Girlfriend never wants to hangout? (reps) (srs)

[YungJoc]

My gf never really wants to hangout. She always says she misses me, but we hardly hangout. Maybe once a week if I'm lucky. Sometimes 2. She says Monday-Thurs is a bad day. (She claims its because of school.) And she doesnt like to hangout on Sunday.
Used to we would always hangout but now she always has excuses or she just doesn't want to. I admit it is usually really boring when we hangout... But so what?

What can I do to make her wanna hangout alot more? Its like she never wants to.

[YungJoc]

bump

[EuropeanHammer]

She is probably busy with other guys.

[YungJoc]

She is probably busy with other guys.

Figured someone would say that. But no, she isn't. I'm close to her parents so they would tell me. Plus, anytime she uploads a photo the exact location shows up. She is always at her house

[TheSaltyAngus]

is she taking AP classes? she is too busy with homework. Once or twice a week is enough

[Diamond27]

You said it yourself, it's boring when you hang out. Make it more interesting and she'll wanna hang out more.

[YungJoc]

You said it yourself, it's boring when you hang out. Make it more interesting and she'll wanna hang out more.

And how would you reccomend that? We ALWAYS do the same thing. Watch a movie, makeout, just chill on the couch. It does get boring. But I don't know what else to do. She doesn't like the movies or eating out. (She doesn't like eating in front of me.)

[YungJoc]

Sad second bump

[YokoDude]

Do something different for a date...not just the dinner and movie
As the man it's your responsibility to make sure she's not bored.

But honestly if you can't have fun with your gf something's not right.

[YokoDude]

She doesn't let me eat her out.

Why not?

[YungJoc]

Why not?

lmao. I guess I dont get how to make it fun?

[Jalexander1994]

Sad

[southparkbbb]

1. shes bored hanging out because you guys never do anything

2. she could be hanging out with guys without her parents knowing

3. doesnt want to be together anymore


either way, fix something

[KyleMQuinn]

Move on OP

[royalz19]

Do something else then when hanging out? Mini golf? Go on a jog? Ice skating? Bowling? Do something interactive. Make it special.

[YungJoc]

1. shes bored hanging out because you guys never do anything

2. she could be hanging out with guys without her parents knowing

3. doesnt want to be together anymore


either way, fix something

She is only 15

[Aerojh]

is she taking AP classes? she is too busy with homework. Once or twice a week is enough

maybe this if she is

You said it yourself, it's boring when you hang out. Make it more interesting and she'll wanna hang out more.

this

She is probably busy with other guys.

was gonna say probably this but seen your post op

my sis use to do this when she was in highschool
she would skip school and go see other guys when she had a boyfriend

but like above you said it is boring when you guys hang out


and to reconnect?

maybe go somewheres to hang out?


well heres a question
do you feel like you and your girlfriend are drifting apart?

[BrandersonBruh]

Whatever you do, do not give an ultimatum. If it's to boring when you hang out take her somewhere! Go for a walk... wrestle or something. If shes busy doing work maybe suggest you could help her? Point is if you want to see and talk to her more do it.

[YungJoc]

maybe this if she is


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was gonna say probably this but seen your post op

my sis use to do this when she was in highschool
she would skip school and go see other guys when she had a boyfriend

but like above you said it is boring when you guys hang out


and to reconnect?

maybe go somewheres to hang out?


well heres a question
do you feel like you and your girlfriend are drifting apart?

We are not drifting apart I'd say. She isn't in any AP classes. She does have a good few school projects though. After school, she usually doesn't wanna do anything.


Oh, and she said so before "I'm tired of doing the same thing every time we hangout."
But then again, I don't know of anything really fun to do

[Mercworx]

She's cheating on you, break up with her and get a girl that actually likes you, the difference will blow your mind. And yes I'm srs.

[southparkbbb]

just because her parents dont know if shes hanging with guys, or that shes only 15 doesnt mean she cant cheat. im just saying its a chance she could be, but not neccesarily. dont be in denial

[CoolCoco]

she wants the d

[Aerojh]

We are not drifting apart I'd say. She isn't in any AP classes. She does have a good few school projects though. After school, she usually doesn't wanna do anything.


Oh, and she said so before "I'm tired of doing the same thing every time we hangout."
But then again, I don't know of anything really fun to do

well do you live in a small town? or big town? (talking like lots of stores and places to go) and what is the population size of your city big?

[Llewy]

We are not drifting apart I'd say. She isn't in any AP classes. She does have a good few school projects though. After school, she usually doesn't wanna do anything.


Oh, and she said so before "I'm tired of doing the same thing every time we hangout."
But then again, I don't know of anything really fun to do

Make it more fun like go bowling or go out to dinner sometimes or even at either one of your places just pick a recipe out of a cook book and cook it together haha girls love the corny things.
Definently kept my girlfriend happy for the last 2 years

[AirStriKee]

Oh, and she said so before "I'm tired of doing the same thing every time we hangout."

this means she wants you to take your relationship with her to the next level.
she wants the d

[l2evolution]

Give her the D

[tallntoned]

do something fun n exciting, like bungee jumping or skydiving, thatd be sick!

[Bugler666]

It's already been said, but I'll say it again...


When you guys hang out its boring. You need to do something new. Doesn't really matter what it is - so long as it's something different to what you normally do. Sounds like your relationship has got stuck in a rut and you need to hop out of it!


Suggest new things, if she's not up for it - dump her. You made an effort, she's no longer interested - you might as well beat her to it. If she doesn't want to make time to be with you she's not worth your time OP.

[NaturalDOTrus]

She is cheating on you, those bitches are stupid. I already had one, it was my mistake not to broke up earlier. Don't repeat my fails.

[mklifting]

hate to break it to you op but as it has been said above by many there is someone else... dump the bish before she dumps you. SRS, had a similar thing happen to me. THERE IS SOMEONE ELSE, she might not necessarily be cheating, but shes interested in someone else