Did I win or did she win?

[BigPoppaPumpin]

Last night, I went on a date with this 29 year old girl from Hinge.



We met up at 8ish, drank a bunch, and played some games. We go to her neighborhood bar. The bartenders know her and everything. We kiss a couple times. At around midnight we meet this group of 4, 2 girls and 2 guys. We play beer pong with them. One of the guys, another black dude, is hitting on her hard. At one point, I hear her give him her number. So I'm like **** it, and start touching her a bit. She tells me in front of everyone "don't touch me like that."

I go get a couple drinks and we sit down to talk some more. I go for the kiss. We kiss a bit. Then she pulls back, and says I held it too long. Now it's like 1:30. She chugs her beer. And I still have more than half left in my glass. She says "sorry it didn't work out, but I'm going to go with my friends." In my head I'm like "wtf, I'm still drinking my beer." I tell her "if that's how you feel, then there's nothing I can do about it." She then says "come on, give me a hug." I smile and tap her knee twice. She stands up and says "wow you're not even going to hug me?" And she walks away.

I finish my drink, and I head out of the bar. On my way out, I see her talking to the group of 4 that we met earlier. Something about all this rubs me the wrong way, so I decide on my way home that I am going to be a dick.



I also got a text from a random number. I'm guessing it's her bartender buddy.





This is how you put a dumb sloot in her place. Not gonna text her again. Let her stew in the ****.

[Broooseph]

Rough that you almost got cucked, but as long as you're on a staycation to NC it looks like you handled it alright.

[NotANun21]

lmao she won, clearly

Cos you're sat here making a thread on the misc about to have a wank while she's guzzling some other dudes nob end

[superamped]

u shouldnt have told her shes got big boobs. shouldve called them saggy

[ProbateTed]

Cringe. You looked and acted pathetic for most of the date it seems and then decided to embarrass yourself further afterwards.

[northernlights7]

I hate to break it to you, but it's to call that a "W" if you're dwelling on it enough to make a thread about it on the misc.

[PovertyChinBrah]

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[BigPoppaPumpin]

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Haha that's why I sent the text

Make her feel like chit so she doesn't sleep with the other guy. If I'm not having sex, nobody is

[Maximus93]

Haha that's why I sent the text

Make her feel like chit so she doesn't sleep with the other guy. If I'm not having sex, nobody is

Riiiight, girls don't have sex when they're feeling like chit emotionally.

The girl is a 3/10, move on.

[thunderykoala]

The moment she was talking to another guy and leisurely handing out her personal information is the moment you should've split. Tell the bartender you were on a date and leave her with the tab and leave.

[BigPoppaPumpin]

Just ******** searched the "**** you" phone number. Turns out it's one of her sloot friends. Things just got interdasting.

[makadelic]

Everything was going fine until the text. Should've gone NC. By sending that text you send insecure, psycho vibes proving to her that she was right about not choosing to proceed with you. If you would've just left that night you'd still have your dignity. She sounds slooty and you should be happy you dodged that bullet.

[WitYoChestBoa]

The moment she was talking to another guy and leisurely handing out her personal information is the moment you should've split. Tell the bartender you were on a date and leave her with the tab and leave.

Thissssssss. repped.

[300BLK]

Never a win for the guy unless he smashes

[SwimToTheMoon]

Pull the race card and make her look racist mua ha ha ha

[FU3L]

She won. She rejected you, undoubtedly ended up hooking up with another guy and rustled you enough to tell her off and vent online to a bunch of virgins.

[second2noneBrah]

Lol strong avi to tinder whale ratio

[superamped]

Everything was going fine until the text. Should've gone NC. By sending that text you send insecure, psycho vibes proving to her that she was right about not choosing to proceed with you. If you would've just left that night you'd still have your dignity. She sounds slooty and you should be happy you dodged that bullet.

i disagree. by giving her number to another black brah in the group, it calls for a mean insulting text. bringing her down a notch is justified imo.

u did good opie

[Fishoilman]

She won. She rejected you, undoubtedly ended up hooking up with another guy and rustled you enough to tell her off and vent online to a bunch of virgins.

Hey come on man, we are not ALL virgins. I mean I am but I'm sure someone here seen some pussy.

The moment she was talking to another guy and leisurely handing out her personal information is the moment you should've split. Tell the bartender you were on a date and leave her with the tab and leave.

This would have triggered her more than any text you could send OP

[BigPoppaPumpin]

The moment she was talking to another guy and leisurely handing out her personal information is the moment you should've split. Tell the bartender you were on a date and leave her with the tab and leave.

She knew the bartenders. They prob wouldn't have let me leave, or would've just given her the drinks for free.

She had the home field advantage.

[WitYoChestBoa]

She knew the bartenders. They prob wouldn't have let me leave, or would've just given her the drinks for free.

She had the home field advantage.

She was justified in cucking you

[f00d]

I'm not sure if she won, but she didn't lose, you did, and the text just made it even worse. Should have gone NC. Also why is this a competition again? Viewing it this way probably doesn't help you.

[BigPoppaPumpin]

I'm not sure if she won, but she didn't lose, you did, and the text just made it even worse. Should have gone NC. Also why is this a competition again? Viewing it this way probably doesn't help you.

I usually wouldn't view it as a competition, but she went out of her way to be a rude sloot. So I have to crush her if I can

If I went NC, then she would just go along like nothing happened. She'd bang the black dude a few times, then tell her friends how big of a cuck I am. Now she's telling her friends how much of a dick I am. And now I have random ppl texting "**** you"

A dick >>>>>>>>>>>> a cuck

[fawkingjoocy]

Nobody wins, death is inevitable

[TheRejuvenated]

she won, the fact that you got all assaulty and rapey and jealous after she gave the other dude her number means she won. you shouldve legit just walked out right then and there with no explanation and went NC. she played you

[makadelic]

i disagree. by giving her number to another black brah in the group, it calls for a mean insulting text. bringing her down a notch is justified imo.

u did good opie

Just telling you from a girl's perspective.

What guys think that text makes a girl think:
wahhh I'm ugly I feel bad about myself now

What that text actually makes a girl think:
wow he's that butt hurt that I rejected him. I must be hot chit that I rustled him this much...maybe i do need to lose some weight?...nahhh he's just insecure and had to throw a Hail Mary "I'm gonna hurt you" text.

[superamped]

Just telling you from a girl's perspective.

What guys think that text makes a girl think:
wahhh I'm ugly I feel bad about myself now

What that text actually makes a girl think:
wow he's that butt hurt that I rejected him. I must be hot chit that I rustled him this much...maybe i do need to lose some weight?...nahhh he's just insecure and had to throw a Hail Mary "I'm gonna hurt you" text.

we all know girls lie to cope when it comes to protecting their fragile egos.

[kimm4]

Make her feel like chit so she doesn't sleep with the other guy.

Yeah that's not how it works.

Better luck next time.

[DJGirth]

op you sound butthurt. look at it from another perspective; what if you met up and she was ugly as fukk (not like her pics where she appeared attractive)? obviously you wouldn't try and make a move or follow through with anything she was trying to do (i'd hope). not that you're ugly, but she mightve not been vibing the same in person

this chit happens man lol get over it. can't win em all

[TheRejuvenated]

Yeah that's not how it works.

Better luck next time.

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