only me.

[b0yer2]

It depends on what you are looking for. Do you wanna just bang or date a good quality girl?

[GiveMeTheD]

Look man, in our society a 4-5/10 girl has 7-8/10 guys lining up for her just because thats the way it works. She was in no way limited to attracting only me.

lmao no they don't... I have never seen a guy who looks like an 8/10 dating an ugly girl, it doesn't happen. They might bang them as a one off, but even thats unlikely.

[MeFromG]

OP, you are so quick and "precise" with scale on outer beauty, 4, 8, 10 etc. But where is your scale for inner beauty of a person? - What? You don't have one yet? Why not? ... Ah, I see - because you only look silently at someone in a relationship, 24/7... Oh, you don't? B-) Then I'm confused why there is no second scale.

[chirashi]

lmao no they don't... I have never seen a guy who looks like an 8/10 dating an ugly girl, it doesn't happen. They might bang them as a one off, but even thats unlikely.

For all the hate girls get on the misc, they are definitely more willing to overlook looks on guys. Proof: take a walk outside.

To OP:

Hopefully you have enough experience to trust your judgement on who likes you for you. I hope you don't parade around that you're going to be a doctor too...those are the guys who end up with gold diggers.

[Dave1958]

You know, some on MISC might accuse the latter women to be superficial or shallow, but some of them might be more attracted by your drive and determination to change more so than the actual result, so it's important to find out from among them who is interested in just your results and who is interested by the character qualities that led to those results.

If you guess wrong, as they say about tornados and divorce in Arkansas. " someone is about to lose a house trailer "

[coppb]

So you were fat and hot chicks didn't want to fuk you. Now you've improved your appearance, hot chicks now want to fuk you but you're still considering fukn ugly chicks..... Riiiight

[PRico24]

Was on ma mind for a while now,

I lost 15kg over the last 6 months and dropped from 20% to 12-13%.
Facial aesthetics improved as fuark, cheekbones peaking and all.

Heres the social dillema:

Before shredding I was frigging familyzoned (not even freindzoned mane), by like erry girl I came across. There was only this one chick who has liked me regardless of me bulking or me now, but she's like a 3-4/10 misc. standard.

Now that I'm all shredded and ****e, all these 7-8/10 girls who previously FRIENDZONED me and tryna hit me up and all, and now that I've started med school it's gotten worse.

But the question is, who would the misc go for?
The 3-4/10 girl who appreciates you despite your weight.
Or the 8-9/10 who want's you as soon as you get shredded?

LOL ok.

[RageKage37]

8/9 op, dont be stupid.

would you have dated yourself as a fat piece of chit? dont hold it against the 8/9s, just smash now. dont marry em either though.

[niosh]

Bang the hot chick stay friends with the 4/10. Why do you have to be exclusive with either?

Date around, see what you're into.

To be fair, she herself is very diet conscious if not lift conscious. She is to a certain extent motivational, certainly more than those other girls. Like she will be interested in why I want to be a doctor and she'll motivate in that sense, compared to the hot chicks who are like, 'Doctor? Damn, so your first cars going to be a bmw?'. noimsayin?

Hard to imagine someone who lifts regularly and eats well as a 4/10.

Sounds like your scale is off.