She has a friend who is a guy and this fall she'll be moving in with him, another guy, and 1 other girl.
I don't like it.
She has no GOOD (like, really close) female friends here, just this dude she hangs out with every time i'm unavailable.
Help?
What sort of reaction should I have?
(because I'm pretty pissed about it right now. Will be meeting her in an hour or so).
We're 21 year old, by the way. We've been very serious for 1+ years (we're living together currently, but my roommates are returning for hte fall semester in late Aug. so she has to move out)
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08-05-2008, 12:17 PM #1
Gf moving in with guy-friend (reps)
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08-05-2008, 12:21 PM #2
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She's gonna get ****ed every night by the other guy... and the other guys male roommate.. the other girl will probably join in too. It's gonna be like a porn movie every night. 1 on 1, 2 on 1, 2 on 2, facials, bukkake, anal, roleplay, lesbo, gangbang... everything you can imagine will be done to your gf... and not by you.
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08-05-2008, 12:22 PM #3
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08-05-2008, 12:27 PM #7
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08-05-2008, 12:27 PM #8
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08-05-2008, 12:29 PM #9
Yeah, see that's what I'm fighting.
The thing is this is "HER guy friend". Y'know, the one she always runs to when I'm not there to hang out, the one whose ******** wall she'll post on just to say "how was your weekend . crazy as usual? " when she never posts on mine (cuz a. I don't really use mine, b. we live together. We can talk to each other).
I'm having a tough time becoming at ease with this
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08-05-2008, 12:29 PM #10
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08-05-2008, 12:31 PM #11
Brah, I've thought to do that so many times.
The only thing is that
-we have a great relationship. Sex, food, apt. cleaning whenever I want (and she's a 'good sport' about things.
-I don't have any back-ups. I sorta dropped all the rest of the girls I was talking to because things with my gf just got better and better, as they still are today (with the exception of this one problem).
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08-05-2008, 12:32 PM #12
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08-05-2008, 12:33 PM #14
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08-05-2008, 12:36 PM #15
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08-05-2008, 12:39 PM #16
What the fuk is the matter with some girls?
Is she really that oblivious to the fact that this guy wants to completely fuk the **** out of her?
"But he's just a friend!" Am I right?
Listen bro, she is being completely disrespectful to you in doing this. You're telling me the dorms didn't have any more room for her, and that she HAD to room with 2 other guys? Bull****.
Switch it around on your girl. Tell her you're going to room with a girl who is 'good friends' with you and that you'll be taking a shower 3 feet from her bedroom. Let's see her reaction then.
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08-05-2008, 12:42 PM #17
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08-05-2008, 12:43 PM #19
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08-05-2008, 12:44 PM #20
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08-05-2008, 12:45 PM #21
Yeah. He's a punk.
Big ass adams' apple with awkward voice. Like a 6'4" (i'm 6'0") sack of ****.
He just wreaks retardedness...
...but clearly he gives attention to my girl and woman + attention...
Right now they dont see each other that often cuz any time she says she's gonna do something with him I'm like "aww, I got tickets to [some event/party]" and she bails on him and goes with me, but during the school year if they're living together and I gotta study on a thur. night for a friday exam...
It makes it easy for them to just sit back and throw down a beer or two.
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08-05-2008, 12:47 PM #22
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08-05-2008, 12:49 PM #23
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08-05-2008, 12:50 PM #24
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08-05-2008, 12:51 PM #25
yeah, he's a chump.
i love throwin' down brews also, don't get it twisted. I messed up my 3-month clean bulk this weekend cuz on thur/fri night this weekend I had 11+ drinks each night. Fail.
But if they're just chillin one slow evening...that's what I'm scared of.
I'm gonna let her know today how I'd have to make a major choice regarding her if she goes through with this.
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08-05-2008, 12:54 PM #26
It depends on how much you trust her to be honest. If you have had problems before, I would be mad as well and maybe be concerned. It also depends on are they just friends or do they have history? Is there reason to believe they have/could develop feelings?
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08-05-2008, 12:55 PM #27
I had a similar situation with my ex a few years back.
What I did was made sure the guy was always chasing other tail.
In other words, I hooked him up with my ex's friends, or sent chicks his way.
It worked, the guy is still dating the girl I hooked him up with like 4 years ago.
He always had other girls over so he never even bothered my lady.
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08-05-2008, 12:57 PM #28
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08-05-2008, 12:58 PM #29
No, it's just they've been good friends now for a year or so. He lived in her building last year.
I told her "no guy has a girl as a friend unless they want to f*ck you. He's just waiting for you to a) get drunk and have sex with him, b) be dumped by me and run to him, as you always do."
As far as I have seen, it's strictly a platonic relationship, but...with women and men and alcohol...
He's way too f*ggoty for me to ever even want to talk to him. He's just this awkward sack o' ****.
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08-05-2008, 12:59 PM #30
drinking is something i cant live without. im in college, i can drink all i want but it sucks that it hurts my gains a **** load... the memories are worth it. also man, your 19, so if anything goes south, you just lift and **** more biddies
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